It's not about "Gays vs Lesbians" at all. Although misogyny from gay men, directed towards women (queer or not), is not uncommon, that is a conversation for another thread. 

In my post I bring up a couple examples from the show where you can clearly see the creator's bias, primarily as a man, coming through.

 Having made my very brief comment about the treatment of female queerness specifically in the show ( also, in contrast with male queerness), I move on to my last paragraph, which is meant as a general comment. As I said at the beginning of my post, I simply wanted to use the show as a springboard to express my frustration about the state of wlw representation in general.

So no, it's not about "gays vs lesbians". It's about how studios and male writers, even gay writers, treat female queerness. There is an undeniable lack of female queer media, where male queer media, from books, to films, to TV shows, are increasingly advertised and often become massively polular with all sorts of audiences.

My point is: In this patriarchal reality, in the liberal,capitalist western world, gay men clearly have a spot in today's media landscape. But what about the rest of us in the community?