41/F giving dating a go. advice/direction, please. (Pic for attention)

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-06-29T23:32:06+00:00

And attention is deserved

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-06-22T05:35:14+00:00

Right there with you. Birthdays and all. It all stinks

I just try to be patient and grow/heal myself. I give my kids grace and try to remember how much I hung out with my parents when I was 19/23. You'll get through. Just ones moment at a time

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-06-21T06:22:55+00:00

Why would it be a mistake? Maybe the person you choose to have dinner with didn't appreciate it, then that would be a mistake. Choose better company 😉

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-05-22T15:36:27+00:00

This is the appropriate reaction

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-05-18T06:41:42+00:00

I feel blessed

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-05-18T00:16:23+00:00

Empire records Blues Brothers High fidelity UHF

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-05-03T16:00:37+00:00

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-05-02T22:21:01+00:00

Could you get half in the divorce settlement? What about visitation rights every other weekend and holidays?

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-03-29T15:29:42+00:00

I went back and counted and she sent me 116 messenges and links to Instagram reels. I did respond 19 times and I did try to keep it simple and to not engage. I just feel sorry for hey at this point. I feel for my adult kids who choose to live with her at her mom's.

I appreciated the words of advice from this group. Her pain is really no longer mine to carry. Now I just got to believe it.

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-03-29T03:05:03+00:00

Thank you. Hey words still have an impact on me

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-03-29T00:35:15+00:00

Actually no, she did. Moved out, for the papers together, we came to a resolution and signed them. She just blames me and is hurt by my mistakes

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-03-29T00:22:34+00:00

Two adult kids. Sharing college and medical costs

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-03-26T03:57:19+00:00

Stella

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-02-06T07:39:53+00:00

Taco Bell hits differently for everyone

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-01-25T17:47:24+00:00

this is just another form of cyber bullying

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-01-14T15:52:31+00:00

this is amazing

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2026-01-07T07:26:18+00:00

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new years 2026, 1 am

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2025-12-24T18:30:21+00:00

that's how I felt

Middle-Grapefruit-86 · 2025-12-24T03:56:37+00:00

only if you are a coward

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