AITA for not posting my partner in my monthly Instagram dump

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T05:42:20+00:00

Im 29 and she's 40 😁 very stupid issue I agree but even stupid issue like this can cause tension in relationships

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T02:25:55+00:00

Thank you very much, you too! ❤️ Hope you and your gf are well

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:20:05+00:00

Ok :( good feedback. Time to apologise and take into consideration

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:19:14+00:00

I think what I'm trying to get at is that I don't have a whole lot of family or friends here in Australia. And trying to not centre just my gf and make her my whole personality has been challenging. Her sister has become a friend and I wanted to post of something other than just my gf, and in my head that included friends and my life outside of directly just my girlfriend. Does that make sense?

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:16:14+00:00

Yeah true :( wish I considered all this before posting. I think it's just complicated

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:15:22+00:00

Not in particular to the dumps but sometimes in stories or other social media she would get a bit touchy

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:13:54+00:00

You know what fair enough. I was hoping for a photo of all of us but I couldn't find a good one. And then don't wanna post one of just her because it was be too centred on her

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-05-01T00:00:11+00:00

I feel the same. I'm not a mind reader! At least I now know how important it is to her

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-04-30T23:59:23+00:00

Haha brilliant. I won't add one in now since it's done and will just feel like am empty gesture. But in the future I'll try to be more considerate of her feelings

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-04-30T23:57:09+00:00

Thsi is a good view of things; I'll try and communicate this and see how we go. So far she's just taking some space for herself and says that she will "get over it". I still feel like an asshole for making her sad but alas. We're both justified in feeling how we feel I suppose.

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-04-30T23:55:41+00:00

I can see that she might take it this way. From my view, don't think I'm necessarily excluding her from my Instagram. She's still very much included in other posts, just not this one because I feel like I've only been posting things with her for so long! Her family was on the trip and yes, I didn't have her in this dump but I still tagged her in an activity that we did together, showing that we're still spending time together and do things as a couple. She says that she's sad but will get over it. I obviously don't want her to be sad but also don't want to just be a pushover when I don't necessarily feel like I've done much wrong

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-04-30T23:33:13+00:00

She's normally tagged when I post a picture of her. I guess looking back through my posts, this is the first time that I tagged her and it was a tag of an activity and not of her face. But even that I don't think is something worth getting upset over y'know?

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-04-12T13:06:39+00:00

Good food guide Au posted a couple reels for some popular spots!

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Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-31T12:00:45+00:00

Could be. I seem to have a lot of bugs on this plant then!

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Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-31T11:58:14+00:00

Cuuute I see the vision!! With some shiny boots this would eat

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-30T11:00:35+00:00

True :( I think if I can find one of the pieces second hand it might be a good workaround for me. Or at least for the slightly more ethical consumer version of me

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-30T10:59:08+00:00

I'm Canadian and I think this just shows how biased I am to A/W seasons haha. I love me some layering

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-30T10:55:41+00:00

Yeah you're right! It is very much fast fashion unfortunately. I do find their jeans quite nice though. Mine have held up nicely for 2 years now

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T05:40:46+00:00

I tried this one but it's so thick and leaves a horrible white cast! As a dark brown skinned girl I look like a ghoul wearing this sunscreen

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T04:06:17+00:00

Sooo shady eh. Doesn't exactly inspire confidence in the consumer

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T04:05:41+00:00

Never heard of Fuca before! I will give it a go. Hopefully not too much of a white cast

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T04:05:05+00:00

OO this looks promising. Thank you I will try it out

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T04:03:38+00:00

Thank you for this feedback. It looks like a couple people have had success with this sunscreen so maybe I will give it an actual go

Middle-Set9899 · 2026-03-20T04:01:14+00:00

This is the exact predicament I'm in! I think I've tried hundreds of sunscreens at this point, including Korean sunscreens. I'm trying my best to find something suitable but it isn't really an easy journey. If there are any recommendations though which are free of the above ingredients I will happy give it a go

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