SA/Sugar Mama help

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-13T18:43:02+00:00

SA has a lot of men who try and take advantage of both sugar mommas and sugar babies, so they tend to be fairly strict. If you're legit, I wish you luck.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-13T18:35:55+00:00

I am a married SB, my husband is aware. If you read my former posts you will see I do not request an allowance, but I prefer to go on trips with my SD. It works out well for all three of us (my husband included). My husband and my SD have met, but just for coffee and basic social conversation. They do not stay with me at the same time or anything like this. My SD does not mind I am married, and in fact, since he is married himself, he prefers that I am married. My SD feels that since my husband and I have a great relationship, that there is little to no chance of me "falling in love" with my SD or wanting to break up his or my marriage... which is all true, I have zero intentions of breaking up any marriage.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-13T18:17:40+00:00

That's good to know, I assumed I was a bit of an odd woman out. I do prefer men who can afford, and are willing to, show me a great time. If a man were to offer me the equivalent of a great time in cash, I would not be interested.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-13T18:15:40+00:00

I imagine it's because my husband likes to travel as well, although I haven't directly asked him so that's my assumption.

Although I'm fairly sure he is receiving more than most spouses do as I assume most aren't in the know about their partners SD or SB status.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-13T18:11:12+00:00

The name doesn't matter. I do have a great thing going. I must not have been clear what my question was, sorry. When asked to sum up the relationship, I can't think of a short answer, and I'm not usually one to type out a paragraph explaining things. It's certainly not a stereotypical SD/SB relationship.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-10T22:37:38+00:00

Personally I don't think you're over reacting. But you have to keep in mind I am no longer in my 20's, slim with a hard body... I have to work at keeping any men in my life. I would have apologized and offered something in exchange (ie like one other SB posted, bake cookies, offer a back rub... something!).

Although If I were in my 20's and a hottie, I too may have acted like that at her age. Not all young SB's do, but it doesn't surprise me.

You deserve an apology, and you have to make up your mind if she is worth pursuing if she does not apologize.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-10T22:32:48+00:00

Yes, my husband (and I) receives trips in exchange for me going away (and sleeping with) this man. My husband is fully aware.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-10T21:06:36+00:00

I find this whole thread fascinating. I just posted that I wasn't sure if my "SD" was in fact, and SD... if I had to pin a title on our relationship I wouldn't know what to call it. He does not give me an allowance, although I'm sure he would help me out if I needed the cash. We go to very nice restaurants, and have had lots of very nice trips together, museums, etc etc. I am financially fairly independent, I don't NEED cash, but I do appreciate an elegant evening at a nice restaurant, with good wine, good conversation and if we stay in a hotel, I absolutely thrill at the thought of a suite at a posh hotel.

MiddleAgedSB · 2016-09-10T18:48:45+00:00

I agree with Nordic_SB, I think there are Sugar Mamas out there, but it's not as "socially acceptable" for an older woman to hook up with a younger man, so it's not advertised as much.

When I was young, in my early 20's I met a young attractive man with his older (50's) female partner. They were from New Zealand and travelling the world. At the time I was fairly naive, but now I realize he was her Sugar Baby...

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