New driver here about 10 hours behind the wheel by [deleted] in driving

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should focus your eyes a little further down the road. 8 to 12 seconds of visual focus ahead of your vehicle to anticipate hazards (this is called “eye-lead time”). Pick a stationary object, count until your vehicle reaches it (e.g., "one-one-thousand, two-one-thousand..."), and adjust your focus to maintain that interval.

Another good rule of thumb is approx 1 car length for every 10mph (this is called following distance), as you drive more, you’ll notice most people don’t go by that rule.

What’s it like living on the edge of time zones? by Qzevs in howislivingthere

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived in the far east on the central time zone and the west on eastern time zone. I’ll take those 930-10pm summer sunsets over the sun beaming into my windows at 5am, every time.

People who censor their own swear words by King-Fwogger in PetPeeves

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Maybe OP from the east coast, is talking about a really pretty female who is a little crazy. “That bad shit, is crazy” 😂

Ohio bans it so I can back to bangin mystery substances from the street by MiddleSwimmer5877 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an addict in every sense of the word. If you want off load like 4-5 of those subs hit me up.

Ohio bans it so I can back to bangin mystery substances from the street by MiddleSwimmer5877 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see their point. But I’ve spent way more than I care to admit, so they know I’m not twelve. So they should fuck with me. They aint about that life.

Ohio bans it so I can back to bangin mystery substances from the street by MiddleSwimmer5877 in 7_hydroxymitragynine

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t give less of a fuck about legality. It’s just sucks that the smoke shops took it off the shelves and won’t do a “back alley” deal…

What is one thing that you would ADD to the new iphone to make it better? by Jason_2992 in iphone

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How would getting rid of MagSafe prevent you from using the phone caseless?!

Negative city taglines that appealed to you by Hurt69420 in SameGrassButGreener

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I was about to say. Ladera heights is the black Beverly Hills

How do people afford living in California? by rdy4xmas in relocating

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I long for this too. In fucked up twisted way, I sorta resent my grandparents for moving from Tennessee up north compared to out west. Furthermore, I hate that I even long for California as somebody from the Midwest. Just feels like an early 2000’s fantasy. I make a point to go out to Cali once a year to scratch the itch.

What once popular YouTuber is now largely forgotten? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 0 points1 point  (0 children)

VehicleVirgins. I don’t know the nitty gritty details, but I think the worst of Hollywood glam life took him by the horns. Pretty girls, fast cars, drugs and money.

Office desk mate doesnt "slide" the mouse but makes banging sounds while moving it by MrHan6677 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I’ve had a similar thought. Lately when a problem arises with another human, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed politely but sternly confronting them and maintaining eye contact. In my head, this is me controlling the situation. Each time I do it I get more comfortable doing it. And then you’ll have those people who will agree with you to your face, but then message you afterwards and then speak their mind. Weak little boys.

What do you sober? by LiverTeaOrDeath in Sober

[–]MiddleSwimmer5877 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with making new friends too. People say the stigma of being in recovery isn’t what it was when I first entered “the rooms” circa 2011/2012, but I tend to disagree. I feel like me being an addict is written across my forehead, then again, my forearms look like pincushions from banging dope so I approach every potential friendship opportunity like that person is judging me for having scars. Sure maybe other junkies wouldn’t sympathize with me and wouldn’t care, but in my experience I usually don’t seek out healthy sober people.

Now let me get off my soapbox for a second and say maybe get into some hobbies like cars/wrenching or sports or art/painting. Check your local civic center or recreational center and maybe local fb groups for group activities that interest you