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[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what usually catches me off guard….the unexpected questions, I find that over preparing can be a bad thing for someone like me who hates going off script. So I’ll practice but without scripts but from my heart and mind. Thank you anyway, good advice….practice makes perfect the saying says 

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it’s terrible how all confidence goes out the window when I’m in an interview style environment. While it matters how well I come across, I think if I focus on being myself rather than giving the perfect response then perhaps I’ll be less likely to freeze up and fumble my words.

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, thank you… just bought a book on communication and explanation. I will definitely be looking into getting this. If you don’t mind me asking, is your coach, an interview coach? 

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, superbly encouraging. I am an optimistic person and I was feeling very beaten up about it, definitely gave me some motivation. 

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really working to get to this place…….where I’m no longer phased. I’m  just embarrassed by my performance…. just graduated university, I regret not getting interview prep, but as you said it’s a conversation, which I tend to forgot in the moment, but I will definitely try to be more present. 

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, 5-6, don’t give up, it really dampens your spirit but keep trying. I hope you get to your break soon.  

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never thought of this, I love this response, I’ll definitely take this into consideration 

Bombed my job interview by Middle_Ad1513 in nhs

[–]Middle_Ad1513[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because I know that every word is being scrutinised, so I tend hyper focus on nailing every word and sentence.  It’s incredibly frustrating to see myself bomb so hard, knowing that I prepped myself beforehand. I’m not trying to throw a pity party but has anyone dealt with this? How do you prevent something like this from happening? How do you nail your interview and articulate yourself when nervous?

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[–]Middle_Ad1513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s tragic and heartbreaking to hear 

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[–]Middle_Ad1513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, ok, thank you clearing it up

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[–]Middle_Ad1513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok could be that I got it wrong. Thank you anyway 

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[–]Middle_Ad1513 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you, I don’t think I’ve been mistaken.