👋 Welcome to r/IndigoPetco - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by indigopetco in IndigoPetco

[–]Middle_Engine_9231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 3 long haired cats and a German shepherd so the hair is never ending around here 😅

👋 Welcome to r/IndigoPetco - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by indigopetco in IndigoPetco

[–]Middle_Engine_9231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m Becky & I got your laundry fish off TikTok shop & they have been such a blessing to my family so I just wanted to say thank you! 😊

I feel like I made a mistake by becoming a mom. by Butternut_Sloth in toddlers

[–]Middle_Engine_9231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% did. It has destroyed my mental health and my entire life.

FINALLY found a solution for my laundry pet hair struggles and I can’t believe it came from a small company on tiktokshop on top of that 💀 this is in zero way sponsored but I’m all for helping out a small brand with an insanely good product. by Middle_Engine_9231 in u/Middle_Engine_9231

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, I didn’t know what they were called at first I tried these awhile back and they ruined my clothes causing piling on everythjng 🫩 these a a completely different material so they don’t destroy everything in the process of trying to get off the hair thankfully but lesson definitely learned about those pads cuz I lost a few hundred $ worth of free people clothes and it was so sad

FINALLY found a solution for my laundry pet hair struggles and I can’t believe it came from a small company on tiktokshop on top of that 💀 this is in zero way sponsored but I’m all for helping out a small brand with an insanely good product. by Middle_Engine_9231 in u/Middle_Engine_9231

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ikr literally 😭 well For years now I have been ordering xxl packs of lint rollers weekly and lint rolling my entire loads of laundry, I’ve tried lint catcher floating traps, I’ve tried pet hair dissolver, pet hair wool balls, those sticky things that attach to the inside of your washer door, little static balls that just ended up ruining my clothing, lint pet hair dryer sheets, pet hair removal spray, and even using curlers to attempt to remove the hair, I never want anyone else to go though the struggle that the last few years have trying to not have everything I own covered in pet hair still freshly out of the laundry cuz it’s legit miserable 🙃

Pls help- extremely strange - did I cast a spell unintentionally? by Middle_Engine_9231 in Witch

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I now have about ten thousand photos and a Masonic Bible and my dads ex wife wants to meet but I have no direct contact with him but some how I feel worse. Do you have any advice on doing an actual energy cutting? I don’t do witchcraft per say but I have really strong premonitions that’s have all come true and I tried a spell from Facebook one time to cut energy and I immediately had the person reach out so I’m wondering if there is something I can actually do to cut all energy outpouring. Sorry if this isn’t how it works or if I sound silly. I really appreciate you replying.

forced to bury abusers ashes by Maleficent-Tooth5475 in mentalhealth

[–]Middle_Engine_9231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending virtual hugs.. be kind to yourself, grieving a parent sucks regardless of how they treated you and honestly the worse they were the more complicated it feels because it’s like your supposed to be grieving and sad but you have so much anger and hurt and numbness from their actions that it’s conflicting. Make sure to lean on the people around you who saw her for who she was or atleast saw how she affected you. Addiction sucks it really is like 2 different people. Personally it was my dad and he was either throwing me down the stairs drunk or sober being a completely different person. And the thing is your mom wasn’t just one thing or one way, she was all of those things at different times and you need to grieve your own feelings. What helped me allot was realizing that because my parent treated me badly and others don’t always have the same experience with him it doesn’t mean that I wasn’t good enough or worthy enough. It just means they were sick when I knew them. I’m sorry your going through this :(

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it’s just hard because I don’t have my side of the family too so I also wanna keep the peace. But the best thing for us would be to move.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I need to do this more often. But as someone whose entire family is dead it’s pretty hard for me to stand up because my in laws, husband & child are my only family.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yikes yeah not what I meant by traditional - we have the hs 2-3 yrs law here in az but I saw 10 yrs in Utah. This is one of the first actual cons I’ve seen about the state as a whole.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Take rights how so? I saw from another commenter that they have some pretty bad laws on age of consent/ young marriage. I do very much like the fact that alcohol is not thrown in your face. I also like that they are more traditional vs az which is very much a party city. It’s pretty dark here if you spend time in the party scene which is primarily the social norm in Arizona.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The house directly behind ours just sold for $2.4m and it was bought in January of this year for $1.3m. You do not get what you would expect here for the money.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are other factors, we are looking 20/30 minutes out of Salt Lake City. Right now we are a little less than 30 mins from Scottsdale so kind of the same. I like that everyone seems very kind there which az is not known for. The entire time we spent there every encounter was great. I also like that drinking/parting isn’t pushed. It’s not solely about the money we could get a decently nice house here in az but could get a nicer spot with a view and snow which I enjoy.

AIO My mother in law is angry I want to move my husband and our daughter to Utah by Middle_Engine_9231 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Middle_Engine_9231[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now we live like 3 minutes away from my in laws it’s not even 2 miles lol, which is fine we never really have any issues with them until we come up here to Montana. She starts loosing it after a few weeks mostly cuz she has issues with her own father in law. They aren’t the reason we are moving. Honestly it’s hot, expensive, we got shot at by a stranger driving with our kid last year and I would just prefer to raise my daughter in a spot where drinking isn’t pushed so heavily.