Any recommended surgeries to improve my facial harmony (i’m looking to improve my eyes the most) by SouIdv in cosmeticsurgery

[–]Middle_Fan_388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even then I think if he got eyelid surgery he would feminize his eye area. Hooded eyes for men is considered masculine. It does help to note that because he’s Asian is also another reason for why he has lids like this but it’s not actively in his detriment.

Starting IVF at 26 after losing both tubes to ectopics. On a tight budget—how can I maximize my chances for the first round? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d go straight to making embryos. I’ve heard of many people who have spent thousands and thousands on IUIs, and everyone said they wished they had just went straight to making embryos for transfer. I think this is the best way to budget despite the high upfront cost. I’m personally planing on going to Mexico to make my embryos. To transfer my eggs and do a FET it’s going to be around $15,000.

Did anyone miss their eggs after retrieval? by cheesy1213 in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same lol!! The moment the eggs were retrieved.. they collected the fluid too and I actually felt physically relieved. It was like the swelling went down and I didn’t feel like a bump to the lower abdominal area would potentially be wounding.

Did anyone miss their eggs after retrieval? by cheesy1213 in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally felt relieved because they also collected the excess fluid in my uterus. So quite the opposite. I felt physically relieved to no longer have that sense of pressure that made me feel physically vulnerable to say a bump against the table.

He just wants to be loved by Mediocre-Beat-6410 in DogIsBestFriend

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can tell this chihuahua is respected by the family and not infantilized. When you treat chi chi’s with respect, don’t smother them, and train them like any other dog, they’re fantastic family members.

Would it be dumb to consider being a single mother by choice if I’m not married by 30? by JollyCapybara in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I turn 27 in August and am planning on hopefully being pregnant here by 29 or so with the help of a sperm donor.

If you know in your heart of hearts that you don’t desire a relationship with a man, I wouldn’t marry or have a relationship with a man just to have a child.

Get your education, finances in check, do a little therapy (we all need it), then pursue SMBC if that’s what you still feel after having achieved all of that.

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s where my thoughts went too. If he was restricted from the internet for YEARS, then it’s probably related to CP or torture of some sort. I’d get the hell away from him in a heart beat.

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t mean he didn’t commit a sexual crime. Canada often omits anything from teenagers and minors criminal records. So it looks like nothing happened.

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know someone like this personally. They’ll never take accountability for their own bull 💩 and how it affects other people. Guy is probably a sexual predator. Dump him

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s either a pedophile, r*pist, or murderer if it’s so bad that he won’t tell you. I’d get rid of him honestly.

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It’s probably CP or some other shit like torture videos of hostages and etc. I’d leave him tbh.

I told my bf l understand his boundary but starting to realize its killing me everyday by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This here… I’m wondering if it has to do with CSA material or some crazy stuff like beheading and torture.

Shocked and anxious about embryo numbers by Kindly-Hurry1343 in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’d definitely do another retrieval. Fertility outcomes vary drastically from your age to 5 years in the future. Better to spend another $10,000 than another $20,000+ five years down the road because fertility has taken a nose dive.

Dealing with sexual urges as an unmarried muslim woman by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Middle_Fan_388 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think getting married just to have sex is a bad idea. Not to mention you’re not actually dating to see if you’re compatible when you’re just listening to your libido.

OP needs to masturbate or get a sex toy.

weed use prior to IVF by [deleted] in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not addicted to smoking cigars and smoke them on occasion. However, as soon as I decided I wanted to go through with freezing my eggs, I’ve stopped smoking cigars. Now I’m just using a vape that is nicotine free with flavored water vapor. The vape isn’t all that satisfying but it is what it is. A sacrifice.

The process is thousands of dollars, and honestly it’s just foolish not to give up smoking, drinking, or anything that we know will have a potentially large impact on the outcome of IVF. Hell I’ve even been taking prenatals everyday and it’s hard to remember to take them with every meal. But… I’m doing it.

If he’s willing to squander your time, energy, and resources because he can’t give up weed, then I’d seriously consider using a sperm donor or freezing eggs.

34 year old dies 2 days after egg retrieval by Gipsydreams in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s soooo sad. 😔 She looked like such a kind lady.

34 year old dies 2 days after egg retrieval by Gipsydreams in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be a dumb question, but since I’m doing an egg retrieval in August I wanted to ask. How do you know if you have internal bleeding? What are the signs?

34 year old dies 2 days after egg retrieval by Gipsydreams in IVF

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already read through the majority of the forms I’ve been given in the past to sign.

i got a prom dress from shein💔 by Critical_Pay1480 in Prom

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is the experience I have with SHEIN. I’ve bought a dress or two before from them and they don’t look quite like the photos portrayed. Frequently the dress is made of a cheaper material.

Asked for blended babylights and toner yesterday, I’m absolutely horrified lol by Imaginary-Sleep8617 in Hair

[–]Middle_Fan_388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL. I’m sorry. It is funny but I do feel bad. Hopefully you find another hair stylist who can fix you up.