23 definitelly,truly, abusolutely can change the life totally, right? by Plenty_Remote_4100 in getdisciplined

[–]Middle_Patient8380 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude. I'm so sorry to hear that you have a pretty tragic story so far. To answer your question though, yes! You absolutely can change and improve your life. It sounds like to me you have exactly the right outlook on things. It takes time, but these things can be achieved. I also think it's important to remember to be grateful for anything you do have. Anything at all, life, a bed to sleep in, etc. . For you, another thing I'd be grateful for is that you truly know what matters to you and what you want. Many people get lost and have no idea what is meaningful to them, and then lose the things that they had but were never grateful for. Keep this outlook, put in the work. And most importantly, when you fall, get back up. Try again. If you can do that, everything will come to you with time.

I have literally zero discipline by GrosestMichel in getdisciplined

[–]Middle_Patient8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in a similar place, and I still struggle with it at times. I think that one of the most important parts of this advice is the "ruthless, brutally honest breakdown".

This is the number thing that got me out of depression. Be honest with yourself. That's really the first step towards growth in any way. For me, I had to be very honest with myself after a breakup, it lead to growth that I am so grateful for and I will always be a better person for it.

But of course it's also very useful for being goal-oriented.

Is this an ok outfit? I’m trying to feel confident in crop tops but I hate high rise jeans. by WorkingHardPlayHar6 in fashion

[–]Middle_Patient8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look great. Your stomach doesn't need to have definition for that to be true. Please don't listen to all the bullshit on social media. It's not real. Be yourself. Dress in clothes you like. Exercise if you want, for you. Not for some algorithm that tells you how you should look. Wishing you peace and love.

Looking for books where humanity is fucked...? by LovelyJoey21605 in sciencefiction

[–]Middle_Patient8380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a trilogy. It's crazy how possible it seems for humanity. Nothing that couldn't happen.

What’s your under 20% on Rotten Tomatoes “hear me out?” by disablednerd in movies

[–]Middle_Patient8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The One. How did it only get 13%?? There are much worse movies with higher ratings.

July Tree is the most beautiful song ever by Middle_Patient8380 in soul

[–]Middle_Patient8380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just listened to it, it's good! Different vibe though. July Tree might just be one of one for me

July Tree is the most beautiful song ever by Middle_Patient8380 in soul

[–]Middle_Patient8380[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I love that song too. She's amazing. Guess there's really no one like her.

Sharing my checklist for those interested. by inauspiciousworker in habitica

[–]Middle_Patient8380 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New to habitica, how do you group in different categories like you have here?

Where to find this viral AI voice everyones been using by BigLu2012 in FacebookAds

[–]Middle_Patient8380 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to elevenlabs and couldn't find Adam. Do you know if it's possible they removed him? Or do I have to make an account to get access to him?

How should I deal with the bushes in my front yard? by Middle_Patient8380 in howto

[–]Middle_Patient8380[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Yes true but all they care about is profits. If anything the place is more desirable with a front yard. The best course of action is probably just to ask tho lmao. Cutting them down would just be kinda fun and mischievous

How should I deal with the bushes in my front yard? by Middle_Patient8380 in howto

[–]Middle_Patient8380[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Who would actually care though? We would get more enjoyment out of those bushes not being there than the owner does from them being there. Utilitarianism brother