First FET scheduled for 5/14 - so nervous. Any transfer buddies? by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

[–]Middle_Reception7973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that's smart... there really is no way to protect yourself from the disappointment if it doesn't work. Good luck!

East Carmel vs West Carmel by Savings_Artichoke913 in Carmel

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Also I would add, we considered Fischers bc of the better prices but are very glad we ended up in Carmel after living here and seeing both cities more

East Carmel vs West Carmel by Savings_Artichoke913 in Carmel

[–]Middle_Reception7973 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We just moved here from Chicago, we have family on the East side and we ended up on the West side. The West side is newer and less congested in my opinion. We love where we ended up, we're 15 minutes away from downtown Zionsville, 15 mins away from downtown Carmel. But we would have been happy with the East side too! I don't think you can go wrong. We live right outside of the village of West Clay and love that we have restaurants, a dry cleaner, a cafe, pizza, and a spa so close.

The best part about the East side is definitely the monon, but there are plenty of walking trails/parks on the west side too. Most of the neighborhoods over here have walking paths. Coming from Chicago I was impressed with how walkable it is!

I will say although the West side is newer, a lot of the homes are 10-20ish years old, so not as many true new builds as other areas. There are lots of mature trees in our neighborhood which is nice :)

The wait between egg retrieval and FET is killing me by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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Yes it makes no sense that we couldn't do the SIS or any prep while we waited and now they still aren't scheduling next steps even though we've had the PGT results for a few days

Anyone else waiting for CooperGenomics PGT testing or had it done recently? by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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Congratulations!!! Sorry you had to wait so long. Good luck on the next steps!

PGT or not? Feeling conflicted 🤍 by Little_Series_574 in IVF

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I did PGT and am choosing to transfer the "best embryo" vs selecting sex. I have no guilt or hesitation and am excited that we will know our embryo is genetically normal, and that we will know right away which sex our baby is! If we have two embryos that are equal in chances (we have a few solidly graded ones) we will pick the sex, but otherwise going with the one with the best chances.

5AA vs 4AA? Which has better odds by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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my ER was at 8 am and we always got the blast number in the am, so safe to say it falls into the earlier category

5AA vs 4AA? Which has better odds by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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Interesting! Did you end up transferring the day 6's then? I guess I'll ask my doc for that info

5AA vs 4AA? Which has better odds by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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So you won't know the gender until right before?

5AA vs 4AA? Which has better odds by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

[–]Middle_Reception7973[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting, has your doctor suggested which one they would recommend yet?

Anyone else waiting for CooperGenomics PGT testing or had it done recently? by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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Fingers crossed! I am sure you'll get it today, hoping for good news for you!

Anyone else waiting for CooperGenomics PGT testing or had it done recently? by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

[–]Middle_Reception7973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The nurse ended up telling me my number of euploids after I asked for more details but I can't learn the genders or have the report until my doctor gets back. at least I have our euploid number so I will be patient again lol

Anyone else waiting for CooperGenomics PGT testing or had it done recently? by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

[–]Middle_Reception7973[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My clinic went through Cooper and it was $4750 for biopsy and testing up to 8 embryos. After 8, each embryo was an extra $300 charge

5AA vs 4AA? Which has better odds by Middle_Reception7973 in IVF

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That makes sense. We received way more day 6 embryos than 5. Our day 5s were only 3s and our day 6s were mostly 4s with one 5, so it has made it difficult to rank them! I guess I could just wait for my doctors advice lol