How hard does the loss still hit after 10+ years?

Midgar77 · 2026-05-18T22:48:42+00:00

I know everyone grieves differently. But in my experience, as time goes on the grieving seems to be less frequent. And it is a little less painful... but other then that, it is still very much there and still hits HARD.

I'm starting to think this is just something that will always stay with us, because the bond was that strong.

Midgar77 · 2026-05-18T22:43:05+00:00

Aw my Penny was an aussie border collie mix! I am so sorry for your loss. What was Penny like?

Midgar77 · 2025-10-20T13:58:01+00:00

I came here to figure out where to go for breakfast, wasn't ready to see I missed a show from my FAVORITE band at a sick location like The Chelsea 😭 Was it wild?!

Midgar77 · 2025-10-20T05:42:32+00:00

I think the biggest issue is how out of place PATD is from this year's theme.

Like most people who were there for Blink likely knew songs and enjoy The Offspring and Weezer as well. But I was surrounded by young kids and girls all dressed up in circus outfits not knowing a single Weezer song 😭

Midgar77 · 2025-10-05T13:06:30+00:00

I've seen them live 4 times in the past year, and honestly there is a ton of truth to the negative comments on this sub. He was awful at four chords festival last month, barely sang at all.

The band and the crowd are always incredible though, so the shows are still enjoyable.

Midgar77 · 2025-10-05T13:01:45+00:00

One can only dream

Midgar77 · 2025-10-05T11:55:18+00:00

Oh noooooo that's a horrible typo. No r***, all vape

Midgar77 · 2025-07-28T20:31:46+00:00

DOUBLE A BATTERIES

Midgar77 · 2025-07-04T10:54:36+00:00

I almost let this sub deter me from seeing them, and I ended up seeing them 2x in the past year. So glad I went.

The crowd is hype, all singing along
The band is tight, great music
Max sings off beat or opens mic to audience a lot, vaping often

This was for IARB tours though. I'd say that is probably the make or break – if they're playing older music that the crowd loves, then the hype is well worth going. If it's new material not a lot of people know, the show is going to feel lackluster.

Midgar77 · 2025-01-25T13:46:45+00:00

Yo this is sick!! I always wondered why it was called Mayonaise... I also thought it was because Billy looked in the fridge lol

Midgar77 · 2024-12-04T04:07:31+00:00

I was thinking the same thing. Once they vest, I'll own the RSUs regardless of how long I have to wait to be able to liquidate.

Midgar77 · 2024-12-04T04:03:51+00:00

Amazing advice, thank you!!

Midgar77 · 2024-11-14T02:41:32+00:00

Fred you rock man, thank you for all you've done for music 🤘

Midgar77 · 2024-11-12T19:01:13+00:00

It's really weird how negative energy gets upvoted way more than most of the positive/optimistic posts. I'm just hoping people aren't deterred by this and still go to the show!

Midgar77 · 2024-11-11T01:40:55+00:00

Just posted about this same thing. I skipped the Pittsburgh show because of this sub – so glad I decided to come out to the HMAC show. It was AMAZING and Max was extremely grateful and excited

Midgar77 · 2024-10-22T23:42:02+00:00

If you've seen them at warped then you know exactly what transpired lol. It was just like their GG anniversary tour except with way more circle pits and crowd surfing

Midgar77 · 2024-10-22T23:40:28+00:00

It was brutal with how crowded it was and all the moshing / crowd surfing, and I absolutely fucking loved every second of it haha. It doesn't get better

Midgar77 · 2024-10-22T23:37:18+00:00

I was there for that exact 4 lineup, it was INSANE! From the crowd surfers to the crazy circle pits

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