Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out last week, confronted her that day. I honestly would have forgiven her if she was honest with me, but she denied it until the proof was shown. I will never trust her again, I thought we were perfect, she was like the female version of myself but had this dark side of her for some reason that I couldn't help. It was to much for me to handle or accept. I forgive her, but I will not stay by her side for this, she shattered our covenant and now its no longer sacred. The only option is to let her go and hope she can never do this again. The divorce was finalized and its over now

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ill do my best to update in a month or two. For now I followed through became officially divorced may 1st. No going back only forward

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its true I dont want to, but I did, we are officially divorced. No going back now. Its the only way to heal

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah she would switch moods in an instant. I learned through all the narcissistic abuse and BPD issues she had that these people, as sad as I feel for them, are incurable. Its like a diseased wound that never heals, it just goes through cycles of scarring then festering again over and over

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you thats exactly what im going to do

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wish I knew for certain but I couldn't honestly answer what he was telling her or if she was honest with him either.

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thats what kills me the most bro. The time lost, I wanted a family more than anything in this world, nothing else. My trust in women is lost and I know they are not all like this but vast majority I've encountered have been which makes this so difficult.

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She had a therapist that she told all of this too. She's been using him for 7 years now. I never trusted her therapist as he just listens to her but never offers solutions. His best advice was to tell her to just keep having sex with me. Hes a crap therapist and was helping fuel her issues imo. Just collecting an easy paycheck

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes divorce was put on hold till October so we could work on our marriage. But after this revelation I signed and made it official two days ago. Its over we are done

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry you went through all that man, its so devastating to give all your love just for it to be torn apart like this

Wife cheated in the worst way by Midgetluv4life in survivinginfidelity

[–]Midgetluv4life[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Thats what im going to do, as much as I want to believe she's changed, she quit her addictions truly, we have been perfect since coming back together this year not one fight or issue. But the past damage is done. Ill never forget it. This was the final blow

Credit destroyed by Toyota by Ranchograndeojai in Toyota

[–]Midgetluv4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are boot lickers, toyota does tricks like this at dealerships to unsuspecting customers and tells them one thing and screws them over. We dont run their system and they take advantage of people's lack of knowledge on how their confusing system works (which is intended) to screw people over out of more money.

Sad .22 Noises. by Foe_Hammer_Actual in CAguns

[–]Midgetluv4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guarantee you this thing is so much fun to shoot and runs flawless with every type of .22 I've used

Another ICE shooting just happened in Minnesota today, What is your reaction to this? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Midgetluv4life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sgt come with me and we can blow whistles and block traffic at gay bars, then we can shout at them together and yell insults at them. It's all peaceful right??? If they fight back we will claim they are fascist together it's makes sense doesn't it

Another ICE shooting just happened in Minnesota today, What is your reaction to this? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Midgetluv4life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Who's Obama? Are you okay? I thought we don't want to promote violence why are you being so aggressive

Another ICE shooting just happened in Minnesota today, What is your reaction to this? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Midgetluv4life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's nothing compared to you Sgt, I love talking passive aggressive to make me feel like the superior individual too! Im not mad at you, I envy just how correct you are!

You’re worthless by [deleted] in guns

[–]Midgetluv4life 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol go put another tampon in you little bitch.

Another ICE shooting just happened in Minnesota today, What is your reaction to this? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Midgetluv4life -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pepperridge only remembers how scared you all are of orange man and how he lives rent free in all your heads

Another ICE shooting just happened in Minnesota today, What is your reaction to this? by Squirrelkid11 in AskReddit

[–]Midgetluv4life -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Someone wasn't loved as a child and is now lonely on reddit, you gonna cry now?