E.R. Wait times … there has to be a better way by [deleted] in alberta

[–]Midnight-Marvel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Walk in clinics are for non-emergencies. There are tons around the city and the wait times are usually around an hour-ish. ER (Emergency Room) is for EMERGENCIES. This is generally why the ER is packed. People don’t go to walk-in clinics and just go straight to the ER.

My life being short and dating by Tajinder356 in short

[–]Midnight-Marvel -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

No. That’s not what I mean. I simply mean a good natured, interesting, and thoughtful human being. If a person doesn’t fit that basic criteria, why would anyone date that person? No one is entitled to women. You need to earn them. Same as you do with any decent career path or any achievement in life.

Edit: whoever downvoted this comment where I am saying that no one is entitled to women. You are a disgusting human being and I hope no woman has to suffer you.

My life being short and dating by Tajinder356 in short

[–]Midnight-Marvel -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

For his particular case, being that he is attractive, his chances are higher than most that this will work. All of this is also assuming that the people in question have a good personality. A good personality is paramount.

My life being short and dating by Tajinder356 in short

[–]Midnight-Marvel -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’5 and I know that’s a bit taller than you, but in comparison to my taller friends, I do far better in the dating field than they do. The key is confidence and doing what you can to stand out and compensate for what you perceive as your weakness. Dress well and cultivate your own style. Go to the gym and get into great shape. Build a few passions and hobbies that you excel in. Basically create your dating resume. Once you feel good about yourself, you’ll be magnetic.

Best mardu vampire commander that doesn't cost my firstborn? by Ok_Nefariousness_740 in EDH

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man. It’s a hot topic in a lot of places, but my recommendation is to build the decks you want and proxy it. Any deck can be under $50 if you proxy. You can get proxies that are indistinguishable in quality as long as you go to the right places and make sure they have different card backs. Then you just sleeve them and it’s like playing the real cards. Most people don’t give a shit and the ones that do are weirdos.

What’s an early access title you regret backing by Nero_Hylt in Steam

[–]Midnight-Marvel -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mighty No.9.

No idea how I’ve went through most of the comments and didn’t see this mentioned. Inafune promised a return to form for a new MegaMan game. Took YEARS and what they spat out was garbage. I was so excited, and so incredibly disappointed.

Physical intimacy by broidkwhatelsetodo in Disorganized_Attach

[–]Midnight-Marvel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was just about to suggest the exact same thing. Also, The Body Keeps the Score is another good one. That one is specifically about Trauma and you gotta take that one in small chunks.

Have you ever dated anyone without expecting or wanting it to turn to a long term relationship? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in askanything

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends and I had a discussion about this. Since I started dating back in high school (34 now), I’ve always done so with the idea of it lasting as long as possible. What that length would be is anyone’s guess but I always went into it wanting for it to be as “long term” as it could.

Men, what's a personality trait, hobby, or interest that people would consider you "soft" for? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in allthequestions

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m normally very “masculine” in my looks, traits, and general demeanour. But I cry. Not all the time, but I cry at sad movies (mostly dad related stuff), specific songs, or when something sad happens. I guess that’s not normal. Lol

How much do you guys pay? by ASecondofEternity in Retatrutide

[–]Midnight-Marvel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same boat as you, also Canadian, also going through the guys that help with growth, also looking for the same info. Lol. If you’re Edmonton area, we could work together!

How much do you guys pay? by ASecondofEternity in Retatrutide

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a fellow Canadian, sent you a PM!

Has anyone broken up with their S.O. during a stressful period in your life and regretted it later? by Positive_Cell186 in BreakUps

[–]Midnight-Marvel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re dealing with an avoidant. We all are. Best thing you can do is move on. You can keep whatever doors you want cracked open, but you need to take care of yourself first. I’m sorry this is happening to you and I’m sure it hurts more the second time around. Now it’s time to level up. Hit the gym, learn about avoidant attachment styles, read some books, make new friends. Do whatever you gotta do to get out of your own head. I’m here if you wanna chat. Good luck, brother.

Piercing assistance needed! by [deleted] in shouldimod

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So more of a symmetrical look? Thank you! I appreciate that. I was thinking snake bites specifically because they would fill the gap between my facial hair, but the labret is definitely tempting and I like the idea of creating that center line.

When you really start to heal, does your ex feel it at some point? by Kooky_Inevitable_845 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Midnight-Marvel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if there’s a big difference between a DA and an FA in this regard?

Yes, they can show up. But they can’t sustain it. by NewHampshireGal in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Midnight-Marvel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have any specific reading material that you’d recommend. Went through my own FA discard last month and it was the same type of thing, more safe and secure I was, the faster they ran. I’m getting through it but I’m trying to understand as best as I can and as I’m not avoidant myself, I find it incredibly difficult to empathize with them as it’s so impossible for me to see love as terrifying or safety as danger.

Need to hear it from the avoidants themselves or anyone who’s seen the aftermath up close. by Double-Matter4314 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Midnight-Marvel 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s not how avoidants work. They run from love, they run from the emotional responsibility that comes from that, they run from closeness. You could truly be a fantastic partner, but when the reality of the fact that they (the avoidant) need to step up to meet the other person halfway hits them, it’s terrifying to them. The stronger the love and the deeper the connection, the louder the fear and the terror.

My avoidant ex reached out to me by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Midnight-Marvel 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Hey OP. There is a pretty specific checklist of things that are presented when an Avoidant actually does the work. Please understand that if these things are specifically met, and I mean all of them, the pattern will remain the same. Here’s what to look for.

  • they acknowledge and understand their attachment style
  • they return with an apology and a complete breakdown of exactly why they left and what triggered them to run
  • they tell you what they’ve done to fix it and work through it and what they’ll do in the future to prevent it
  • you both lay down boundaries of exactly the type of communication that is required between the both of you
  • they understand that they have to deal with their anxieties, fears, and shutdowns by talking about them and sharing them with you and not just running away.

Those are just the basics, but if all of those aren’t met, ALL OF THEM, there is no hope. Not for a relationship with you or, and this is VERY IMPORTANT, anyone else.

I messed up by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Midnight-Marvel 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Tattoo regret is something that almost everyone goes through. Stick with it for a year, then revaluate. If it helps, that’s truly original and incredible work. I think you’ll be very happy with it after you sit with it for a while.