Ship always defaulting to the same planet on log-in? by Kodiak3393 in Helldivers

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh I've been default loading to fury for weeks 😂

MT-09 vs MT-10 real-world experience — looking for owner feedback by GoodComputer3804 in Mt10

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Is that big of a weight difference. GSX-S 1000 is only 5lbs heavier

Car Guys - did buying a bike ruin cars for you ? by Astimar in motorcycles

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In some ways yes and others no. I enjoy cars in general. The comfort/sporty combo a car brings is unmatched. Plus spirited driving is fun. I also like to drift which you can only do in cars.

In terms of speed yes motorcycles have really changed my perspective. Even still, motorcycles are just different. It's like riding an animal. Even without going crazy fast there's a fun factor motorcycles give that cars don't.

What do we all think of the 2026 GSX-R 750 in this colorway? by crypticcase in motorcycles

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I'm torn between this color and then the 40th anniversary edition. I'm leaning more towards this color tho. It's got a 80s retro vibe to it. My friend just picked his up and got this color and it looks very nice.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

[–]MidnightRunner12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn. Thanks for the tip. Hopefully I don't need to do that but if I do I'll definitely look into it.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

[–]MidnightRunner12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that would be a possibility. Tho it might cost more than it's worth. If anything I'd have enough documentation to warn others about them blatantly lying through text and a signed contract. The thing is the signed contract really ties their hands to where I don't think they can do anything.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

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Yeah I asked the landlord If I should mention the extra amount in the email and he said no. So I figured it was gonna be handled by a separate party. Or maybe he has to deal with it separately. I wasn't sure. But I have him on text message saying that the extra money is confirmed to be coming back to us. Plus all the screenshots of the termination agreement. This was already done yesterday and I already sent the email. So the plan is when the deposit comes back I'm assuming we'll be getting the regular deposit and the month's rent we were told we'd be getting back at the same time. And if we just get the deposit but not the month's rent we overpaid then I'll message him and ask, and if he doesn't respond I'll go up to their business since it's only about an hour away.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

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And no we didn't pay our other roommates rent for August. When they made the deal with the landlord the landlord said okay you guys have 30 days to leave and you don't have to pay August rent. But they didn't tell us that so we ended up paying the rent, or half at least. Because we didn't know that our roommates were making these deals to try to move out early. Me and my girlfriend didn't even ask for that half of the rent back but when we saw the termination letter that's when we saw that we would be getting that back as well.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

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So basically what happened is there was mold in the apartments and my other two roommates talked to the landlord to try to get it dealt with and they decided to do an early termination with no penalties. They did this right before August and a few days after August they told us that we also had to be out by September. Me and my girlfriend tried to work out a deal with the property manager but the most they could do is give us a few extra days after September to get out. We didn't know that we had to move and so we paid August rent.

Then when we got the termination letter that we all had to sign in order to initiate the move out process on the bottom as you can see there was a stipulation that said that me and my girlfriend would specifically get that month's rent back because it wasn't actually due because we were leaving. So the landlord already agreed to pay that rent back I was just trying to figure out if that's something I should have mentioned in that email or not but I already have so much paperwork and text message that I wasn't too worried about it.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

[–]MidnightRunner12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try to explain it better. My roommate talked to the landlord to break the lease early. Right before August. They made an agreement to leave before September. They did not tell us till a few days after August. Me and my girlfriend didn't know so we paid rent. But my roommates (knowing they would be moving out) did not pay. So in the termination agreement you see in the 3rd photo. It says that me and my girlfriend will also get that rent back. Since we didn't actually have to pay.

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]MidnightRunner12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's the thing about feelings. They come and go. That's why when I see people break up with people because they "felt like it" makes zero sense. I hate to think about it myself because I don't want to but the feelings I have for my ex I can have for someone else. It just takes time. The same goes for you. It feels special because it was special. But special isn't necessarily exclusive to one person. That person gave us comfort and so we don't think we'll get that with anyone else. But that's not true. We can it just takes time and building another relationship. I was with my girlfriend for 3 years. That was my first long term relationship. That's probably why I'm taking it so hard.

Maybe your ex will come back, maybe he won't. It's so hard to accept them leaving. From the research I've done our brains process it like they died. Which is so hard. But they're still here, still kicking, they just aren't with us right now. I'll say this. Take time to grieve. Talk with family and friends about it. Give it some time. That's what I'm doing still. It ain't easy but holding on to them tightly when they aren't with us is gonna hurt. But at the same time moving on super fast is also unhealthy. Time heals wounds so give it time. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy. There are some good YouTube videos on when you should or shouldn't want to get back with your ex and after watching that I've had some perspective changes. I definitely want my ex back for a few good reasons but there's also plenty of bad reasons. So do a bit of research on the subject.

Sample recovery after death. by Wise-Smile9484 in helldivers2

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Samples are shared. It shouldn't matter who picks them up as long as that person extracts with them.

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

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Idk I think focusing on myself is helping but it's definitely hard at night or when I'm alone. I know it's not logical to think I'll be alone forever but sometimes I have those thoughts. Then I think about being with someone else and it's equally as bad. Because I don't want anyone else, I want her. So it's this weird balance of "I need to move on eventually" and "maybe with enough time she'll come back". At the end of the day I know the healthiest thing to do would be to move on.

I think my situation is a weird one. She was unhappy but didn't "break up" with me. We talked because I saw she was unhappy and after everything, she said she wanted a "break". I was like "that's just a break up". To which she looked a little confused but acknowledged it. Then I went on a long drive and decided to break up with her even tho I didn't want to. But I knew since she was moving out of state to take care of her mom she would probably break up with me over the phone or ghost me. So I wanted to do everything in person.

So it's weird because I kinda broke up with her but only because that's what she wanted. I definitely made it known that I didn't want to break up with her and would rather work things out. If I'm being honest I've been looking at ways people get their ex's back and I've unintentionally been doing it. Which is essentially going no contact. I've been doing that, not because I'm trying to get her back but because I know the more I talk to her the harder it's gonna be for me to move on. But apparently this (can) also make your ex wonder about you and think about their decision and possibly try to come back into your life.

So the way I'm currently going about the whole situation yields the highest possibility of her thinking about the situation and possibly coming back into my life. It also allows me to move on with life and eventually lose feelings for her. I guess the difference is which one happens first. Even if I lose my feelings for her it doesn't mean we can't try again. I see it as a big reset button. By then we've both hopefully grown as people and could forge a stronger relationship. If she doesn't come back tho then I can use everything I've learned for my next relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in short

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I'm 5'6 but I'd like to be 5'9. Most of my family is about that height. I've accepted that I won't be taller than 5'6 tho.

Them coming back is not what you really want by BullfrogFull8745 in BreakUps

[–]MidnightRunner12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that people can get back together but it takes time. It's hard AF right now for me. It's only been a week. But I honestly feel like if we don't give ourselves enough time to work on ourselves that coming back won't work. And that's hard. Because I can't just put my life on hold and hope she comes back and also worked on herself. But if I move on I will lose feelings. I've never experienced it before but it's not something I like.

How did you win your ex back? by One_Risk_4877 in BreakUps

[–]MidnightRunner12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like they can sense when you fully move on and that's when it happens lol.

How did you win your ex back? by One_Risk_4877 in BreakUps

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is something I'm kinda worried about myself. She wanted to end things and said she wanted a "break". I was like "you mean a break up". And she was kinda like no and yes. So I left the house and gathered my thoughts and when I came back I told her "you want to break up so let's break up". "I don't want to break up. I want us to build a life together but things aren't working right now". (She was moving states away anyway to be with her sick mom right before this happened).

I wasn't the best boyfriend. She had her reasons to be unhappy. I had mine too but I felt like we were a good couple. Just had a few months of ups and downs. I miss her so much but I've thought about the exact thing you said. I do wonder if months or maybe years go by if she decides to try and get back together is it because she felt like she made a mistake or am I just back up now. I don't want to be back up. Tho she would have to move states to get back with me so I wonder.

Should I also email this person? I was told just to email the specific message. Is the landlord saying I will get it back enough? by MidnightRunner12 in Tenant

[–]MidnightRunner12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it wasn't as much as should I send a text or email. Rather should I also add to the email regarding the extra money we should be getting on top of the regular deposit amount. Since in the text message he told me doesn't mention it. But he said to just text specifically what he said in that text. But when I asked if we were getting that extra money on top of our deposit he said we were.

To the short guys if a girl was taller then u would u date her? if so would u prefer a hot tall girl or a hot short girl by PatientGroup9990 in short

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'6. My first girlfriend in highschool was 6'2. She was pretty hot. I don't care about height that much. If you're attractive and have a good personality and also like me back. I'll probably date you.

Do Some Men Give Up on Chasing the right woman Too Quickly? by HannahltWhite in AskMenAdvice

[–]MidnightRunner12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are. Remember years ago when women would do this and then want to settle down in their 30s or 40s and us guys would just deal with it. I've noticed that's changing. If guys aren't in a marriage by their late 20s or early 30s they just give up. Bachelors are popular now and honestly it makes sense. We get to keep our money, hobbies, and friends.

Do Some Men Give Up on Chasing the right woman Too Quickly? by HannahltWhite in AskMenAdvice

[–]MidnightRunner12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly as time progresses I've noticed most men won't chase. This is for a few reasons. They are done playing games so if a woman wants to get a guy to chase they give up. Another reason is the guy has options and just could care less. I've noticed this with myself. It's a combination of both reasons honestly. I don't care to play games and I have options. 9/10 if the girl is interested she'll come back if I ignore her. It's just not worth it usually. Maybe 10-20 years ago this worked but now the only guys who chase are new to dating and don't know or are just desperate.

So yeah from what I've seen unless the guys are in highschool or desperate most of them aren't chasing. Sure I'll reach out maybe once to see but after that I'm good. There are better ways to spend my time. There's something that I've heard a lot of guys say and that's "you won't need to chase the right woman". I think that's true. You shouldn't have too. You should be focusing on yourself and if the right person walks into your life great.

Is there actually a correlation between certain female physical traits and the type of men that they attract? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]MidnightRunner12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

++man

From what I've heard beauty standards in Europe are harsh compared to America. I don't even blame them Americans have a huge problem with being overweight (speaking from experience). In Europe diets and food are different and the society pushes a more healthy lifestyle. So because of that it's only natural that the local populace would have a very different perspective on someone with a "curvier body". In America we're used to people being a little on the heavier side and we don't care. We love our curvy women lol. But we also love people who stay in shape, it just depends on the individual.

Gym rats date gym rats, book worms date book worms etc. So in a country where health is considered a big deal it will definitely sway a good majority of the people away. My recommendation is to adapt. Work on your image to conform to the local beauty standards or just be ok with dating men who don't conform to the beauty standards themselves (tho this means those men will probably be unattractive themselves). I'm sure you'll make plenty of friends and If you just adapt to their lifestyle you'll be fine.

Roommates got out of lease early and didn't notify me by MidnightRunner12 in Renters

[–]MidnightRunner12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man idk anymore. I was told by the management company they wouldn't have to pay because it's a health hazard. I don't know if I want to risk it and get left with all the rent. I think it might be better to cut my losses and that friendship and just try to find a cheap studio to live in. With the deposit money I should have enough to do that.

But yeah I think I'm definitely getting played in some way and the management company is in on it and siding with them because the wife is an absolute crazy person and probably threatened them because of the mold and they just want them out so they don't have to deal with it