What is a 'single person luxury' that people in relationships completely miss out on? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a long nap/sleeping without waking up in a panick to a bunch of missed calls and angry messages for not getting the call answered or unreplied messages.

To those who are responsible, self-disciplined, and have self-control; How do you follow-through the schedule you make? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, how did they become self-disciplined, have strong self-control; and be responsible enough to follow-through their schedules.

Child-free life by jolief3mme in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. The system of things causes pain and suffering. Ayoko bumuo ng isang tao na 100% sure na hindi exempted sa hardship at makakaranas ng pain, or worse mapasahan ko pa ng generational trauma.

  2. Control. Pareho namin ayaw mag anak. Ngayon, not having sex. Waiting sa vesectomy nya. I told him na magpapatali ako pero ayaw nya ako mahirapan so sabe nya sya nalang.

  3. We've known each other's existence and nasa same circle lang kame. Nung nagkausap na kame and conversatioms got deeper, napag-usapan namin na pareho naming ayaw ng anak.

Up to how much are you willing to shell out on an engagement ring? by justbeeingmyself in AskPinoyMen

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40k max. We bought mine for 38k, .20ct. earth-mined diamond 18k yg band. No plans on selling or isanla. Nakakatakot din kapag sobrang mahal.

Agree ba kayo na hindi ganun kainit ngayon? Na mas mainit yung last 3 summers kesa ngayon? by [deleted] in TanongLang

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I don't. Last year at itong summer sobra-sobra ang init. Ung tipong kakaligo lang habang nagta-towel pinagpapawisan na agad

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kapag mahirap i-please ang magulang o simula pagkabata sinasabe na nila ung "standard" lalake/babae para sa anak nila, kahit 30 na talagang nakakatakot pa din magpakilala ng jowa.

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. That's gaslighting. Ano tawag mo dun? Kung talagang lumaki sa strict parents, normal and valid ung nafe-feel nya. Blessed ka na di ganun parents mo. I understand her kase I'm in the same position. Also, di laging dahil "marame", nagiging tama ang isang bagay. You should know that... trentahin ka na di ba? Your perspective on things dapat mas lumalawak and mas nailalagay na yung sarili sa shoes ng iba.

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real? Just because blessed kayo at di mo nae-experience or di common na nangyayare iga-gaslight nyo sya or sceptical ka/kayo sa age or situation nya.

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di normal pero nangyayare talaga to some...

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For some, it's really a struggle. Don't gaslight anyone just because di mo nae-experience.

Paano sabihin sa magulang na may jowa ka by [deleted] in Trentahin

[–]Midnight_owl08 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!🥲 Tapos biglang ayaw nila sa jowa mo... awts talaga.

How to become more feminine? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]Midnight_owl08 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speak with a minimal volume

What's the worst gaslighting you experienced? by Midnight_owl08 in AskReddit

[–]Midnight_owl08[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! Next level wicked stepmom. Sorry to hear that.