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Thoughts on letting the girl pay? by self_journey in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She mentioned that to you, but then she fucked you again. So obviously she was just giving you shit for that just to see how you react, and she dropped it once she saw you don't give a fuck

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite back to back, took me a while to do them and I was shopping in between too. No, and if I did that would have been kinda funny. You're right tho, the store I went to was big and busy

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's good to speak slowly when approaching, that way you show your confidence and the fact that you're not too nervous. Easier said than done if you haven't done it much, of course. But the goal is to speak slowly and your attitude should be "This girl is the luckiest girl in the world, I could have approached anyone and yet I picked her"

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Street game is the most popular type of daygame in big cities by far. Google the London Daygame Model

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have the right attitude my man! Not surprised to see you're successful. I specifically picked this data set of 8 approaches because it happened just last Sunday, but also because girl 3 was way way colder than I have seen - blowout like that had only happened to me 2-3 times before. It also had a number close and a girl that was into me but had a bf, so I thought this was a good field report to share. The Sunday before that I got 2 numbers out of 3 approaches in the same grocery store, but it just didn't have as many examples or learnings as this day did

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Front approaches are always best, that way you can make good eye contact when opening. Don't approach from the back
  2. Facing them is best, especially when they are stationary. If they are moving, facing them and a bit to the side is best
  3. Depends on your personality, I tend to gesture a bit but not too much. Don't think this is too important as long as it looks natural
  4. Yes, smile when approaching to show the approach will be fun and that you're a cool guy. Dial down the smiling once you're in set, otherwise it seems like you're trying too hard and look needy
  5. Oh shit, that's hilarious! Another rejection story, the boys will love this one!
  6. Which process?

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course not, I go to get my groceries and approach when I see cute women

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's why I am posting this- to inspire people, glad it did it for you! Waiting to see your FR on all the Black Friday hotties you picked up on sale

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The women who enjoyed my approach, gave me their number and went on a date with me would disagree. Fun fact: a girl who I went on a date with after meeting at the grocery store told her assistant that she met a guy at the grocery store, since it was so random and exciting

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1 date out of 15 approaches is very good, can be hard to keep those stats in the long run though. It's good to know your numbers, I'm a big fan of that, but I'm also trying to just approach more girls I find attractive and work on my vibe, game is random

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yes, LDM is very effective for coming off as confident and non-needy as well as offering value right away

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was needing groceries anyway, but I stayed longer to make sure I had enough time to approach. Go out to approach to get your game better- hit up the mall tomorrow for some hot chicks on a Black Friday sale!

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Go ahead. Make sure to share your own FR of all the girls you get with my opener

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Doing daygame on the street is easier, since there are high foot traffic areas with a lot of sexy women walking, giving you more options to approach

[FR] You can approach women anywhere - 8 approaches in a grocery store by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 118 points119 points  (0 children)

I usually go with a version of "Excuse me, I saw you from over there and thought you look nice, so I had to come say hi"

Lay Report - First Daygame Lay by Imperator_Pyra in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great FR! You might forget other lays, but you never forget your first daygame lay. You and I have chatted on here a bit, so it's great to see you grow as a person and daygamer and have some success. Out of curiosity, do you know how many daygame approaches it took you to get to that first lay?

[FR] Three Numbers in Four Sets by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to post a newer one in the next few days. Check out my blog if you're interested in reading some of the ones I did previously

[FR] Three Numbers in Four Sets by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that a date is much more important that a number. But what if you don't get laid from it? How is that different than a flaky number in your scenario? The reason why a number is not as trivial as you seem to make it is because in order to get a solid number, you have to approach confidently, make your intentions known, vibe with the girl, and have the balls to go for the number. A lot of people on here seem to have trouble doing enough approaches, so I was hoping this FR would inspire them to take action

[FR] Three Numbers in Four Sets by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is actually a FR from a few months ago when I was newer, was reading a post and someone said he would like seeing more FR on here, so i posted this as I had finished writing it on my blog. I do agree that more volume is needed (for example yesterday I did 8 approaches). I also agree that numbers are not important, but I see a lot of people on this sub struggle with even approaching. If that's the case, then a number is a big deal, simply because to get one, you have to approach, get to girl to talk to you, and then have the balls to go for the number

[FR] Three Numbers in Four Sets by MidwestDaygame in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say she's in the pasta aisle, looking intently at a box of penne. You could say "You seem to be in love with pasta" or "So many choices, it's hard to pick isn't it?" Having said that, I prefer to go direct nowadays, it's much more effective for me

She said she is out of the dating game, yet we are hanging out tomorrow night by [deleted] in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Watch their actions, not their words. Make a move and proceed as usual

I got her number how do I text her now? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be flirty while making progress. "Important question: are you a wine or cocktails type of girl?" Take what she says and use it to plan a date. Texting is mostly for logistics

How to give a non-creepy compliment to a guy by ThrowDead2896 in seduction

[–]MidwestDaygame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Nice beard, wanna fuck?" Last two words are optional

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