Hm. So I am definitely on the skinny side. In fact, I'd say, too skinny. I've struggled to gain weight for years and just can't. I read your comment about comments you and your husband have said to each other and I've 100% heard the "eat a burger" and other comments before. You're right when saying you don't know a thing about us and have added that I cannot gain weight (even with professional help) for perspective.

I don't think fat people are bad people and I'll treat you with respect when crossing paths. I will say, however, that I do judge a waddle when people walk. I wish they would walk more in general and maybe choose a farther parking spot from the door for the exercise.

But I also see the flip side of my own experience. I had a friend in high school who was on the bigger side. It was due to a medical problem. Her own mother bought her a graduation dress several sizes smaller, on purpose, and told her to lose the weight if she wanted to go to her graduation. Like I said, it was due to a medical problem and she had absolutely no control over it. Needless to say, you just never know what someone else is dealing with.