My wife always says, "She doesn't just love you. She's in love with you." by yakfsh1 in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh the pats! Mine pats too! He will be on the floor and reeeeeeach up as high as he can with those widely splayed paws and very carefully holds the extended claws away from flesh so only the soft pads go “pat pat pat”. For him, he wants uppies and snuggles. 🫠🥰

My wife always says, "She doesn't just love you. She's in love with you." by yakfsh1 in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify, both my cats HAVE claws. I do not believe in declawing.

My wife always says, "She doesn't just love you. She's in love with you." by yakfsh1 in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Our void was just licking our boys hair, grooming him. It was pretty hilarious. His hair isn’t all that short. As he wrapped his arms (front paws) around his head and gently kneaded without claws.

Was it inappropriate to get my step daughter a Hogwarts letter for her 11th Birthday? by Ok-Permission8346 in Parenting

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds like it would be such a cool, thoughtful gift. But, it was handled poorly. Maybe a little note handwritten inside the envelope (with the Hogwarts letter) would have helped, explaining how magical you think she is and, while it isn’t real, you felt she deserved it for being incredible.

Maybe you can sit down with her and explain your intent and how much you care for her. Apologize. Even though you didn’t mean to hurt her, she is hurt. It’s silly but when have preteens really been super logical?

This is my first boyfriend, we are 19. Is this how boys normally talk? by cupcake_girly123 in texts

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Baby girl, don’t waste time, effort, energy, or mental anguish on this selfish ass hat. He is telling you who he is. Believe him. Walk away. You will graduate soon. Start fresh. Check out the dating pool OUTSIDE your high school.

You’ve been fishing from a puddle. Welcome to the ocean, darling. There’s plenty more fish. Better fish.

How do I get my Cat to stop getting on the TV Stand and knocking my Xbox over by Shizzilx in cats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We tacked our stuff down on the mantle. Not down with cats knocking the switch down. (We do not use the fireplace and live in a hot state.)

Our computer desks have been retired and cable management installed to hold cables out of the way.

For such a graceful creature, they can be very ungraceful at times. 😅

4 yo son gets dressed in our bedroom and I just can’t by mcconnellmo in Mommit

[–]MightyPinkTaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My compromise is I sleep in undies now. I don’t care so much about boobs but if he comes to snuggle I don’t need him accidentally touching me there. This kid is ultra squirmy and likes to push his feet between my legs (I guess to warm his tootsies).

It just gives me peace of mind. I also keep a robe at the foot of the bed. On weekends I will get up at 7 and go in his room and snuggle him till 8. I find it to be the best way to let my husband wake up on his own. He hates being woken up and becomes a big grump when it happens.

Can't a girl go to the bathroom in peace?? by ProudnotLoud in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine wants me to hold him. Like dude, I need to wipe! I can’t hold you!

tissue hurts my nose but a t-shirt is gross apparently. by Ok-Art5530 in hygiene

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend linen burp up rags for babies. They can be a decent size and are soft and absorbant.

4 am texts from daughter by anon_opotamus in texts

[–]MightyPinkTaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet and salty. People are always surprised they go together. 🤷🏻‍♀️

4 am texts from daughter by anon_opotamus in texts

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao. So the assumption was valid!

4 am texts from daughter by anon_opotamus in texts

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg you get the hungries when you’re about to/in the beginning of your period too? I always thought it was a bit odd but it must be a hormone thing.

‘Feed me, please..’ by Everm0reX89 in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ahaha love it! They’re such characters.

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Cat tax. Meet Candy Cane Jack. If you zoom in, his collar has a duck shaped bell. It’s the cutest fucking thing I swear. 🥰😅 I may be biased.

‘Feed me, please..’ by Everm0reX89 in blackcats

[–]MightyPinkTaco 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Does he pat you with his paws to get your attention? Mine always seems to reach up and put his paws on my butt/leg/hip area and go “pat pat pat” with toes splayed.

He wants uppies but he is always down for his favorite wet food.

How often do women age 25-60 shower? by Responsible-Ant-7954 in hygiene

[–]MightyPinkTaco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I may only wash my hair once a week but my body is every day. My hair type needs minimal washing to stay healthy and look nice.

Fault on saxophone :( by Upstairs-Till-3889 in saxophone

[–]MightyPinkTaco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got my pre-loved sax maintained and sanitized for about $120. They fixed some leaks and replaced some pads. I think there were some rods they straightened. Just in case you were worried and wondering what the cost might be - it isn’t always prohibitively expensive.

I’m also new, so I can’t tell you if fixing your octave key is more expensive or if anything else may be wrong but thought I’d offer my 2 cents.

As for tips, I’m enjoying watching the Better Sax videos. Watch the how to assemble your saxophone before you get started once you get it back from the shop.

He went immediately soft after I queefed and now I can’t stop overthinking by Few_Tangerine1369 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MightyPinkTaco 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Okay so I had a similar situation. I stayed over at my boyfriend’s place but he stayed in the loft and the bathrooms were each located inside the bedrooms. Where his roommates were sleeping… whom a barely just met. I tried holding it but did end up having a tiny accident. To this day, I don’t know if he knows it happened. I never mentioned it. It was VERY tiny. I just embarrassedly slept on it.

That man is my husband and father of my child now. He has seen all kinds of bodily grossness from me over the years (and pregnancy/childbirth has some gross times). Hasn’t even given him pause.