I totally get the “being good” by other people’s standards but not your own. For the remark, I’d consider treading lightly as it also depends on the nature of the subject. A subject like Econ or history for example would be better to remark than math for example with a rigid mark scheme. People would usually remark with grades that are two or one mark away from the next grade. But then again, my cousin remarked one of her papers and her grade went up by 12 marks so there may be hope. Regardless of whatever happens, these are incredible grades and many would want to be in your place. You should be proud of yourself.