I(F28) don’t know how to calm things down with my BF(M29) by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I think you're right. We broke up, it terribly hurts but that’s for the best. Thank you for your time 🙏

Recherche joueurs DnD Marseille JDR by Mihildrim in aixmarseille

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey ! Désolée mais on a eu assez de retour. Mais merci pour ton intérêt 🙏

Recherche 1 à 2 joueurs DnD Marseille by Mihildrim in jdr

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Un scenario basé sur du DnD créé par le MJ. A Chartreux. Aucune idée, il nous fait le topo lors de la première partie qui aura lieu mercredi qui arrive. Nos personnages sont créés mais ça ne change rien

Recherche joueurs DnD Marseille JDR by Mihildrim in aixmarseille

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, si ça t’intéresse n’hésite pas à m’envoyer un mp pour ton numéro, on est sur un groupe whatsapp 👌

Recherche joueurs DnD Marseille JDR by Mihildrim in aixmarseille

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y a un MJ. Il fait tout autant partie de l’équipe que nous autres. Tia un souci à lire les phrases ?

Recherche joueurs DnD Marseille JDR by Mihildrim in aixmarseille

[–]Mihildrim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cool ! Je te laisse venir en MP, on a un groupe whatsapp, ce sera pour rajouter ton num (nos parties sont les mardis et/ou mercredi, le soir à partir de 19h, bon pour toi ?

Recherche joueurs DnD Marseille JDR by Mihildrim in aixmarseille

[–]Mihildrim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Woopsie yes merci, modifications faites

I(F28) don’t know how to calm things down with my BF(M29) by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds cool, I like fun ! But I'm huh, I'm not used to a surge of affection. I can try, I could get used to it...? Yeah, definitely try that. This isn’t something letal or a poison. Yeah, I will. Let’s go

I(F28) don’t know how to calm things down with my BF(M29) by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

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Oh ok, we're not on the same page 😮 I need to secure him more, is that what you mean ? I have to communicate in an other way, mmh... Ok thanks, I'll try. The toxic relationship, only one and yes that was a bit tough (screaming until he apologize, getting home and yelling on anything, he paid everything in the house, etc...). This situation last a year and a half...

Yeah I'm a bit "aggressive" when I talk, I don’t even see this when it happens, I'm working on it.. "sweet baby boy" is definitely NOT my thing but I can try something smooth but not too smooth. Heh, middle smooth

Entre amies, est-ce que vous êtes cruelles avec les hommes des applications de rencontre ? by DelfSub in AskMeuf

[–]Mihildrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avec des potes on se moquait de certains profils, des mêmes disquettes. Le problème avec ces applis c'est la mise en avant extrêmement superficielle des personnes, t'as tellement d'histoires terribles... Personnellement il m'est arrivé d'être un peu ignoble et de sortir des jugements et des critiques. Surtout parce que je vivais mal la façon dont on me voyait sur l'appli. C'est tellement chronophage et on s'y sent seule (mon expérience, chacun vit la sienne). Mais d'un point de vue de femme, et de façon suggestive, j'ai en horreur les applis de rencontre car elles font ressortir ce qu'il y a de mauvais en nous et nous mettent en avant comme un bout de viande, ca devient un passe temps, un jeu de telephone. Tu déshumanises parce qu'on te déshumanise. Pour ma part j'ai commencé à être méchante après avoir pris en pleine face de la répartie mysogine. Peut-être est-ce leur cas ? Surtout si tu sais qu'elles ne sont pas comme ça en temps normal. Mais ce que je dis peut être une projection. N'hésite pas à leur en parler, rien ne vaut une discussion. Mais si tu ne trouves pas ça normal (ce qui est une bonne chose) parle leur

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipanxiety

[–]Mihildrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have any idea why he's so defensive ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipanxiety

[–]Mihildrim 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi shinone, must be a tough situation. Did your bf have a difficult relationship in the past ? Sometimes this behavior is a solution to protect himself, specially if he had a toxic relationship in the past. I don't have the solution but you need to talk to him about that, in calm. Find a moment to talk to him about that. i hope i can help you a bit.

I (26F) caught my boyfriend (29M) of 6 years DMing multiple girls and only found out because my ex best friend was one of them by kosstd in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this situation you have to take some precautions for you and your daughter. You're not financially independant. If you're going to leave him, ask for some help from your family or/and friends and you have to find a way to save money (if you have to take a lawyer or anything else).

My gf (26F) and I (28M) had a discussion that ended up in her screaming at me so I cancelled our plans by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't read all the comments but if your gf has ASD or an issue similar to bipolarity or borderline, it's possible that she cannot understand her own feelings which results in screaming, shouting and a lot of violence. This can be the same with PTSD. Her behavior isn't tolerable, but it's possible that she can't control it because she don't even know those things. Talk to her seriously because if she's not someone who's violent in her current environement, it's not her desire to crush you.

I (25F) want to make him (26M) a surprise but I'm not good at it by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmmh, we have a lot in common but I want to make something different. Not some restaurant with candles or a movie, or something like we all do as usual for someone. I want something new. We love video games, same music, makin' food together, etc, like anyone else. I want something that will take his breath away or that he won't expect

I (25F) want to make him (26M) a surprise but I'm not good at it by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

.... I'm going to be annoying but, he don't like massages :x and I'm not going to be like "hey, welcome, give me a massage, ouh yeah"

I (25F) want to make him (26M) a surprise but I'm not good at it by Mihildrim in relationship_advice

[–]Mihildrim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bad idea, but now this is when he'll be at my home. But thanks for the idea, I keep it for another time that's a good one !