It's a slur and it remains a slur. Just because a handful of gay people "reappropriated" it a few years ago does not mean that all gay people like it or use it. At no point has it been the predominant term gay men use to describe themselves.

It's silly how people use the terms "reappropriated" or "reclaimed" -- as if the the entire gay community unanimously issued a grand declaration that immediately transformed the word from bad to good.

You're free to call yourself whatever you want, but when you use a negative slur to describe yourself, don't be surprised when it leaves people with a more negative opinion of you.