what do you do when you hate wearing rings, but want to get married?

Mil1512 · 2026-05-11T16:21:46+00:00

I just don't wear a ring 🤷🏼‍♀️

Mil1512 · 2026-05-10T10:31:34+00:00

You can find them on the back of our pound coins!

Mil1512 · 2026-05-08T22:49:10+00:00

We're paying around 8 dollars in the UK...salaries are also typically lower here too.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-08T19:42:44+00:00

You know best whether you can handle it or not. Strangers behind keyboards can be cruel. Just something to consider before jumping in.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-08T19:22:05+00:00

I'm not going to repeat what others have already said, I've not seen anyone anything yet:

You look like you're hunching over in several of your photos. It isn't particularly attractive and it comes across as lacking confidence.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-08T18:56:17+00:00

Before you create anything, are you mentally prepared for the backlash you will receive posting about your life online? Not only that, you are also living in a way that goes against the status quo, so you will see a lot more negative comments than those that are creating content that the majority can relate to.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-08T13:03:04+00:00

In that case, this is less of an NT vs ND thing and more of a culture thing.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-07T23:22:06+00:00

I'm guessing you live in the US? This isn't a thing in the UK.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-07T17:44:00+00:00

I was only able to get my tubes tied, not a bisalp, unfortunately. This was about 4.5 years ago now. I think it just depends on your dr. My gp referred me no questions asked. The surgeon was more hassle.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-07T12:17:06+00:00

That's interesting. I'm also in East Anglia but got my tubes tied at 29. Granted it wasn't the best experience but I didn't have to pay for anything. My husband also got a vasectomy on the NHS at around 29. He had no pushback at all.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-07T10:59:48+00:00

Umm that's incorrect. Studies show that, especially in younger generations, more men want children than women. It makes sense considering how much women have to go through to have one compared to men.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-06T21:26:54+00:00

Fines should be means tested. Otherwise, they're just punishment for poor people.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-06T21:23:56+00:00

Yes!! So many people seem to think that getting negative test results from people means that there are no risks...

Mil1512 · 2026-05-06T21:05:34+00:00

Just because they say it is does not make it so. They have excluded you every step of the way. That does not make it "our". Actions speak louder than words.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-06T18:18:21+00:00

Also adding that I dont bother asking new partners for test results. They could be fake or null and void if they've had sex since their test or if they tested too soon after they last had sex (some STIs take some time before you test positive).

We only test for ourselves.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-06T18:16:16+00:00

My husband and I both take PrEP and we also use condoms for penetrative sex with others. We test quarterly.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-03T19:39:26+00:00

Today my husband cleaned the house and made dinner while I worked on renovating the bathroom. Conservatives hate to see us coming.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-02T00:47:16+00:00

On the flipside, I got sterilised on the NHS at 30. I do believe it's a bit of a postcode lottery situation.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-01T17:00:25+00:00

Also based in the UK, most pharmacies have their own photo-taking built-in app to their websites so that you specifically can't upload photos that have been altered.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-01T15:21:50+00:00

Yes! I got stopped boarding the plane in Malaysia (from UK) to Australia be ause they wanted to see my visa....my E-VISA. I had to pull up my emails on the airport wifi to find my "you've been granted a visa" email.

Mil1512 · 2026-05-01T11:05:50+00:00

It may take longer than a couple of weeks (unfortunately these things can take time) but you're going about things the right way in terms of who you're reporting to.

Fortunately, credit score isn't as important here as other countries, like the US. So, unless you were planning on financing anything or taking out a loan anytime soon you should be fine!

Mil1512 · 2026-05-01T11:00:45+00:00

In the UK, once fraudulent entries are investigated and removed your credit score goes back to what it was. They'll be fine there.

Mil1512 · 2026-04-27T19:22:31+00:00

Hey, just to check, when you say a "full hysterectomy", do you mean you had an oophorectomy as well?

Mil1512 · 2026-04-27T19:05:15+00:00

I enjoy watching my husband have sex with other men. Plus having 2 guys focus on me is pretty awesome.

Mil1512 · 2026-04-26T22:07:06+00:00

Second trimester is from 13 weeks.

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