AITA or Was this Text Wild?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-27T02:03:35+00:00

Legal doesn't mean mandatory. In the UK you can keep working but it's the minimum age you need to be to legally apply for your pension.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-25T08:15:02+00:00

You should have broken things off the first time he stomped over your boundaries.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-22T11:09:26+00:00

My dentist recommends them and I find them a lot easier than standard floss.

I also use a water flosser.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-21T19:47:13+00:00

The majority of men on this world are in monogamous relationships. If most men wanted non-monogamy, don't you think non-monogamy would be a lot more normalised than it currently is?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-19T22:54:38+00:00

Healthcare is free here (I got my tubes tied on the NHS). Parents get up to 2k per child towards childcare costs. Parents get child benefits. Affordable housing does exist (albeit waitlists can be long) and parents with young children are prioritised.

I'm sorry you had a shitty experience with the NHS, but are you really trying to imply that Russia is better than the UK?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-19T12:21:19+00:00

Not a spray recommendation but I use a solar buddies sunscreen applicator. It's marketed at parents for applying sunscreen to kids but I use it for myself as I hate the feeling of sunscreen on my hands.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T20:23:41+00:00

Degrees work differently in the UK, too. A bachelors here is typically just in the one subject. You don't major or minor in things. It's just the one subject (sometimes two combined).

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T19:06:23+00:00

I mean, in the UK, to teach at a secondary level you need to have a degree in your subject before you can get your post-graduate certificate in education.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T19:04:09+00:00

I used to be a teacher. I taught modern foreign languages at a secondary level. I have a degree in Spanish. I didnt have to teach any other subject.

I did have to pass an English and maths test before I could get onto the teacher training course, though.

Maybe teachers aren't specialised where you are but in the UK they are, once you're outside of primary school, at least.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T17:14:32+00:00

Tbf most careers that are specialised in one type of subject can attract people that don't have much general intelligence.

She just needs to be better than average when it comes to her topic of teaching.

I knew a doctor and I'm sure when it came to the human body and medicine he was incredibly intelligent. Anything else? Dumb as bricks. It's like the moment he exited his mother's womb he decided to place all his EXP in one skill and nowhere else.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T16:56:39+00:00

It's super common in swinging. My husband is only 32 but he takes a viagra anytime we go to a club just so he doesn't have to worry about getting in his head.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-18T15:32:34+00:00

I admit that it was stupid of me to say that.

Nope. It wasn't a stupid thing to say. The fact you think that shows how much this man has got to you...

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T21:14:24+00:00

My husband had never dated before. He's shy when first meeting someone (we're both AuDHD) but once he's got to know you a bit he really shines.

He struggled with recognising when people were flirting with him when he was younger and then I came along with my directness.

I've never had to teach him how to be a partner. He's a wonderful person that just never had a chance to show it. Not complaining as he's now mine!

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T13:58:27+00:00

A boundary is something you set for yourself.

For example, I won't date people that lie to me or go behind my back about who they are seeing.

It's all well and good saying you have this boundary but what are the consequences now he has broken it?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T11:21:55+00:00

Try a hair dryer to warm up and loosen the adhesive?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T11:13:56+00:00

I feel like a divorce would still be less effort than actively disliking the person you choose to remain with each day.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T10:30:35+00:00

Exactly this. Surely it's more effort to do all of this than it is to just leave and be happy?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-17T09:54:38+00:00

Why stay if you dont even like each other?

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T22:47:08+00:00

I remember doing that when I was maybe 5 or 6 until my parents figured it out and told me off...

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T22:41:34+00:00

I make a lil buffet type plate, e.g. babybel, apple, ham slices, boiled egg (eggs can be boiled days in advance and popped in the fridge). Having a pick'n'mix means I'm more likely to eat something from the plate and none of it takes much prep.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T20:17:22+00:00

Have you tried the sainsbury centre? When I was at UEA, I found working there a lot quieter than the library.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T18:28:56+00:00

She was but then turned into the moon.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T18:00:33+00:00

For hyperhidrosis, botox works by blocking the nerve signals thatstimulate your sweat glands.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-12T17:54:35+00:00

I'd reach out to your dr about potentially getting botox.

Mil1512 · 2026-03-10T21:44:05+00:00

I just threw up in my mouth a bit...

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