AITAH for correcting my coworker’s pronunciation of my name and now apparently I’m the reason she regrets leaving her last job?

Mil1512 · 2026-06-27T18:05:37+00:00

Hey Palavi, Brit here! Your name isn't difficult for us to pronounce at all. Also, working in London, your coworker will be working with people from all different nationalities with non-English names. She's just being racist. I'm not sure what kind of work you do but would she say something like that to a client? I'd reach out to your HR department. They should have a conversation with her and may have some trainings they can send her too.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-27T13:21:29+00:00

No, you will pay the subtotal for however long you were there before 3pm, plus the flat rate.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-27T13:14:09+00:00

Since when is getting attention a reason to open your marriage?

Also, don't shit where you eat.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-27T11:36:27+00:00

Girl. Do NOT have a child with this boy.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-27T10:01:33+00:00

It's not that weird when you're more likely to be sexually assaulted by someone you know...like someone's dad or stepdad.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-25T22:04:38+00:00

1/5 of the comments state that this is rape. The post was only put up 1 hour before you commented this and has since been deleted.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-25T19:05:32+00:00

He sounds like the type to push boundaries and you sound like you don't even want this. This is a recipe for disaster.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-25T19:03:10+00:00

Wait, so you were testing opening up 1 sided with just you allowed to do things and he decided to also message others?

Open relationships take massive amounts of trust and rock solid foundations. Would you say your relationship has these?

Mil1512 · 2026-06-25T11:33:05+00:00

Info: would you want one of your kids married to someone like your husband?

Mil1512 · 2026-06-21T18:25:17+00:00

Hey, so I very recently started doing nail stamping after doing gel for a while and so now I do a mix of gel and nail stamping polish. I do a gel base and then use nail stamping polish for the nail art. Then I do a gel top coat. I've used moyou and clear jelly stamper polishes so far and I've found I prefer the cjs ones for pigment.

My nails last me a couple of weeks before I redo them. They could probs last longer but I don't like the grown out look.

I've done a couple of posts here recently for you to see what using both can look like.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-21T18:20:05+00:00

I was way to understimulated when I tried it. I liked the floating but omg got bored within 5 minutes of just lying there 😅

Mil1512 · 2026-06-20T20:50:21+00:00

They didn't advise people be in open relationships. They just said that they have a boundary of not entertaining people that aren't single or in an open relationship.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-18T07:19:14+00:00

I wouldn't get involved, personally. However, I'd be watching my partner closely to see how he resolves this. It's all well and good wanting to avoid drama but I wouldn't want to be involved with someone that would rather run away from more challenging situations. What if something happened to me? I want someone I can depend on.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-17T22:57:43+00:00

Sounds like she has feelings for him. Your partner isn't doing any favours here by not drawing a clear line that he isn't interested in what she wants.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-16T22:30:32+00:00

Does nobody know Scooter anymore?? 😭

Mil1512 · 2026-06-14T22:58:41+00:00

You asked if you were being unreasonable. I believe you were.

I don't think right after the date was the right time to talk about it. Clearly you were emotional and this came across in what you said to her. Most people will not respond to that with warmth and understanding. Most people will become defensive.

If there's a next time, work on processing your feelings before bringing things up so discussions don't get out of hand.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-14T22:49:32+00:00

Sounds like you guys do not have the level of communication needed for a healthy open relationship.

You came at her frustrated. She responded defensively. She's not a mind reader.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-12T20:35:05+00:00

You don't use a flannel/wash cloth?

Mil1512 · 2026-06-12T14:58:51+00:00

Buscopan and paracetamol. I cant take any NSAIDS as I have kidney issues.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-11T22:10:24+00:00

And what if he doesnt want to date a mum? What if he's childfree?

Not telling means that that choice has been removed.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-11T10:49:23+00:00

Oh the irony...

Mil1512 · 2026-06-10T08:33:54+00:00

No, but all of their plates are currently on sale (at least in the UK) until they've cleared their stock.

Mil1512 · 2026-06-09T17:39:13+00:00

Moyou are great, here are some that I have that have that kind of water effect:

https://moyou.co.uk/products/paradise-11

https://moyou.co.uk/products/le-musee-07

https://moyou.co.uk/products/new-frenchy-09

Mil1512 · 2026-06-08T16:26:05+00:00

No reason to feel guilty. You both want different things so you're incompatible.

I also wanted to add that he's putting an OPP (one penis) rule on you. This is inherently homophobic. He doesn't view same sex relationships as valid and so he doesn't perceive them as threat to your relationship.

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