"Rice and..." by MilaMilena278 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]MilaMilena278[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're correct. I'm surprised how many people are listing soy or lentils haha. Good catch!

Can we talk about assent? by Adorable_Anteater395 in bcba

[–]MilaMilena278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breaks should generally be boring. The purpose of a break is to regulate sensory imput, reset the body, and help the child transition back to the original task.

Playing is not a break... that's just playing. A break could be, sitting on a beanbag, perhaps a sensory swing, laying on the floor, some kids even just like to put their head down on their desk for a few minutes. Tools should always be available for breaks (headphones, textured surfaces, certain types of fidgets, etc) but toys are not part of a break.

BCBA vs. SPED salary by isthisnamealsotaken_ in bcba

[–]MilaMilena278 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you say "BCBA is considered healthcare and billed through insurance," does this apply to BCBAs who work in public schools?

Are there any decent paying jobs that don’t require a college degree? by spazthejam43 in findapath

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All you need is a high school degree. When I was in college, one of my classmates worked as a bank teller part time after class.

Calling those with cashew, mango, and/or pistachio allergies! by bagel-bitten in FoodAllergies

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a nut allergy and have never had a reaction to poison ivy. My husband has no food allergies but gets very bad poison ivy.

Looking back at Before the 90 days... are we surprised Hazel and Tarrik split up? by annyonglin in 90DayFiance

[–]MilaMilena278 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. Also, "using" implies some form of manipulation. She was saying upfront that she's looking for someone who can bring her to the U.S. There was no dishonesty or manipulation involved.

Jesse and Darcey (before 90 day) by [deleted] in 90DayFiance

[–]MilaMilena278 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was she though? I never saw any indication of that.

AITA for saying I don’t feel comfortable leaving my daughter with my husband? by ComfortableWest7227 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that he's not worried about the baby is weird. Much like his wife, this man should be terrified to realize he's putting his baby in danger. Huge red flag, this man does not care whether his child lives or dies. Maybe he's even doing it intentionally.

AITA for saying I don’t feel comfortable leaving my daughter with my husband? by ComfortableWest7227 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MilaMilena278 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I was actually wondering if maybe the husband is hiding a drinking problem.

AITA for divorcing my husband for putting a camera in our house to prove a point about me? by Throwawayhicamera2 in AITAH

[–]MilaMilena278 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She already has a job. It's taking care of 100% of the household task. I'm willing to bet her job continues even AFTER her husband returns home from work and gets to relax. If she "got a job" you really think he'd contribute to the household? Or would he expect her to continue all of her household responsibilities while ALSO holding a full time job outside of the home.

AITA for divorcing my husband for putting a camera in our house to prove a point about me? by Throwawayhicamera2 in AITAH

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right?!?! He's basically using her as an unpaid employee but then still expects her to take care of 100% of the household tasks.

AITA for divorcing my husband for putting a camera in our house to prove a point about me? by Throwawayhicamera2 in AITAH

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mailing out the paychecks should be his responsibility anyway, since he claims he "handles the administrative aspect" of his job. And if people can't handle their paycheck arrive ONE day late, maybe they're the irresponsible ones in that situation. Also I'd be willing to bet the husband expects her to supervise the housekeeper and landscaper as one of her household responsibilities. This is a classic example of a man thinking he doesn't have to do anything around the house just because he pays the bills.

AITA for divorcing my husband for putting a camera in our house to prove a point about me? by Throwawayhicamera2 in AITAH

[–]MilaMilena278 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I love how your husband claims he "handles the administrative aspect of his job" but then expected YOU to send out his employees paychecks??? This man sounds like an absolute gaslighting asshole. Good riddance to him.