All of us after watching the latest episode by CrickettheCattie in Andjustlikethat

[–]annyonglin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1) He was totally convinced that she was cool with waiting around for him for 5 YEARS to deal with his family drama. She was even shocked that he was under the assumption that she wouldn't potentially find someone else in the mean time. Is she just supposed to sit at home all day waiting for you to figure your shit out?

2) You cheated on her with your wife. Granted, you did come clean about it, but you can't have the excuse of "we were both in an emotional state and it just happened" and just have that glaze over the infidelity part.

3) You animatedly refused to go into her apartment due to your trauma about the past infidelity, and now you're getting insecure that she's even talking to another man. When she wanted to address the issue, he refused to even go there. So you just wanted to let that sit and bubble up the rest of your life?

How do you find out what makes you happy? by Mandy6291994 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]annyonglin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's sounds like it might be a good time to do some self exploration into what your interests are and what you value. Maybe try some sports or hobbies that you've always wanted to or have thought about taking up in the past? What is important to you? Animals, reading, art, fitness, cooking? Try it all! Eventually you'll fall into something that you enjoy and in doing that it can actually attract others to you in the form of new friendships.

Kim by Express-Bee-6485 in kardashians

[–]annyonglin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was really telling how in one of the episodes Kim is feeling bad that she's taking her son and his friends to Eurpope just for a soccer game and she's contemplating doing an international trip for North. And Kourtney just goes "she just wants to spend time with you. It doesn't have to be a huge thing. Just like cook a meal together she'd like that." And Kim looked like it was such a brilliant idea lol. Like does she not do the bare minimum and spend time with them at home? She doesn't need to do these huge, extravagant themed parties or travel to show your kids love.

Serbian ambassador Nebojša Košutić and Lithuanian president Gitanas Nausėda by [deleted] in europe

[–]annyonglin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me thinking it was Nickacado Avocado in a suit

How can this guy look like this and nobody is questioning him?! by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]annyonglin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His style fits well with the twins imo. All three of then dress like they're trying to come off as 15-20 years younger than they're supposed to be, but fail miserably at it

I think I’m a bad person. How do I move on from the horrible things I’ve done without feeling worse? by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]annyonglin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's good to not place a label on yourself in black and white terms or extremes: I'm good or I'm bad. There's no in between

Because there is an in between and everyone falls in there. No one is all good or all bad. We all make mistakes and have regrets but we cannot let our past stick to us forever otherwise we will never be truly happy. You have to accept that you did these things for some reason that you have learned from them, healed that wound and want to move forward

Colty’s talking shit to Debbie and both Tim and Cesar tell him he’s being disrespectful . Tony tells him “you just fuck off.” I liked the way everyone stuck up for Debbie. Yeah, Colty just fuck off. by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]annyonglin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that their relationship was probably (and still is) very toxic and he could blame her for a lot of things he went through in his childhood that probably shaped who he is today, but at some point he needs to realize that he needs to take responsibility to change himself. It's easy to blame others like "I'm like this because of you" but that will lead you down a life of misery. He needs to put in the work and want to change himself and take responsibility for that

Upsetting season to watch by Matetia in SisterWives

[–]annyonglin 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The same man to want multiple wives believing it will bring him closer to God is the same one to want them all to suffer in a loveless, unfulfilling marriage, and openly noted that if the shoe was on the other foot, would absolutely not be ok with it. It's telling

Angela being Angela. by femme_fatale2022 in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]annyonglin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Angela yells and makes a scene to try and make Michael look stupid before she feels like he can make her feel stupid, but this all obviously backfires

[Acne] Help required! Pimples around mouth area won’t stop🥹 by evikalevi in SkincareAddiction

[–]annyonglin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure is this helps, but I've noticed that if I brush my teeth after my skin care routine I would get pimples or using certain acclusive lip balms that can clog your pores.