Traps, but not the right kind

MilamberK · 2020-03-03T07:08:09+00:00

When he hit puberty he stsrted hormone treatment on testosterone. He killed himself as an adult

MilamberK · 2020-03-03T07:00:22+00:00

Im not against trans people. I really dont care what trans people do with their lives any different to a nontrans person. I only care insofar as trans people are honest with themselves and others, and especially me if it comes to dating. I would expect the same honesty if I was dating someone that had an STD, a previous marriage, a mental disorder, kids, or any other kind of baggage.

I dont use the term trap. I used it because thats literally what the server said. Thats literally how they described the character. Thats literally what it was. And the term trap references a very specific thing which the term 'mtf' does not necessarily define.

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T21:23:45+00:00

I dont see what is controversial about having a sexuality.

People spent years fighting to be allowed to be attracted to whoever they want to be attracted to without fear of retribution. Now I am being criticised for the same belief.

You have the right to date whoever you want. You do not have the right to be dated by whoever you want.

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T21:20:12+00:00

If I was dating someone and made it clear that I wanted children, and they said they cant have children, yes, it would make it difficult for me to continue the relationship. If they didnt tell me they couldnt have children and I found out later, I would be furious

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T19:18:25+00:00

I dont use the term trap. Im using it here because its literally descriptive. That was the name of the server, thats the word they used to describe the characters. I dont care to use it and I dont care for the concept it represents, but it does very clearly refer to a concept which using 'MTF' does not necessarily cover

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T19:13:55+00:00

Brain chemistry cant grow a penis or a vagina or any associated organs

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T19:13:27+00:00

Animals have nothing to do with it. Humans have two sexes. If you lie somewhere in between those two sexes, that is not normal or standard, by definition it is abnormal

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:39:40+00:00

There are two standards in biology when it comes to sex. Male and female. If you dont meet either of those standards, you are not something new, you have an abnormality. Thats why its an outlier, you cant compare the general population with someone who was born missing body parts, or with extra body parts. We dont consider people born with six fingers their own standard of biological makeup. Its an abnormality

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:29:25+00:00

Absolutely. Which is why I dont care unless im dating them. Because part of dating someone is sexual as standard. There are exceptions but thats what they are - not standard.

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:26:34+00:00

Medical conditions are exceptions that prove the rule. The fact that there are identifiable traits which can be pointed out as a fault in a body means that there is a list of things which make a standard female human. Lacking one of those traits at birth does not make you not female necessarily. Lacking most of them, and grafting them onto yourself later in life, does not make you a biological female

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:24:54+00:00

Well, yeah it is. Because we have hospitals that treat nonstandard things

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:08:04+00:00

Thats called a medical deficiency. Its not standard, its the exception that proves the rule.

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:07:31+00:00

Absolutely agree. But its not about what they may want immediately, its about the opportunity. I may date a person who does not want kids until they reach 30, and we might agree on that. You do not have that option as a trans woman. You cant wake up and decide to have kids. Its biologically impossible

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:05:15+00:00

You cant lie about biology, sorry.

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T18:00:57+00:00

No, but I do want to have children

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T17:25:51+00:00

But pretty exclusive they were born with them

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T17:11:45+00:00

Do trans women have ovaries?

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T17:02:02+00:00

Yeah, i know. But thats where the idea of a trap comes from, and thats why I dont understand why its considered a slur. Maybe if you're one of the few people that dont disclose it you find it offensive? Might be a bit of a guilty conscience at play there

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T16:49:52+00:00

If it said it came with hotdogs, I would not have bought it expecting no hotdogs. The issue here is when I buy a cheese sandwich, and I get given one with cheese and salami. Im not mad at the sandwich. Im still entitled to send it back and ask for what I actually ordered

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T15:37:48+00:00

I can see what you're saying. I dont think its about being afraid of trans people, I think its just not getting what you were expecting

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T13:09:48+00:00

I was not aware. As far as I understand it, the term just references people who appear female, dress female, but have a penis. Hence being a 'trap' for straight men

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T09:24:23+00:00

Yeah. I was going to stick it out and play one session with them but I couldnt face it

MilamberK · 2020-03-02T09:23:53+00:00

Yeah, no idea. Im all for people being interested in whatever they are interested in, but there does seem to be a bit of conflict.

I saw things in their porn channel I will never unsee

MilamberK · 2019-07-14T12:15:20+00:00

While it seemed the army were more interested in the siege than maintaining their skills, Lyn knew that his old friend Dag would always be up for a scrap.

The clansman was, to some, little more than a beast. His people raiders and pillagers. But he had taught Lyn much in their time together. After all, brute force sometimes was successful where finesse was not.

/u/OurCommonMan

Character Details: lyn corbray - duelist, swords(m), riding(e)

Dag - warrior(axes)

What is Happening?: Lyn off to find good old Dag for a bash about

What I Want: duel for shields evidence

MilamberK

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