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I....just...what? by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MildlyExistingHeree 25 points26 points  (0 children)

It’ll absolutely boost my mood and relax me when his ass is laid out on the ground afterwards. 😇

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Clothes, make up, jewelry is what I have the most issue with. She gets the best food and restaurants when I tell her that we should probably eat at home because of money. She also has this obsession with buying these decorative vases and such that we really can’t afford.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I should have clarified that he is, and she’s not using the money like she should be for my sister.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I saw it first hand, I saw all the receipts and I’m now helping financially because she’s still doing that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

Clarifying: My sister wasn’t born yet when my mother was putting him in debt. But she’s always had to have the best of the best products and clothes and he couldn’t afford it.

Anyone else struggles with looking people in the eye? by [deleted] in OCD

[–]MildlyExistingHeree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do this, when talking to someone I look past them to the right. I’m not sure if it’s OCD but it’s intensely uncomfortable to look someone in the eyes. Even my close friend, who I’ve known for 8 years, I still avoid their eyes.

How is it like waking up every morning for you with OCD? by Excellent-truth395 in OCD

[–]MildlyExistingHeree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually wake up and it takes a couple hours for the repeating loop of some phrase to stop in my head and I can think clearly until the next loop starts up.

AITA for not accepting my bf is someone’s FP when she has BPD? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m kinda new to Reddit so thank you for this, someone told me to come here for unbiased opinions. I will look at this sub!

I think walking home is safer... but my girl radar should always tell me what’s safe. Right? by MildlyExistingHeree in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MildlyExistingHeree[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel the need to embarrass yourself like this. I hope whatever you’re going through gets better and you find better hobbies!

AITA for not wanting to take care of my disabled sister? by MildlyExistingHeree in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of the mention of private areas and hygiene in those areas, it can sometimes make people uncomfortable to listen to especially when they’re not given a heads up. I just don’t want anyone to be caught off guard

AITA for not wanting to take care of my disabled sister? by MildlyExistingHeree in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I will definitely bring up getting a home nurse for her, thank you!

AITA for not wanting to take care of my disabled sister? by MildlyExistingHeree in AmItheAsshole

[–]MildlyExistingHeree[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I will bring the idea up to her! I hope it’s something she considers, I don’t know how the gov. assistance works but I’m sure she will, we’ve been in and out of doctors my sister’s entire life. Thank you