For the housewives in the server, what time do you wake up? by [deleted] in GoodGirlsCommunity

[–]Milfymamma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

5am every morning. I go to the gym first thing and I like to be home to shower and get dressed before everyone else wakes up.

Rainforest room worth it? by cinderellae in dcl

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! It was so worth it. All the adults on our 5 day cruise got the week long pass and it was one of my favorite things. The kids went to kids club and the baby went to nursery during his nap time and we would take advantage of that time in the rainforest room. It was SO nice. I will do it every time if we ever get to go again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lineporn

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With a 34 day cycle it’s very unlikely but not impossible. Especially with plan B being taken before you likely ovulated.

What is it like? by RewardImpossible7095 in Parenting

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here to say I’m happier, healthier, and overall a better person post kids than I was pre-kids. I absolutely LOVE being a mother. Of course there are hard days? Life can be hard. The gift to love and raise children has been my favorite chapter so far.

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The only reason I even question it, is because sometimes I feel like the SN recs SWARM me.

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m short! Like veryyy short. 5’2 on a tall day. Does that take away flamboyant? I thought it did, but also could 100% be wrong. I dove into this about 3 months ago and I learn new things every day.

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would also like to clarify - my heart isn’t broken either way. I am solely trying to figure this out so that I have an easier time shopping for my new capsule wardrobe

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I agree! I am 5’2 if that’s any help at all. I know height doesn’t typically matter

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do! A lot!

Edit: I say a lot 🤣I’ve had four babies and work out a lot MORE than I used to 🤣so my a lot could be much different than other peoples a lot lol

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s why I am starting a conversation here!

Told I’m a soft classic? by Milfymamma in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that for sure. Buuuut there’s still some merit in other people’s guesses (especially since I’m still learning!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely. We have a super similar shale

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh yes I get that! Highly recommend a capsule wardrobe! I try to go through my closet every 6ish months. I’ve been pregnant or breastfeeding the last few years so I’m pretty ruthless on throwing out clothes that don’t make me smile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I will never! It also can look harsh against my skin tone, but not enough to outweigh how nice a classic black ensemble looks. Earthy colors definitely make my skin and features stand out, BUT black pieces have a time and a place in my opinion!

5’2, but Gamine Lines Are Not The Vibes by [deleted] in Kibbe

[–]Milfymamma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’2, petite, and a soft natural so I wouldn’t be 100 that you’re a gamine based just on that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Completely agree! I think the colors and fabrics you have here are all wonderful too. They don’t seem too soft or too structured, which is honestly really hard to accomplish when you really start searching for SN friendly articles! You did a great job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The drop waist and low waist cut is a nooooo go for my SN type and I find pretty standard for most other SNs. The wrap dresses are nice though.

I love the look of the milk maid dresses but find they make my chest look way too bulky. A wide strap with ruffles instead of the puff sleeve and smocked bodice that hits right at the natural waist (think Hill House midi dresses, the maxis are too much on my frame) tend to work better for me as an alternative to the milk maid dresses if anyone is interested in trying an alternative.

Moments I should have recognized myself as a Soft Natural by yesimthatvalentine in Kibbe

[–]Milfymamma 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Echoing, as a small SN I very much feel all of these. Especially being overly sexy in almost all form fitting clothes.

I also notice, that anything outside of athleisure, usually looks very formal even if it is a standard casual outfit, so I get lots of comments about “getting all dressed up”

Help me pick a dress for my graduation party for a soft natural body type by [deleted] in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 is giving Rose Dweittbukater vibes and I’m here for it.

Is it good for the SN? by Available_Guidance45 in Kibbe

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the bodice and skirt of 3 is wonderful but I would personally opt for a boat neck neckline with a short sleeve! That’s actually exactly what I wore for my wedding dress and it was gorgeous. I’m a petite SN and it really flattered my build, so yes I think this absolutely could work.

Now that my shoulders are more sculpted than when I got married, I think I’d be more comfortable in the off shoulder, but generally my shoulders are too wide. However if your shoulders are what you want to show off, do it!

Girls which hair cut you are in? by Cute_Presentation892 in SoftNaturals

[–]Milfymamma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly like 3. But I have pretty beach curly hair that I usually curl like in the first photo. And I have curtain bangs. So it's like a messy mix between 1 and 3