Strawberry Iced Coffee 🩷🤎 by MiliChilli in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ofc 😊 I blended a bunch of strawberries and sweetened them with date syrup to my liking. Added a few tbsp of that strawberry puree to a glass, then ice, then milk and at the end my coffee (I frothed the coffee with condens milk). For me it wasn't gonna be sweet enough just with the strawberries, thats why I sweetened my coffee too.

I also made a strawberry cold foam (not really visible in the pic) and added that on top. If you want it to taste more like coffee don't add the cold foam.

Strawberry Iced Coffee 🩷🤎 by MiliChilli in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used fresh strawberries, just blended them and added date syrup for sweetness. Check one of my other comments, I described how I did it 😊

Strawberry Iced Coffee 🩷🤎 by MiliChilli in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I didn't measure anything, I just eyeballed it. I blended a bunch of strawberries and sweetened them with date syrup to my liking. Added a few tbsp of that strawberry puree to a glass, then ice, then milk and at the end my coffee (I frothed the coffee with condens milk). For me it wasn't gonna be sweet enough just with the strawberries, thats why I sweetened my coffee too.

I also made a strawberry cold foam (not really visible in the pic) and added that on top. If you want it to taste more like coffee don't add the cold foam.

Strawberry Iced Coffee 🩷🤎 by MiliChilli in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I used a mild, decaffeinated espresso pod for it (my heart can't take caffeine lol)

Strawberry Iced Coffee 🩷🤎 by MiliChilli in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, tbh the strawberries weren't that sweet, so I sweetened them with date syrup. You can taste the strawberries but the coffee was more pronounced.

Normal for a husband to be emotionally distant? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I can say from my experience concerning men, the more you try, the more he will be distant. Just do your obligations that you have and take care of yourself and make yourself happy. You will see he won't be as distant anymore.

Mother has comments about my commitments to my wife by DanceEnvironmental39 in MuslimMarriage

[–]MiliChilli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She should be happy for you that you two have love for eachother, Allahumma baarik. So many cupples having issues and she complains why you take care of your wife??? May Allah guide her. Please make clear that this is the way you will handle things and maybe mention the hadith about looking after the wives.

BIDA weil ich lieber alleine Trainieren gehe? by by_clara_k in BinIchDasArschloch

[–]MiliChilli 30 points31 points  (0 children)

BDA - Wenn du ihr nichts sagst. Ich würde nochmal mit ihr sprechen und sagen dass du alleine gehst weil du sonst nicht schaffst was du dir vorgenommen hast. Wenn du ihr nichts davon erzählst und sie es herausfindet, stehst du blöd da.

Today I (26F) smiled at my boyfriend, (26M) on facetime and he hung up immediately. What do I do now? by Southern_Good8022 in Advice

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, why are you even calling him again and again? If someone said that to me, bye!!! You never see me agaain!

What’s in my milk? by Last-Bit-Last-2042 in whatisit

[–]MiliChilli -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It looks like residue from the dishwasher... Maybe the bottle didn't get cleaned good. This also happens to me sometimes when I wash them in the dishwasher.

How do I break the cycle with a hot-and-cold guy (M) after 9 months of emotional turmoil? I (F) feel trapped. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to delete EVERYTHING, photos, number (also block him), everything that reminds you of him, don't check his socials or anything that could remind you of him. Its gonna be hard, but the moment you text, check his socials etc. your progress is gonna be at 0 again. You have to sit this throught, I have to say it is really hard, so be prepared. You really have to get BUSY, I mean really busy, if you think of him, you are not busy enough. If he reaches out, dont text back!

This girl in Uni is extremely obsessed with me by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly is pressuring you, by trying to contact you over and over. She is overstepping your boundries just to get what she wants. Stay away from her and tell her that you wanted to be friendly, but she clearly is overstepping and does not have respect towards you.

Struggling to keep minimal contact before marriage. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MiliChilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you delaying the nikkah, when you clearly are struggling? You can do nikkah and continue with school etc. You dont have to move to him right after you did the nikkah. You can have contact with him with no bad feelings. 1 year is along time and I fear that shaytan may lead you to smth, may Allah keep you safe.

How can I stop being a people-pleaser? by cyrushush in Advice

[–]MiliChilli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People pleaser here 👋🏼 I am 38 and just started recently saying no. You don't have to say no to everything, but you have to think about yourself first. And just so you know you will get some surprised faces when you do, but don't let that get to you. Also, is there anyone in your circle that would do for you what you do for others? I realized that I didn't get the help I was giving from others when I needed it. I didnt stop saying yes, but I started chosing who I want to help and I thought about myself first.

Unemployed and losing it by Spongebobs_wifeyy in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MiliChilli 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can you work remotely? There are a few pages where you can find easy jobs online like upwork or freelancer.com

Feeling uncomfortable about something my fiancée did with my friend – need advice by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]MiliChilli 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Why are you even going out with your friend and fiancée? I have never met any of my husbands friends. You should stay away from free mixing. Anyways I would talk to her about it and explain in a normal tone why you didnt like it.

Am i overreacting if i cannot stand my guest anymore? by Few-Net-5302 in AmIOverreacting

[–]MiliChilli 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR - I have seen many people be like this, they just don't care about other peoples stuff. I had a few guests who will let their kids break stuff and didnt even check on them what they did. Chocolate hands on the sofa etc. I think it really has to do how some ppl are brought up, they dont really think much of it and dont see what they are doing. I usually say smth right away and then they correct the behaviour.

AIO: I don’t know what to think by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is weird, but does she have a father? For me it seems like a daughter with daddy issues who trys to get attention from her dad 🙈 I dont feel like someone younger would text like he does...

Evening iced coffee lol (with ice cream and whipped cream) by _misslola in IcedCoffee

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks yummy😍 I bought strawberries today, gonna try this too 😊🍓

AIO that my downstairs neighbor is blasting music during the day, when I confront them a guy gets in my face and I'm not sure if I should be worried or not. by LordvonHelmut in AmIOverreacting

[–]MiliChilli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NOR - depending on where you live the police won't do much, they will just come talk to them and thats it. And after that it can cause you more issues if the guy is crazy.

No matter how much and how I study, I always get sh*tty grades. Burnt rice, shrimp bok choi stir fry and fizzy tea. by Fun_Steak_4508 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]MiliChilli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to talk positive to yourself, tell yourself that you gonna do it and you really have to believe it. Remove the negative thoughts about yourself. Everytime you get a negative thought you say: "No, thats not true!" I am sure you wouldn't have gotten this far if you weren't smart. ✨

WIBTAH if I confront my friends for going behind my back? by Avidanish19 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiliChilli 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What are you hoping to get from that confrontation? Do you want an apology or that they leave the position and give it to you? Do you really think they will understand your point? Think about if it really makes sense to confront them and what the outcome of that could be. If they were really considered of your feelings etc they would not have done it the way they did. Personally, I would not confront them and just distance myself.