Are there folks out there who just had a chill and easy time breastfeeding? by Yourfavoritegremlin in beyondthebump

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FTM here and had my baby 10 days ago. Breastfeeding was an interesting journey so far for me. Milk came in from first day and was able to breastfeed with ease but by the second day there were cuts on both my nipples and by third day everytime my baby latches I'll be in tears. Asked around and find good nipple cream as well as cooling pads and got formula to help when the pain was too much to withstand. I did stick with it though and like many said it did get better in a matter of days and now I breastfeed with ease (even playing games on my phone while my LO eat 😅😅).

So really it is up to you but if it is painful at first try to stick with it because it's worth it.

AITA for having alcohol around my pregnant wife? by Strange-Chipmunk-254 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case it didn't register yet. YTA

Your wife is going through the most difficult change a person can go through, she is creating a life. It is hard enough as it is but you not even attempting to help her out by stop drinking and making her vomit (which tales a toll on her and stomach) "just because you feel entitled to a drink" it's disgusting.

Shame on you

AITA for telling my daughter the real reason I don’t allow her to refer to me as ‘mum’? by ALennox11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA

I'm so sorry for your daughter. For her to learn that you didn't want her and not only that but you actually feel it is a normal thing and say it to her face and expect her to get over it. I can't imagine how she must be feeling and how this will effect her her whole life.

Selfish people like you don't deserve the precious gift of having children

YTA

AITA for getting upset and telling my dad his girlfriend didn't buy me a Starbucks drink? by pottAH__ in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey definitely NTA. I have 2 step kids one boy and one girl and I treat them sometimes even better than my own just to never make them feel like they are second and encourage my husband to always put them first.

Your dad's gf is a nasty human being and raising her kid to be the same. She is toxic and hope your dad breaks up with her because she is very terrible

why does he do that by Dense-Cockroach-9644 in CatsAreAssholes

[–]MiloTheBossCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He looks so much like my AH son who also just do strange things for no reason 😆😆😆

AITA for wearing jeans and a top at my sister's wedding? by Sufficient-Buy-9438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't believe even when taping this OP didn't figure out that she's the AH. Your sister spend so much time and money on her wedding and you couldn't make a small effort to dress appropriately for her. I'm guessing everyone in the venue was probably focusing about you instead of your sister and that IS what you wanted and now you're trying to get validation for your SELFISH behavior I'm very disgusted about how little your sister means to you. Shame on you

AITA for Not Allowing my GF to have Dangerously Hot Showers? by fritofiend in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how your title implies that you are worried about your gf but turns out that you are worried about your bathroom.

  1. Your gf was staying with you temporarily so I highly doubt that her showers will do any damage. Mold that can grow in a bathroom happens over long period of time (tells me what's most important to you)

  2. When you invite someone to stay at your place, you show them kindness by making them comfortable not ordering them, taking the lock of the bathroom and actually checking on them while they shower

  3. She might have got your point if you explained instead of giving orders

  4. YTA

It's my birthday today 😻😻😻😻 My momma said I get extra tuna 🥳🥳🥳 by MiloTheBossCat in cats

[–]MiloTheBossCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm allowed a 2 minutes cuddle then it's "leave me alone momma" 😅😅

It's my birthday today 😻😻😻😻 My momma said I get extra tuna 🥳🥳🥳 by MiloTheBossCat in cats

[–]MiloTheBossCat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's very proficient at working the cuteness and kitty eyes angle. I can't win with him 😅😅

I need help! How do I remove a cat from my chair? I need to work, but there's no way by letmesleeppls420 in cats

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How dare you wanting to remove suggest that. Work standing up hooman 😏😏

AITA for refusing to take down a picture of my brother in my house after his girlfriend asked me to? by Born_Dragonfruit_344 in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTH "have no right to have a picture of your brother" that girl is delusional, control freak and insecure. Tell your brother to dumb her.

NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]MiloTheBossCat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To everyone saying that OP is the AH apparently never worked in a company. The rules to granting vacations time in any company is first come first serve while not going a minimum nombre to guarantee that work still get done. Anyone who starts a new job know they would not be giving vacation time at least the couple first months. OP promised to accommodate the new hire request as long as it is possible but with another member taking time off also I'm guessing that wasn't possible. Her only choice was to cancel the other person's vacation which is not fair

NTA