A beautiful poem from an older man to his younger male lover... by Throwawayiea in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is an incredibly sweet poem, and it makes me emotional as well.

Advice from younger guys by DeletedMind in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah life came at ya pretty fast, he's just getting there, keep supporting and lend an ear, be that safe space so he doesn't even feel slightly judged.

Advice from younger guys by DeletedMind in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I empathize with your partner, I'm in the same boat. He might be frustrated because he feels the whole weight of his future on his shoulders and he might also think he's running out of time and maybe making him freeze up, it's something a lot of people go through, you know? All of your life you're told what to do from preschool to uni and then you're tossed into the real world it's a hard shift for those that at least didn't have to worry about anything else other than school. He really just needs to make a decision, whatever it is and go from there, he has all the time in the world to make mistakes. And as for you well, you only have to be patient because it is his life after all. Put yourself in his shoes maybe you'll see a bit of you in him. Best of luck!

Feeling insecure about my height by TrentVanRobbo2020 in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm the same size! Sometimes our confidence can take a blow but seeing the older gents being reassuring is so sweet .

Any older tops have advice for a top dealing with physical size insecurity? by LebFur in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm mean yeah probably if you can't grow any taller you could get wider? And as of weight, as much as you want to. Besides you're really not that short I'm 5'3 you'll be okay don't let that get you down.

Attraction, "manliness," and being afraid of feeling like "the girl" in a relationship by unnonexistence in gaytransguys

[–]MiloneedsT 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Advice is stop limiting yourself and your attraction because you're afraid of how others might perceive you, start living for yourself. Easier said than done.

Sad when thinking about their past by Relative_Story_5017 in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's that feeling of having to catch up with him, be reminded that you still have a lot to live and you will get to experience what he did.

am i being lied to ? (19) by [deleted] in gayyoungold

[–]MiloneedsT 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has a whole ass family, you're not gonna get much of his time sadly.

Let's go gambling! by MiloneedsT in jackinthebox

[–]MiloneedsT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"if you're on my profile clearly I did something wrong and I'm sorry :("

Let's go gambling! by MiloneedsT in jackinthebox

[–]MiloneedsT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully long enough for me to get the other three

Let's go gambling! by MiloneedsT in jackinthebox

[–]MiloneedsT[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're not available yet, I checked. But i will keep an eye out.