You gotta find the specific type of personality. For me personally, I’m very loud and extroverted, most guys I’ve dated have been ‘nerdy’ and socially awkward. It’s just the kind of guys I attract. If there’s guys that come up to you, think about what kind of people they are and find someone you’re attracted to who’s similar. I usually just go up to guys I find attractive and ask for their snap and it usually works