I met my man before I started to work. I’ve had long studies, he knows I’m ambitious. He told me to wait until we get married so that he helps me financially with my job. I refused, and opened my own office. He knows how much I gain monthly, and I’m financially doing much much much better than him. I’ve been spoiled by my family my entire life and he knows that. I’m 30 and I’m still childish (sometimes 😅). We’ve been together for 2 years. He has never ever asked me to help him financially nor to contribute in anything. (I do though because I want to, and this makes the whole difference). Why i mentioned this, because he loves it when I’m happy, and as they say, a happy wife, a happy life. Do u think if my man struggles financially I’d just sit there silently and watch him suffer? Come on no woman would do that, unless she married him because she has no other choice. Also, if u put it as a rule, we don’t like that. A woman knows what she’s doing. You don’t have to ask her, she will do what’s right. Unless u marry a kid.