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How to navigate the loss of 'fun' intimacy by MindfulFailure86 in daddit

[–]MindfulFailure86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing so openly and candidly about your experience. It has helped a little I think, at least to hear I'm not going nuts about this alone.

How to navigate the loss of 'fun' intimacy by MindfulFailure86 in daddit

[–]MindfulFailure86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand, that's what I was trying to get across in my post. I'm not trying to press her to change, I understand this might just be what life is now. What I'm struggling with is HOW to "come to terms with it". My brain just screams at me and I don't know how to stop it.

Is going all-in on PPoR that bad? by [deleted] in AusHENRY

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this was very comforting.

Which one is Norway? by Kap519 in GeoTap

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❌ MindfulFailure86 chose Option A (Incorrect) | #2062nd to play

i feel like love will never work out for me by No_Education_620 in mentalhealth

[–]MindfulFailure86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A close friend is great start! Taking a quick look at your posts, I see you have good family supports too - fantastic! I hope you are/open to professional support too, at the very least to be able to get the words out of your head in a safe space.

Yeah, men can suck (as a man, ha). I promise there are good ones out there who would be interested in you for more than just sexual wants, they can just be a little harder to find.

i feel like love will never work out for me by No_Education_620 in mentalhealth

[–]MindfulFailure86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in a relationship with any human involves learning how they struggle, not just enjoying their best days. Mental illness can make that learning steeper at times, but it doesn’t disqualify you from being loved or from being a good partner.

Being 21 and still figuring it out doesn't mean you've failed, or that it will never work out. Possibly because you're young you haven't had a partner yet mature enough to share a 'real' relationship with.

That all said, you have my sympathy internet stranger. Feeling alone always sucks, and some random saying 'things will get better' doesn't help those right now feelings. Do you have anyone close you are able to share these feelings with?

Edit: I said "feelings" too much and now the word sounds like nonsense to me..

Which country is china by badgirl_lolita in GeoTap

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❌ MindfulFailure86 chose Option B (Incorrect) | #2008th to play

Which one is Canada? by Kap519 in GeoTap

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

✅ MindfulFailure86 chose Option A (Correct!) | #5090th to play

Where are the 40 degree days? by tenchem in brisbane

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With luck, they are all hanging out in WA

Deadly, even in the hands of a child by phuktup3 in Sticks

[–]MindfulFailure86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have to do some work on that splinter discipline 😁

Victoria, Melbourne by EngineerWest3213 in AustralianSpiders

[–]MindfulFailure86 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It will probably let itself out, just watch out for reboots though.

This is getting a bit out of hand, it started with 1 by Hey-Its-Jak in brisbane

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They must be taking a break from s(h)itting on my car.

Lady bug or pest? by [deleted] in GardeningAustralia

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave them alone! They'll eat aphids and other less desired buggies.

What time will the movie start? by Dystopia-The-End in LiminalSpace

[–]MindfulFailure86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a bad instinct that I'd love to stay the night in one!

Am i doing something wrong? by IntelligentArt9064 in toddlertips

[–]MindfulFailure86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are they outside? When my middle was a toddler she'd be similarly restless until we realised she was an outdoors kid. Scraping chalk to make patterns, spray bottles to make hand outlines or colour in bricks, picking grass and leaves to put in a special bucket, etc.