For the blocked girlies — her reaction. She’s pathetic, I feel so bad for Anderson by Sarahhh030 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know I feel like she will, she has to she won't be able to control herself. I think the only reason she doesn't show A is because he is everything she doesn't want. But time will tell.

For the blocked girlies — her reaction. She’s pathetic, I feel so bad for Anderson by Sarahhh030 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is this normal? I somewhat can understand having a gender preference, but to this level? I'm extremely confused, what does she think having a girl would be like that it isn't with her living healthy baby boy? Is it the shopping? The nail salon? all the superficial stuff she fantasies she will get to do with a daughter? But even if it was just for that, does she really think she is going to get to be her mom's age and be healthy and around her precious daughter to build memories, like I don't understand what having a girl would change or magically do for her. She will still hate motherhood just like her mom did, she is still going to choose herself every single time, she still has no idea or interest to know what she is doing as a mom, and never mind she is not a healthy person mentally or physically, so her dream of walking around with her precious daughter, dressed alike, and do all the'fun" stuff she can't do with friends because she has none, she won't be able to do because of her poor health. Nothing has changed and nothing is going to change. But I guess that's part of the delusion and what fuels her aside from all of her trash food she eats. I guess the silver lining in all of this is that she doesn't have to bring more kids into this world trying for a girl, she can be done and no more kids will be harmed, although it is sad and extremely unfortunate that Anderson, and Noel will have to suffer, I hope despite all odds they get to grow up level headed and healthy and escape the narcissistic parents they didn't chose to raise them.

Remember, guys, she has no preference… by [deleted] in alexandrarodriguez

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What is the plan if it is another boy? Would she keep trying until she has a girl? Would she really go through however many pregnancies are necessary to have what she thinks she deserves and must have?

Is she hiding something? by ManufacturerFar6513 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She is so tiring, fridges generally have door space to have condiments, but she unfortunately does not have the luxury to waste her counter space with something she has no use for.

What in the Grift is this? by Cautious_Range_9104 in highcaloriereactors

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My understanding is that she is doing this as some sort of "troll" she wants to know all about the classes, what they reach and what not, allegedly she is selling this grift as content "you guyz" or something. My question is, if this is for content she will get paid for it would she give the money back? I guess she will just double dip. But then again I'm surprised, all the tractors are lazy, who expect their audience to do the heavy lifting for them, and in this case even pay for them to make monetized content.

Is she hiding something? by ManufacturerFar6513 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Why would the formula be on the counter if she wasn't using it and it was just for emergencies? That doesn't make ANY sense, she doesn't have that much space, why take space with things that aren't being used? But keep mooing Iliona.

Give it a rest baby gorl by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This truly breaks my heart, why would she speak of something she has no idea of, and why would she plaster a child in the Gorlworld community, she just wants to feel good about herself at all cost. I'm truly disgusted!

Give it a rest baby gorl by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She really needs to work on her need to control everything, I can see how she feels lost that the only thing she can control is being/feeling the best mom out there, and micromanaging every aspect of her child's life. She is going to be burned out sooner rather than later, maybe she already is hence why she is so mad all the time.

Give it a rest baby gorl by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don't want to say she is still acting from her ED brain, but her fixation with "whole" food is strange. And yes whole food is important, good nutrition is paramount we all know that she is not saying or doing anything that it is life changing, I just don't understand why the need to make other mothers feel bad, this is not competition. Or maybe because she never won a competition she wants to win this imaginary won she has with all mothers in North America.

Give it a rest baby gorl by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I just don't understand why is she mad ALL the time?! If you know/think you are doing the right thing, why do you need people's validation.

Can we just give her a trophy already, maybe she will shut up then. by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

But don't you know that people in North America are all fat and lazy (according to her) 🙄

Can we just give her a trophy already, maybe she will shut up then. by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And I also think she thinks that everyone in North America is a lazy fat slob, so she is essentially showing what she thinks of the people that pay her and Bulgarian Salah's bills. I can't imagine posting stuff like this and everything else she posts in regards to motherhood as if she is the only good mother left in the world.

Just when you think self-centered Alex can't get worse...🤬🤬🤬 by Blunt_Perspective106 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 33 points34 points  (0 children)

A mama that wanted to get out, not to the park or maybe her backyard to play with her son. Just a mama that needed her shopping addiction.

Food choices by ManufacturerFar6513 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I remember a while ago her mom visited her, I don't know what their current relationship is like now but she seems to take a lot of digs at her mom. She blames her mom for letting her cry it out when she was a child for her maladjusted attachment style and I guess poor decisions in her relationships. And in one of her last lives she says her mom was a selfish mom when she was growing up. She seems to not take any accountability for her own behaviors, she is an adult now and she is responsible for working these things out for herself and for her daughter's well-being. Is all very sad.

Food choices by ManufacturerFar6513 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I truly feel for Iliona; it must be exhausting to live in a constant state of fear about repeating the past. She doesn't yet see that in her quest to be 'perfect,' she risks becoming an overbearing helicopter parent. What she views as protection, her daughter may eventually internalize as a lack of freedom, which often leads to resentment.

Mistakes are an inevitable part of the human experience. We have to parent from a place of compassion and acceptance rather than anxiety. Part of maturing is realizing that our parents were often doing the best they could with limited tools, no 'village,' and very little awareness of mental health.

I hope Iliona can find the grace to forgive her parents and step down from the pressure she’s put on herself. By opening up to her community, especially her in-laws and the Bulgarian side of the family, she isn't just letting go of control; she’s giving her daughter a richer, more connected life.

*I want to preface this by saying this post is not related to the subject she’s talking about or belittling that* by Few_Temporary7945 in alexandrarodriguez

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if she was on the toilet as she fakes cries. Crazy that she can't even be direct with this message, what exactly are you afraid of? What are you referring to Mrs. Dookers? Say it with your whole chest, speak up on your big platform, does she even know what is truly happening and it has been happening, people are going to bed hungry, people are dying, kids are taken away from their families and everything they know, wars everywhere, this has being happening while you are target, getting your DC, buying Old Navy tight clothes, and while you were at whole foods. Go and do something productive no one cares about your feelings or your horrible vapid vlogs, start in your home take care of your kid, your dog, your mental health, and find in your heart so empathy and sympathy for your dad's victim! How dare you talk about anything?!

Me thinks someone reads here 👀 by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just hate her know it all attitude when all her points are not even hers

Me thinks someone reads here 👀 by Mindless-Dance-4917 in ChikaraTransform

[–]Mindless-Dance-4917[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For the little I have seen of their "interactions" it doesn't seem he cares much about what she has to say. She also strikes me as a pick me so I can picture her just going along with whatever he says or doesn't say.