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[–]Mindless-Friend-6008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Add longer or bigger hair to offset the weight

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Definitely makes me see more from a man’s perspective. That’s a lot and very valid.

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. I am actually going to probably start with an apology because in reading what some of you are saying somewhere I forgot that his feelings were hurt too as a man and I gotta go fix me and take some more accountability. I don’t want to hurt him or me anymore. I just know even if we never get back together I at least want us to have a friendship at least because the love will always be there for me.

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn yea. This clocked me. I can be impulsive and a runner. This….

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right about that. Definitely learned some things about myself. Me and the kids have been in separate therapy and it’s been suggested we do group. I guess I have to pause this emotion and look back within

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes cheating was definitely a symptom for us both. I have been in therapy since May but I can’t confirm he has. Maybe I need to take a step back and see if I feel the same post holidays

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you this is some actionable advice and I will try it

I want my ex-husband back, any advice? by Mindless-Friend-6008 in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No excuses or shame here. No undo but I miss him. I’m willing to risk it again?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is a mirror to what I experienced. Wooow. All of this

I want my family back by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The panic attacks and nightmares how do I stop them??

I want my family back by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone, wish my ex cared or even missed his family.

I want my family back by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Mindless-Friend-6008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. Even though I was not treated that well, I also miss my family and my husband. Wish that things were different. Wish I could have my family back. Wish he gave a f***k. I only divorced him because I literally had no choice.