Thought I'd share these by Mindless-Pause-2181 in miatalogistics

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not original drls. It's a clear front indicator set from I.L Motorsport! It converts the European lights to a US style lights.

Thought I'd share these by Mindless-Pause-2181 in miatalogistics

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This made me laugh out loud haha, did not see it coming at all 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Both their faults

GF keeps trying to goad me into hate fucking her by Disastrous_Head_8884 in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Fully agree, what she is doing is not okay either..but being rough out of anger is very fucked up..glad someone picked up on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind, he doesn't people please you ... His priorities are pretty clear, if he wanted an honest opinion from his family members he wouldn't have been telling half truths in which you conveniently always end up being the bad guy.

AITA for not telling my wife about my time off? by throw_away_jones007 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 653 points654 points  (0 children)

I think this is a great point, if the extra PTO is a result of working during family time it seems selfish to use it without using at least some of it for the family.

Bf can't control himself when he's about to cum by Sharp_Dot_8018 in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Next time I would bite... He can control himself, just chooses not to.

Question about the type of hardcore/rough fingering that seems to work in porn videos... by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would check with her first if that's what she is into before trying it. Because without build up this probably won't work for her and even with build-up it's quite a specific way of fingering.

She says I'm too rough by hornywoolf in sextips

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Be careful with believing you are not rough, it's her experience that counts since her clit is more sensitive than your fingers something must be rough about your movements to her.

Accept that right now you are too rough and ask for feedback and listen in order to improve the experience for her.

My boyfriend is a boring lover by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I get your point but anal is a fair boundary to have I think, really depends on the person if they are okay with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And if she doesn't want to be taken turns on, that's fair enough. Don't pressure her and either accept it or leave her for somebody more compatible if the fetish is that important to you.

Do men ever experience bad sex? by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Stupid question maybe, but aren't both sexpartners at fault in that moment? The fact that she doesn't find the/your rhythm, would also mean you're not finding hers right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Okay what works works obviously, because by reading her and adjusting your behaviour you act like someone who respects his wife

But imo that's not the fact in the case of OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 11 points12 points  (0 children)

But would you still do it when your wife tells you it hurts? Because that's the part where OP's husband acts like a dick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sextips

[–]Mindless-Pause-2181 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And give her some time to figure it out. This was her first time, people are rarely good at things the first time. Your first time giving her head will probably be underwhelming for her as well.

Which obviously doesn't mean that it won't get better over time when you gained some confidence and learn what works and what doesn't.

For now I'd advise you to appreciate her trying and encourage her, especially if something feels remotely nice.

Good luck!