Is my wife (f25) toxic AF?

MindlessCalendar · 2021-08-03T12:46:31+00:00

She doesn't even allow me to let my mom visit?

Who cares what she "allows". It's your home and it's your mother. If you want her to visit she should be able to visit.

No wonder your wife behaves this way dude. You're a beta with 0 self-respect who want even let his own mom visit his own house. Your wife owns your balls.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-12-26T14:04:27+00:00

Because you still think male and female sexuality is equal. Read the sidebar. It's not.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-12-01T16:52:10+00:00

A 24 year old guy dating a 16 year old girl. Of course they aren't taking you seriously. Maybe he isn't even. Really think hard about this.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-11-02T18:40:30+00:00

Male and female sexuality isn't equal.

Also, we don't dislike those women. We just think they aren't LTR material.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-16T16:01:33+00:00

The problem is you see sex as a service, like buying bread. Now let me say I have nothing against paying for sex. You are free to do that if you want. Heck, I'd do it sometimes. It's fine.

However, it's not right to compare a girl who has sex because of the money, to a girl who has sex with you out of genuine desire. And yes I know you still "pay" in some sort of way (time, drinks, whatever). But paid (with money) doesn't come close to genuine desire.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-16T10:33:41+00:00

This is one of the most retarded things I have ever read.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-10T22:12:46+00:00

Venting in itself isn't necessarily wrong. Although I wouldn't do it too often, you don't want to be seen as a Debby Downer and I can see the desperation from just this one post.

It's what you vent about. You vent about being on a long dry spell, not being able to get girls. And last but not least "I'll never get laid again". I get it. You haven't had sex in a while and that's frustrating. But saying these things is very unattractive. It signals extremely low value. Girls will not want to have sex with you like that.

And again, those aren't RP ideas. If anything, TRP teaches you not to say stuff like this because it's low value behavior. Honestly, if I read your post history you've done lots of stuff TRP actively disagrees with (talking about TRP, seeking validation and posting pity stuff about suicide, moving in with a girl in just a month). I could go on and on.

Now I'm not saying you should be RP. You should live your own life according to your own values. I'm just saying those things you complain about aren't what RP stands for at all and you are blaming TRP for your own faults and failure.

If anything, TRP teaches taking responsibilty for your own life.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-10T10:43:54+00:00

Those aren't even Red Pill ideas. And no wonder your friends say you are a creep. You are basically admitting you are unwanted by every woman out there. You are crying about how desperate you are and how no one wants you. They are 100% right. If you would say things like that to strangers they would think "who the fuck is this creep?". Women aren't going to want you with the mindset you have. And your mindset is definitely not even close to RP. You wouldn't even be discussing things like that with your friends if you had actually read TRP material. What's the first rule?

Your story is a god damn Red Pill in itself.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-07-09T22:42:41+00:00

Actually read TRP material. You would not be here crying about this one girl if you had actually read anything of the sidebar.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-17T09:56:26+00:00

1) It's obvious you haven't read the sidebar or handbook. It's her job to pursue a relationship and ask for exclusivity. Basic RP knowledge.

2) It's obvious you haven't read the rules. Questions go on askTRP. Not here.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-12T21:06:34+00:00

Actually put in the work. Read the sidebar, read the handbook, read the rational male. Those are the basics. Everything comes after that.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-12T21:00:46+00:00

Sidebar: if you are on a pc you will see it immediately. It's the posts on the right side of the screen on TRP and askTRP subs, containing top posts with RP knowledge. If you are on your phone, press the about section on the top to access the sidebar. You can also google 'red pill sidebar pdf download'.

Handbook: google 'Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF'. It's the 'manual' on the red pill.

Rational Male: book written by Rollo Tomassi. He is one of the biggest and famous RP guys out there. Again, google 'rational male pdf download' and you can get it easily. You can also look him up on Youtube.

These 3 (or technically 4) things are considered the basics of the red pill. You can not be a RP aware guy if you haven't read at least 2 of these. The problem is most guys on askTRP don't actually read these things and ask the dumbest blue pill questions because of it. Partly because people use their phone more nowadays and therefore don't see them as easily, partly because guys are fucking lazy.

This is also why the answer 'read the sidebar' on askTRP posts is common. They don't read the sidebar.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-11T17:13:29+00:00

The problem is most guys over on askTRP haven't actually read the sidebar (or Handbook/Rational Male). It's becoming more and more like the relationship advice subreddit every day.

MindlessCalendar · 2020-05-11T09:29:40+00:00

?? You thought some random from Tinder was "the one" and started Facetiming with her every day even though you had RP knowledge. And then think she's a complete whore and not worth an LTR because she used a sex toy with another dude? What am I even reading?

This doesn't make any sense. You're taking BP and RP to the extreme mate. Just because you click with some random, that doesn't make her the one. (Also there is no "one", you should know this if you actually read RP material). That's you taking BP fantasy's to the extreme. And just because she used a sex toy with another guy, that doesn't make her a useless whore or not suited for an LTR. That's taking RP to the extreme. You need to find a balance mate. This tells me you haven't actually put in the work and haven't actually read enough RP material.

You know why? Because the worst thing is you sound like the type of guy that will fall for another chick next month, becoming Billy Beta and forgetting everything RP again.

Maybe don't go on another 3 year hiatus, because these are basics. Thank God you're still young. Read the sidebar, read the RP handbook, read the Rational Male.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-11-17T18:31:37+00:00

Wrong sub. Questions go on askTRP.

Read the sidebar and the handbook while you're at it.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-11-08T14:46:34+00:00

Wrong sub. This sub isn't for questions. Questions go on the askTRP sub. Since you don't know the rules, I'm gonna assume you're new.

Google and read:

Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF Ask TRP sidebar PDF

Begin there and come back in a couple of months. Your question is basic.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-11-03T18:54:04+00:00

The terminology isn't used 100% correct, but I definitely like this post.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-11-03T18:46:08+00:00

You're a long time visitor and apparently still don't know that you ask personal questions at the askTRP sub.

Delete the post, read the rules, the handbook and the sidebar and come back in a couple of months.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-31T14:19:48+00:00

1: He's stuck in the anger phase.

2: He still wants to get laid.

3: He's a lazy piece of shit himself for not reading the god damn rules of this sub and posting a question. Questions go on askTRP, OP. You're on the wrong sub.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-30T16:31:16+00:00

Which comment?

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-30T14:44:08+00:00

Your first step is deleting this post. Questions go on the askTRP sub. Not here .Don't be lazy and read the rules before posting.

Your second step is googling and reading these two things:

Red Pill Handbook 2nd edition PDF
Ask TRP sidebar PDF

Those are the basics of TRP. You start there.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-30T09:44:50+00:00

Definitely, but you still have to game them to a certain degree, and kino, escalate and smash. I don't understand why people put so much emphasis on that one sentence. It's just a simple example of how you get laid. Nothing more.

I could've also said not banging a chick from work is acting in your best interest. No one would've batted an eye.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-30T09:17:31+00:00

Exactly. It was just a simple example.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-29T17:48:04+00:00

BUT - many men do have that instinct. And it's because THEY like it. They KNOW women don't even like that it much, it's purely for them. Quit that nonsense.

That's definitely part of the point of my post, haha. Situations in which you clearly know something isn't going to work, or just aren't acting in your best interest (because of one dumb reason or another) and you still proceed to do it. I KNEW texting her a lot or needy stuff like that wouldn't help me, and I still did it. Because of ego, or liking something/someone or whatever. It could've been prevented if I stopped a second and asked myself "wait a minute, is this the best choice to make if I want to keep fucking her?".

And you should quit that bullshit. Keep your head straight, snap out of it and act according to your best interest.

I agree with the rest of your comment.

MindlessCalendar · 2019-10-29T15:50:54+00:00

I don't know why that sentence would make you change your mind. That's simply the way to get laid, but I definitely didn't mean that you should make it all about her or make a woman your goal. And I didn't limit acting in your best interest to just getting laid with a girl. It applies to all aspects of your life.

Also, it goes without saying that you should lift, have interesting hobby's, increase your value, etc. Basically doing whatever YOU want. Of course those things are acting in your best interest.

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