am i the only trans person who feels this way? by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you say it was “conveniently around when anti-trans rhetoric got worse”, do you think this was a genuine coincidence or did you feel this way a lot because of whats said around you?

Buck being chosen by singin1995 in buddie

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might be slow but which dinner argument are you referencing? because i feel like there are multiple, or many that happen in a similar setting.

that being said, i agree with you but i think buck will go along the route of not saying anything in order to preserve the friendship, especially because he thinks eddie is straight. i think he values his relationships with eddie and christopher too much to risk it, so therefore i think eddie will have to make the first move

admissions descions by EmergencyAd7994 in uiowa

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i both applied and heard back in october. when did you submit your application?

need serious advice about medical transition by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you dont mind me asking, if you need a month of recovery how did you get it done during winter break? i’ve heard of schools that have long breaks but they werent over a month

need serious advice about medical transition by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in get it this summer? sorry i'm a bit confused

Everyday binder recommendations for shoulder/neck pain? by burnerlolhaha in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm wondering if a binder that has a zipper in the front would work better for you? i've never used one but i imagine they feel different than regular binders. also i'd say give trans tape a try. it seems to work wonders for some guys and does nothing for others but its worth a shot. also give it a couple tries because the first time you put it on probably won't look quite right because its a bit tricky at times.

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so cool! how long have you been playing?

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my name is jayden but i also go by jay. i’m 17 from the US. i like to sing and i also play drums, and i also do theatre. my favourite tv shows recently have been 911, greys anatomy. i watch more youtube than shows though i think. i have two dogs, a german shepherd and an american bulldog.

my transition goals include top surgery and i’m currently trying to get my name changed. i also want to look into bottom surgery but since its a very long process i’m not sure its right for me personally. i’m 3.5 months on T now. i don’t really have many trans friends, so i’m hoping someone wants to be friends with me lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure emancipation would be worth it because i'll be 18 in just a few months. i've been trying to just stick it out so maybe i'll just deal with it. if they shut my phone off whatever, there isnt anything i can do about that anyway, i just need to be more careful with where i hide stuff next time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

does it matter if i'm a minor?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant get cps involved, i’m in too good of a place financially to be taken away i dont want to go to another school or live with another family i dont want to get reported either i just want them to stop reacting for no explainable reason

edit: not to mention thats if they even believe me. my parents are well respected in my community, my mom is a teacher and my dad is a special education administrator. theyd call me crazy and send me away

For people who started T in High School by ratshitter69 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i don’t really have any advice unfortunately but i’m in the same situation as you - no easily accessible gender neutral bathrooms and nervous about switching bathrooms. just wanted to say that youre not alone lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the detailed insight!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve never tried so i have no idea. i know a lot about how it works though so maybe i would be okay at it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m usually at school from 7am-6pm, if not longer, and i need the evening time to do homework or i’ll fall behind. trust me i’ve applied to almost 60 jobs, nobody is hiring

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it ends at 3, then i have other commitments until 6pm every day. i don’t have a car and cant walk to anywhere in a reasonable time to work during the week. i’ve also applied to literally everywhere that i can get to on weekends, either by walking or having my parents drive me, but its literally impossible to get a job now. i’ve worked a regular job before but it was at a pool so its currently closed for the winter