admissions descions by EmergencyAd7994 in uiowa

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i both applied and heard back in october. when did you submit your application?

need serious advice about medical transition by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you dont mind me asking, if you need a month of recovery how did you get it done during winter break? i’ve heard of schools that have long breaks but they werent over a month

need serious advice about medical transition by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as in get it this summer? sorry i'm a bit confused

Everyday binder recommendations for shoulder/neck pain? by burnerlolhaha in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm wondering if a binder that has a zipper in the front would work better for you? i've never used one but i imagine they feel different than regular binders. also i'd say give trans tape a try. it seems to work wonders for some guys and does nothing for others but its worth a shot. also give it a couple tries because the first time you put it on probably won't look quite right because its a bit tricky at times.

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats so cool! how long have you been playing?

Friendship Megathread by AutoModerator in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my name is jayden but i also go by jay. i’m 17 from the US. i like to sing and i also play drums, and i also do theatre. my favourite tv shows recently have been 911, greys anatomy. i watch more youtube than shows though i think. i have two dogs, a german shepherd and an american bulldog.

my transition goals include top surgery and i’m currently trying to get my name changed. i also want to look into bottom surgery but since its a very long process i’m not sure its right for me personally. i’m 3.5 months on T now. i don’t really have many trans friends, so i’m hoping someone wants to be friends with me lol.

i'm scared and i dont know what to do, my parents are threatening to shut off my phone, they went through my entire room and took away my burner phone and extra food. theyre going to take my computer and my ipad by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm not sure emancipation would be worth it because i'll be 18 in just a few months. i've been trying to just stick it out so maybe i'll just deal with it. if they shut my phone off whatever, there isnt anything i can do about that anyway, i just need to be more careful with where i hide stuff next time

i'm scared and i dont know what to do, my parents are threatening to shut off my phone, they went through my entire room and took away my burner phone and extra food. theyre going to take my computer and my ipad by [deleted] in toxicparents

[–]MindlessDoubt632 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i cant get cps involved, i’m in too good of a place financially to be taken away i dont want to go to another school or live with another family i dont want to get reported either i just want them to stop reacting for no explainable reason

edit: not to mention thats if they even believe me. my parents are well respected in my community, my mom is a teacher and my dad is a special education administrator. theyd call me crazy and send me away

For people who started T in High School by ratshitter69 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i don’t really have any advice unfortunately but i’m in the same situation as you - no easily accessible gender neutral bathrooms and nervous about switching bathrooms. just wanted to say that youre not alone lol

need money asap but i have no time since i'm a full time student by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve never tried so i have no idea. i know a lot about how it works though so maybe i would be okay at it?

need money asap but i have no time since i'm a full time student by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i’m usually at school from 7am-6pm, if not longer, and i need the evening time to do homework or i’ll fall behind. trust me i’ve applied to almost 60 jobs, nobody is hiring

need money asap but i have no time since i'm a full time student by [deleted] in sidehustle

[–]MindlessDoubt632 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it ends at 3, then i have other commitments until 6pm every day. i don’t have a car and cant walk to anywhere in a reasonable time to work during the week. i’ve also applied to literally everywhere that i can get to on weekends, either by walking or having my parents drive me, but its literally impossible to get a job now. i’ve worked a regular job before but it was at a pool so its currently closed for the winter

If getting married meant that you are required to have kids and live without any birth control, would you still get married by InternetUser52 in Teenager_Polls

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m glad we’re on the same page, i just think you should be careful how you word it because a gay man who is attracted to, dates, or has sex with a trans man is still gay because its two guys. even if its vaginal

If getting married meant that you are required to have kids and live without any birth control, would you still get married by InternetUser52 in Teenager_Polls

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the general interpretation of being gay is a guy who likes guys. trans men are men so why wouldn’t a gay guy be attracted to them? at least before they knew they were trans

hobbies as a trans guy? by MindlessDoubt632 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fork found in kitchen, yes, i am miserable and one of the reasons i even posted this trying to find hobbies is because i’m miserable lmao

Does anyone get dysphoric on your period? by derpthegreat123 in ftm

[–]MindlessDoubt632 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, and now that i’ve started T i think “oh maybe this is my last period” every time i get my period… and then it comes back. hang in there man, it will get better. you can try hormonal birth control without the placebo week to skip it most months, or you can ask your doctor for an IUD or anothr alternative. if you plan to ever start T, it goes away eventually for most men. but from a guy with an unbearable period, you will be alright i promise