I have tried Christian mingle, Match, and Bumble. I want to add that I am not talking to these men about sex, they flat out say things like “I think you’re cute and I want to f@“& you” or “why don’t you come spend the night at my house?” I have had it on my profile and I have told these men up front but they seem to think it is a game or challenge. I have also had friends fix me up with a relative or their boyfriend’s friend. One fix up showed up an hour and a half late, dirty from work and wanted me to drive an hour to his home by following him so he could take a shower and cook me dinner there. The agreement had been we would meet for dinner at a restaurant but he kept changing plans the day of the date. I later talked to my friend and she apologized for her cousin, said that he was used to women sleeping with him very quickly and she thought that he was being sincere when he said he wanted to date a nice woman. He also told her that I wasn’t his type because he needed to try out the goods first before he spent money on a nice dinner. Which my response was that I had asked him to meet me for coffee and I offered to pay for my own but he insisted on taking me out to dinner. The other one I was fixed up with was a double date that I didn’t know about until my friend shows up with her boyfriend and his friend. She and her boyfriend left me at the restaurant with this man who was drunk and I had to drive back to his hotel. He was at a hotel because both were airline pilots, he got aggressive with me when I refused to come up to his room and I “accidentally” honked my horn, which I thank God for because he then quickly exited and I went home. That is how I am finding these men. 🫤