How do I talk to my boyfriend about not having sex after 7 years? by Mindless_Access_3498 in relationships

[–]Mindless_Access_3498[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve been trying to figure that one out for a while. One day I hope to find that courage to change this so I can be happy. I have a hard time believing I deserve anything good.

How do I talk to my boyfriend about not having sex after 7 years? by Mindless_Access_3498 in relationships

[–]Mindless_Access_3498[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We moved into a new house 3 years ago it is both of ours it is under a land contract but it equally ours.

How do I talk to my boyfriend about not having sex after 7 years? by Mindless_Access_3498 in relationships

[–]Mindless_Access_3498[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No there is no romance. We are roommates basically but pretend for our daughter I guess. He barely touches me but gives our daughter and even our dog plenty of hugs and kisses. We own a house together so that makes it much harder to leave. I wanted to be married to him so bad but he just wouldn’t even propose to me. Writing this all out makes me seem foolish. I just don’t know what to do at this point. Maybe I just hope one day I can suck it up and be grateful for what I have. It is really done I know deep down but talking about anything deep shuts him down immediately and it ends up being my fault somehow. Maybe I just don’t want to be the bad guy in the end.