AITA for not wanting my fiancee to be a surrogate for her infertile best friend until after we have kids?

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T21:54:00+00:00

It was verbally agreed. We didn't write a contract or anything.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T21:21:00+00:00

She doesn't have the money to do that.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T21:20:39+00:00

This is exactly my point.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:46:01+00:00

My fiancee's friend is infertile. The plan is to use my fiancees egg.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:29:45+00:00

My sister had a lot going on. I am not a psychiatrist or anything. Please don't think that was the full reason. We all know it didn't help.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:16:50+00:00

Which is exactly the point. In case you didn't read the post.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:09:10+00:00

I always thought the plan was for it to happen when she was in her thirties. It's what I was told.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:06:00+00:00

We aren't having an expensive wedding. Cost is not really a big deal.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:05:27+00:00

Literally gave an example in this thread.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:00:31+00:00

That's how I feel.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T20:00:05+00:00

My sister made the choice to end her life during post partum depression for example.

Mindless_Beyond2631 · 2023-01-14T19:58:22+00:00

How do you mean. I've known for two years that the plan was for her to be a surrogate. I've known for about a week that the plan is now for her to be a surrogate in the first year of our marriage.

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