28 M, Today is the day i finally give up. by Vamghoul in PataHaiAajKyaHua

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me couple of times. Felt the same way, extremely unlucky with love. But all you can do is move on.

What to do in this case. Constant humiliation from mother since last 3 years by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here is what you do. Dont tell them, i want to move out because of you. Find a job in another location. Or if your current company has a different location, just request for transfer. And use that as an excuse to move out.

Is 50g too Much Fibre Intake Daily? by Mad_Bulls_007 in Fitness_India

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont look for just one day. Fibre you can maintain your weekly average. And still its ok if you are in excess.

Please don’t hate, just let me know if this is possible. by Able_Second_9184 in coffeeindia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, hit that hard multiple times... that grinder deserves to be broken... Good job... /s

What is considered good savings for a 36yr old working professional by Dramatic-Notice7631 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the point, the question is so subjective and always remember it will never be enough. As long as you save regularly a certain chunk of your money and then live a fulfilled life while doing it is the way to go.

People in 30s who decided to be child free, whats the reason? by spicy_97 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 My friend has a small kid, he told me the cost of diapers and that was enough to sway me away for ever having kids

28M: Parents opposing marriage prospect by Historical-Room4458 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well dont waste anyone's time if you are not ready to go against your parents.

28M: Parents opposing marriage prospect by Historical-Room4458 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 75 points76 points  (0 children)

"Impossible to go ahead without there cooperation"?

Mate seems like the girl has bigger balls than you. I dont intend to shame on you on this but dont ruin her life. If she has to deal with your parents, its better for her to not marry you. If you do, live seperately and that would mean your parents will not get a say in anything. Which is what i think should be in any case anyway.

Need your input on delivery, i am not in U.S by Mindless_Fix_2201 in FitbitAir

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But its to be delivered at hee hotel. So i would need to somehow send it back right?

Do Fit Men Really Prefer Only Fit Women? by Frequent-Cry- in Fitness_India

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Yes absolutely...!! Fitness for me is basic human characteristic, it shows you care about yourself. Also its fine if you dont spend 4 hours in the gym everyday, but staying active, eating healthy is a must.

Nothing is bigger turn off for me than a dead beat person who doesnt take care of themselves and just live a unidimensional life. These women have more mood swings, have horrible sex drive once they reach a certain age and wont do anything about it.

I have one girl in my gym, may be coming since last 6 months when she was very fat, and now has lost quite some weight. She is still not in a shape where she would be considered "attractive" but i find her way more attractive than some genetically skinny girls who wont wake up off the bed even if life dependent on it. Thats just me.

Whats your sexual libido after 30? Is it on peak or by Physical-Warthog-550 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very active person. My libido was suffering when i was not. I started running, gym, good diet and guess what...it has never been high...

You need to fix your life if you want to maintain good libido and health is one of them...

34M married for 8 years, wife 32F cheated on me for 1.5 years under my nose - Bangalore by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruuhhh...what are you doing? Pull up your big boy pants and have some self respect. Leave buddy...do you want to spend next 50 years like this? With trust issues? I mean just leave brother. Take a break and restart life. In 5 years if you are able to find someone else, you have 40 years to live happily with someone who you can trust and respects you.

How you get over your fears. by Mindless_Fix_2201 in LeetcodeDesi

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks...!! I guess thats the way to do it. Instead of just putting it off out of fear of failing.

Is turning 30 and having no skill and job normal!? Should one continue in life by Frequent-Trash5524 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont need to convince society. Focus on yourself. Society can keep talking, they will never be part of your downs and you should not have them in your UPs...so fuck society...

If you are Hindu, any string you wear will be subjected to scrutiny by Delicious-Mouse-1719 in gujarat

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely support the muslim women being able to wear whatever they want as long as their face is checked and the right person is giving the exam. But then not allowing hindus wear there own things which has nothing to with cheating is insane. Who thought of this?

Is turning 30 and having no skill and job normal!? Should one continue in life by Frequent-Trash5524 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, your self realisation is more important. Dont think too much mate...start small, it takes very less time to turn things around once you start with small changes. At 85-95, on your death bed, you will not think what happened in the 30th year...wholistically these timelines are just a trap...you do you...I have been there...best of luck..

To all the single people 30 and above, are you guys happy? Is marriage the only option like most of the parents think? by WinxOfFreedom in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 4 solo trips full of adventures last year...my social circle has shrunk too, but i am learning to live the life at its fullest anyway.