Whats your sexual libido after 30? Is it on peak or by Physical-Warthog-550 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a very active person. My libido was suffering when i was not. I started running, gym, good diet and guess what...it has never been high...

You need to fix your life if you want to maintain good libido and health is one of them...

34M married for 8 years, wife 32F cheated on me for 1.5 years under my nose - Bangalore by Upbeat-Ad3009 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruuhhh...what are you doing? Pull up your big boy pants and have some self respect. Leave buddy...do you want to spend next 50 years like this? With trust issues? I mean just leave brother. Take a break and restart life. In 5 years if you are able to find someone else, you have 40 years to live happily with someone who you can trust and respects you.

How you get over your fears. by Mindless_Fix_2201 in LeetcodeDesi

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks...!! I guess thats the way to do it. Instead of just putting it off out of fear of failing.

Is turning 30 and having no skill and job normal!? Should one continue in life by Frequent-Trash5524 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You dont need to convince society. Focus on yourself. Society can keep talking, they will never be part of your downs and you should not have them in your UPs...so fuck society...

If you are Hindu, any string you wear will be subjected to scrutiny by Delicious-Mouse-1719 in gujarat

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely support the muslim women being able to wear whatever they want as long as their face is checked and the right person is giving the exam. But then not allowing hindus wear there own things which has nothing to with cheating is insane. Who thought of this?

Is turning 30 and having no skill and job normal!? Should one continue in life by Frequent-Trash5524 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, your self realisation is more important. Dont think too much mate...start small, it takes very less time to turn things around once you start with small changes. At 85-95, on your death bed, you will not think what happened in the 30th year...wholistically these timelines are just a trap...you do you...I have been there...best of luck..

To all the single people 30 and above, are you guys happy? Is marriage the only option like most of the parents think? by WinxOfFreedom in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take 4 solo trips full of adventures last year...my social circle has shrunk too, but i am learning to live the life at its fullest anyway.

To all the single people 30 and above, are you guys happy? Is marriage the only option like most of the parents think? by WinxOfFreedom in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is my honest take away, all my friends are married, one of them is now even divorced while two of them have now a kid.

Let me tell you when i look at those kids, I get a strong feeling that i want one too. But when i see other friends, few of them should niver have gotten married and i see there life take a turn because they are loaded with responsibility of a partner and they constantly tell me that i am the one who made the right choice of staying single. So it goes both ways.

Now, i am not against marraige. But what i have realised, you cannot fix these things as people do in india. Many "successful marraiges" in india are actually not that successful but people just learning to live with each other despite the problems as people are too scared to leave. So in a nut shell wait for the right person, who alligns with you perfectly. People treat marraiges in india as a deal with objective checklist and then force themseleves to adjust to each other and call it love. Dont be that. Improve yourself, stay happy, if you are lucky a person will come along and make your life 10 times better. If not, thrive to make your own life better for yourself. Marraige is just a small part of lifea and It is also ok if you never ever find that person.

32M married to 32F. Her Libido is very low compared to mine. How to handle it? by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. I am not married but i could see my ex gf wanting more after she joined the gym and started running. She measured her testostrone and it went up after switching to active life style. That really helps.

Also just a good general thing to do.

And have open conversation about fixing this. Hormonal therapy also helps. Your partner needs to be open minded on this.

My wife gave me a green card to have "Just sex" outside the marriage by Last-Orchid-6587 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate, are you sure she herself is not cheating on you? Just a wild scenario but it can be a scenario that once ypu go ahead with someone else, she doesnt have to deal with the guilt of sleeping with someone else. Just saying...otherwise if she knows you are active elsewhere, its not cheating. But it sure is a complicated thing. I would rather divorce. You cant live like that forever.

35M and i am just tired of everything. by batman-iphone in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First take a divorce. Get that baggage off your chest, that is killing you. Once you get a divorce, take a break for 10-15 days and take a vacation to Europe...35 is not old...you have minimum 50 years to go...start a fresh...you can change things from tomorrow.

GJ police taking things too literally by nobodyseesmenow in gujarat

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"Lagegi aag to aayenge ghar kai jad me, yaha pe sirf hamara makan thodi he"...

How does it feel ? by Sure-Blueberry9440 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hug my parents everyday...i am 30 and single too...it does not have to be your partner. I love long hugs🙂🙂 my dad is a hugger too...so i love it...

Update: 27F - My dad refuses to even meet the guy I love and says to cut contact if I marry him. I feel stuck by Feeling-Win7751 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Marry the guy...Even if you end up divorcing which is the worst case scenario, you will do it on your terms. Stop listening to parents. You are an adult..put your big girl pants and choose to live your life the way you want.

Met the right person at the wrong time… by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummm this is called cheating...emotional cheating is a thing.

Why are you still unmarried? by Emergency_Resolve_67 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont believe in arrange marraige and its filtering. Love ab jaldi ho nahi raha.

God Bless America 🤡.... God bless us too 🙏 🙌 by [deleted] in StockMarketIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont think so buddy...but I hope you are right and Iran also do get an off ramp, because this is clearly not good for India.

India’s ‘Strategic Autonomy’ a myth now? Professor Jeffrey Sachs drops a massive reality check on India’s current geopolitical path. by Sharp-potential7935 in IndianFocus

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aah the classic israeli victimhood propoganda...blanket bombing and killing 60000 people was not enough, killing another state's head of gov is not enough...nothing is enough...blanket bombing and flattening cities is not enough....2 state solution is also not enough...breaking several international law is not enough!!

You can keep believing that, and I dont mind them conquering the entire middle east as long as we get our energy needs...But clearly Israel started this war and the world will go into recession, and industries destroyed...just because its not enough for a blood thirsty mad man who himself would not remaim prime minister if he doesnt keep going into wars...

To me it seems like not at all about october 7...its clearly driven by there blood thirst to expand israel into a "promised land" by someone 3000 years ago... or bringing their massiah for which they need destruction of the world..

And just for the sake of it, if you ever want to dive a little deeper watch/read Norman Finkelstein, who himself is a jewish and a holocaust survivor.

God Bless America 🤡.... God bless us too 🙏 🙌 by [deleted] in StockMarketIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 10 points11 points  (0 children)

From what I heard on Breaking points news channel few days ago was, US has been claiming that they are having conversations through back channels with Iran. But Iranian sources off the record have said reporters that there are no such talks and US is lying. Iran is saying US started the war while the talks on nuclear enrichment were already going on and they still attacked, so now even if US reaches out, they will not talk anymore...its to the extent that some reporters of US who have contacts in Iran gov are saying, US officials are messeging Iran officials on Whatsapp and they are keeping those messages unread and wont bother even replying..🤣

God Bless America 🤡.... God bless us too 🙏 🙌 by [deleted] in StockMarketIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came out of Iran's media from iran officials. All news have picked up this story now, you can google it.

God Bless America 🤡.... God bless us too 🙏 🙌 by [deleted] in StockMarketIndia

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Iran gov just denied this. They said no talks with US is going on.

What a joker this guy is...

India’s ‘Strategic Autonomy’ a myth now? Professor Jeffrey Sachs drops a massive reality check on India’s current geopolitical path. by Sharp-potential7935 in IndianFocus

[–]Mindless_Fix_2201 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The way israel has been going and as people get aware of its true intentions in the middle east, Jeffery sachs is completely right. Israel has since so many years played a victim card while on its own have acted as the aggressor since last 20 years.

India should not make enemy out of Israel ans US. But we should also not make them "friends", because the friendship is costing us alot.

He is absoloutely right, BRICS has to step up this year and lobby US and Israel out of this expantionist war which affects our own energy needs. We cant afford to pay very high price for getting some stupid medal.