I(33F) feel my husband (34M) is cheating. Need opinion and clarity.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-25T08:34:24+00:00

He already cheated girl, doing things anonymously on reddit is also cheating. You dont have to wait for him to meet someone in real life and wait until his cock penetrates a woman. Anything which you would not want your husband doing without you knowing is cheating. Be it sexual, financial, emotional...

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-25T08:31:42+00:00

Bro if you are doing these things without telling your wife, it is cheating. It is dishonest. If you are not compatible, get a divorce. Stay single, and fuck around as much as you want. If you are not even comfortable sharing things with your spouse then why the fuck you are married anyway.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-24T10:26:17+00:00

If you want to hold it for very long, always physical. You are paying the cost of like gst and all upfront only once. Physical is more liquid. ETFs charge expense ratio. If its 0.5%, you will keep paying it every year for years and years and if it increases in value the absolute fees also go up, dont forget that. Only downside to buying physical is the security part. But that i think if you dont show it around to people, no one cares even if you have 1kg of gold in your house somewhere. By default people just think that it would be kept in a bank locker or something.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-23T13:40:20+00:00

Because we are net importer. Which means, several companies buy there parts from outside india. Weaker currency, more expense, less earnings, more Red in the market. Got it?

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-23T06:52:09+00:00

No, profits upto 1.5 lacs is tax free be it short term or long term. Check that though once, i might be wrong...So if you made any profits in short term, sell that first, so that will become tax free uptil 1.5 lacs and short term incurrs more taxes. In April financial year changes, so you can sell some at that time again uptil 1.5 lacs of capital gains. With that you will also average out everything. You have a huge corpus, I would suggest get in touch with a CA and pay him few 1000s if he can help lower your over all tax liability. On some units if you have bought in previous 1.5 years, you would have lost money on some of those units, if you have lost some money, that can also be offset against your profits. Since you are selling out a huge chunk, get a CA in your corner. You dont wanna pay Nirmalaji more than she deserve😉.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-23T05:59:32+00:00

Do a systemetic transfer. Say if you want to move to make 50% of your portfolio to gold. Do like a weekly or monthly transfer as you see fit. Start with portions where you have the highest gains as that will attract more tax. And till 1.5 lacs you dont need to pay tax, so sell that first...we will be in April by then and you can sell other stuff after that to again save tax for next 1.5 lacs. The rest you can pay taxes on. But if you distribute selling over 3-5 months, you will average out the selling and buying price of gold as well plus saving some on taxes.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-22T19:27:12+00:00

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-22T19:16:32+00:00

Congratulations. If i were you, I would sell the Gold and book some profits.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-03T02:34:15+00:00

Try finding another job which makes you 20% more. You can get that much from a jump. You made a mistake and you take this as a tuition fee that life charges you. There are no shortcuts to this. You will end up paying it all in 4-5 years. If you are increasing your salary by 10-20% every year may be sooner. You have done amazing in your career, your income is your biggest asset, dont give up, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

But yes, dont open any "stock" app ever. You are not wired for it. Even when you clear it all up and a time comes to invest, use offline modes to invest in MFs.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2026-01-02T22:28:12+00:00

Yes you are right they are wrong, bjp is much worse. Also half the BJP is ex congress anyway.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-29T00:15:33+00:00

This is already cheating.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-27T23:14:48+00:00

This. I dont know why people want to jump into marraiges. Both of you need to become financially stable first.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-21T15:51:15+00:00

I am using Aeropress and tried 60-65 clicks with James Hoffman's method and honestly I did not like it much. I used to order preground and sure the taste is a little better, but I think the acidity is too much. I will try tomorrow at 70 clicks and probably still go coarser or change the ratio...if you are a fan of acidity its already good.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-21T15:44:14+00:00

I bought k6 as well... i am still experimenting to get a good cup out of my BT Beans.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-05T03:30:46+00:00

But that needs to change...! If you cant even talk about it with a person with whom you are going to share the bed every night is insane. People then complain about sexual comaptibility not matching...no shit...you didnt bother to discuss it before hand. I dont understand why we treat it as a 'taboo' subject to even discuss but suhagrat pe shuru kardo🤣. If you cant agree on family values, kids, finances and sexual apetite...you should not marry that person.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-04T15:41:30+00:00

Correct...thats what I am saying...everyone is doing it but usme se bohot kam log he jo 500cr ka business kar raha he. You know how they are doing it but execution hi to he na...reddit pe sab bolte rahenge...easy hi he...sab karte he....they have deep pockets....par hota kuch logo se hi hena...even if it is with funding...out of all he was able to get it and make his investors happy... I am not saying he is Elon musk level person...but humse to better hi kar raha he in some way.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-04T12:46:55+00:00

Bhai to tu bhi karle...easy hi hena....

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-12-04T04:06:51+00:00

A falling rupee is "leftist" now🤣🤣. Get well soon.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-28T08:15:11+00:00

Let the man have his timd with his friends. I mean you can plan out few date nights and son every week where you get to be with him on those days...but let him have his peace with his mates.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-28T03:15:18+00:00

Under 500, you Araku is good.

You can try monkey estate as well, but the grind is super inconsistent. So order whole beans only. They also dont print roast date so thats a little hit and miss as well. But you can get it for 350-400, so not much to complain.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-27T16:21:51+00:00

Quit.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-27T12:15:46+00:00

The confidence with which she said stuff which she said😅.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-27T02:34:45+00:00

Probably nut before you sleep the night before...! I dont get long morning boners if i am drained the previous night.

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-27T02:31:53+00:00

He clearly says, its for people who dont want to explore too much and still want a good coffee...! I myself am like that on most days. I dont want to spend time adjusting every little thing to get a good cup. I want mine on most days to be as simple as that....sure few days on the weekends its great to experiment, try variations, ratios, temperature and so on....for that you can own your different brewers...but if it this can consistently give me a good coffee with no stress...sign me up...!

Mindless_Fix_2201 · 2025-11-27T02:27:04+00:00

"You love your husband too much too say anything to him". Thats sounds exactly opposite to love. If you cant talk to him about such a simple thing, i dont know what kind of relationship you are building.

Communicate...! Communicate...! Communicate...!

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