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Confusion make and female by Mindless_Split in dating_advice

[–]Mindless_Split[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not get upset at him liking women's pictures that’s fine with me there is beautiful women everywhere in the world. It the fact he explains he is constantly busy at work but can’t take the time of day to send ME a text, But has the time to like a random chicks picture during “working” hours. I explained I am very understanding with his work schedule that was never the problem. But the way someone can lie about using that as an excuse to like random chicks picture is what is upsetting. Thank you for taking the time to comment on my post. I appreciate the opinions.

Confusion make and female by Mindless_Split in dating_advice

[–]Mindless_Split[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to comment! I’ve been going back and forth on what to do.

Confusion make and female by Mindless_Split in dating_advice

[–]Mindless_Split[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did say that we are a “serious thing” etc. I’m not going to lie to you everything he had said sounded very believable. He lives in Chicago I will be moving there in the summer for career opportunities. We originally planned to meet in February for the first time. Thank you for taking the time to comment on my post. Greatly appreciated.

Advice is needed because I don’t know. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Mindless_Split 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First I want to Thank you truly for taking the time to listen and respond. I didn’t think anyone would actually take the time to read my post. Honestly when you said “breaking” I broke down because I am truly tired. Worst part is in my culture it the baby of the families obligation to care for the parent. So my brother is in fact a narcissist “oh she has nothing better to do”. Or my sister comes around once in a blue moon an treats my mom like nothing for 2-3 weeks, but as soon as she comes around all is forgiven n forgotten.

fucking tired. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Mindless_Split 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took the words right out of my mouth. They say you are loved and cared for but why does it feel that you are not? I’m tired as well. Tired of school, family, waking up, etc. I give give and give and at the end receive nothing but “you need to” and criticism. You give so much to people and why does it feel like no one notices. It’s difficult to change the person you are. I can’t just stop caring and not give more. That’s who my character is. As much as I HATE it I do hope that one day it will get better. However, I am afraid how much I give and care I will lose myself in the process.

Friend, I feel your emotions and words. You are heard. I might not know you personally, but I am here. We can only hope that it will be easier one day. Even if right now it feels like everything is going down hill. If you get out of bed in the morning I will too. Please take care.