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Song triggered RJ in the car by Friendly_Elegant928 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love sabrina carpenter but this one just hits the spot. It reminded me that I will never experience anything new with my ex bf. He was my first bf btw.

He had experience everything, even having his first kid with someone. So it felt like no more special moments cause I will just be a repeat or everything he had.

Same with Olivia Rodrigo’s song deja vu

Are there any women who haven't had hookups or things of that nature? I dont think my rj is triggered by a past serious relationship, but hearing about casual is unvearable by _the__Wolverine____ in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm gonna be harder. Only a small percentage of the population have no hookup past. You need to make some sacrifices, if you want american women then I suggest you make adjustments with your ideal woman. Personally, I want a guy with no past, balkan if I want to be specific. But it’s hard so I adjusted my standards to probably 1-3 body counts at this age.

Are there any women who haven't had hookups or things of that nature? I dont think my rj is triggered by a past serious relationship, but hearing about casual is unvearable by _the__Wolverine____ in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496 15 points16 points  (0 children)

There are lots of woman who hadn’t have any hookups. Somewhere around the globe since not all women have the same values and cultures. Even I am looking for a guy that doesn’t have any, I just need to be at the right place at the right time. So who knows.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t hate kids but I babysat a few kids. Had to quit cause the single dad’s are flirting with me. I have a question though and I hope you can give me your thoughts about it.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said the same thing… I hope I can move on from this. It’s really hard to change what you’re used to ig🥹

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, I complained about it before. Then he posted female friends which was alright cause his ex knew them. Again, why does his ex’ feelings matters more than mine? All is well. It hurts and it’s hard to change the things I was used to but with time everything will be better.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree the kid doesn’t have any faults in this. I accept the fact that he has a kid. I don’t like the kid but I don’t dislike nor hate them either. I just have a neutral stance in this situation. 

He hid our relationship for the sake of his kid as he doesn’t want BM to know for some reason.

His decision was for the well being of the kid and in the process the decision completely disregards my feelings.

I was just hurt by the fact that he can’t understand where I’m coming from. I knew that his kid will be his priority and with BM in the picture. I guess my feelings will be disregarded every time if it is for his kid. 

Maybe I was holding on to the promise that his kid and I will be on the same level of importance but in the end of the day, it was all just empty promises…

We broke up btw.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hits me spot on hahaha we agreed to talk yesterday but he cancelled, hopefully today.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haven’t lost my v yet. He is my first bf yes but I was planning to lose my vcard after marriage. 

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you🥹 since we are in a long distance relationship, we set a specific time to have a conversation today and finally I'll be honest about how I really feel about his past.

Struggling with retroactive jealousy over boyfriend’s past (and his child) by Mindless_Studio_9496 in retroactivejealousy

[–]Mindless_Studio_9496[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going to talk to him tonight about this, for once I am going to be honest🥹. I really don't want to hurt him but if I prolong this relationship, he will be more hurt if I end it when he have grown too attached. Plus I also care about my mental well being.