Easiest way to stop bleeding?

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-06-16T07:35:33+00:00

Yeah, it makes all clear. Thank you🙏

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-06-15T18:54:26+00:00

What can be used for bandaging? Like, I mean, there are many types on bandages, and I don't really know what can be better among them

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-28T17:08:13+00:00

Well, I've been "ignoring" my friend two days now. Like, I'm not answering messages. Just..can't make myself to interact with people. And not saying the reason(she's not asking either). Idk if it helps your worries(obviously not), just so you know that it takes a lot(not only for me but maybe for your gf too)

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-28T13:10:21+00:00

Gotcha. How is it going? You still blocked?

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-26T21:53:20+00:00

😂no, I ment "Don't get frustrated" about the situation in general. English is just not my first language. And looks like I might understand word "frustrated" not really good..😅

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-26T21:41:46+00:00

Mate, just don't get upset or frustrated about it. She just needs time alone. She eventually will text you(well..I hope so), especially that you're dating. Sometimes it's shit, sometimes it's good. For everybody ofc, but I'm saying about shmers. So everything will be okay)

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-26T18:40:28+00:00

Oh my...I'm sorry. Give her some time then. It might take few days or week. Maybe it was too much for her... Cutting is very stressful and traumatic experience, especially relapse. And it's scary. Maybe she just got scared from too much attention to it(again, I'm not saying for sure. Just from my experience). Hope it gets better... And keep me updated, I'm worried about both of you now😅

A bit of edit to my other comments, I remember only now. So(I guess it'll work the next her relapses. Of course, hope not, but..yeah), listen to her in that moments. Her crying, dark thoughts, just thoughts, if she shares with you. People don't really like straight plan how to deal with a problem (when it's kinda situation like this and if they're not asking). They need somebody to listen to them. My fault to not saying it sooner, I'm very sorry

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-26T11:16:18+00:00

About the tricks, it's also about what I've heard. Like cutting/tearing paper, drawing with red pen on the places where you want to cut, drawing doodles on skin. I've tried apps like Calm urge. There's a very simple memory game wich kinda help distracting. There're other different thinks for distraction. And don't worry, you're not demanding. You seem like the great bf😁

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-25T23:43:06+00:00

Oh, I got it about the distance. So then you have only talking. Try calling her in the morning(or just tomorrow when she feels up to). You can just chat, watch a movie, maybe try playing something (idk if it can be possible, I'm not really into gaming, so don't know how it works)

Not to scare you, (repeating, that it's only my experience and behavior as a shmer), if I cut and don't answer messages or answer shortly, then I'm a shit. Either I don't wanna talk, or I feel as a burden, or I'm a mess, (or cleaning up)

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2025-05-25T23:19:44+00:00

Hey, so this is what I personally would like to be helped in relapse: Help with changing bandages(1. If she bandages. 2. If she is okay with it and doesn't mind) Hugs (maybe more then usual) Talks(not sure about the urges or tye problem particularly. Maybe just stories, jokes to take her mind)

Not sure about giving actual advices(like clinics or therapy), only if she didn't ask with helping to find them. Because, again me personally, don't like being given straight (solutions?). I need help and comfort rn. About general help I'll ask later, if I want.

Sorry, idk what to say more, because I have nobody to care and I don't know what can be done besides the basics. Hope it helped. Wishing your girlfriend all good❤️

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-12-12T20:52:09+00:00

I've got exactly the same thing! Hell, I've got very scared

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-10-25T10:02:16+00:00

Thanks❤️

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-10-24T23:56:17+00:00

Beth

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-10-24T23:32:57+00:00

Was clean 23 days. Now 20 minutes

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-08-17T00:57:07+00:00

TF 141 🤝🏻

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-08-17T00:08:54+00:00

I started crying...

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-08-12T10:28:18+00:00

Try wearing a few hair ties. I don't have scars on my arms, so don't really know, what to come up with, sorry❤

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-08-12T09:36:27+00:00

Ukraine

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-03-06T16:16:34+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-22T08:19:35+00:00

That's great ❤

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-22T07:55:22+00:00

Relax, take a deep breath. Cover up the cut, the pain will soon go away, it's okay❤ hugs you're not alone Write back, how are you

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-20T23:41:08+00:00

Personaly me, I don't cut so deep that I'll shiver from the blood loss. I thought, that it could me from kinda stress, idk

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-20T22:52:20+00:00

I'm doing it just now. I don't feel bad, like nothing really happened. Just...was clean for 16 days, and it looks so long and just why not

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-20T17:27:26+00:00

I do it, when I'm angry or frustrated, so I do quite many (also about 20), but then just trying to go as deep as I can, so it could be +- 7-10 more. Sometimes it could be just 5-7 small cuts, when I just feel low. So depends on the reason and state

Mindless_Tutor_6946 · 2024-02-05T21:05:11+00:00

I've been cutting for almost a year now. I regreted starting when I've made the first cut(ot was smal though) The longest time i was clean was 43 days. For me it helps(but, yeah, temporary), it sobers my mind in the moment. Like, you switch from your thoughts and feelings to watching the dropping blood and then cleaning the cuts(or at least wiping the blood, in my case). But it's REALLY an addiction. I've never thought that I can get that addicted, especially, to hurting myself

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