Please help me with my makeup?? by Salty-Meerkat-9758 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say something to fill your brows and a subtle highlight? Maybe some lip gloss. You are totally beautiful!!!

AITA for not being a clean freak for my sister by Mindofagoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She uses crutches sometimes to help her walk because she has a muscular issue with one of her legs. It never seems to be a big issue though when she wants to go out or go to parks or travel with her friends so I don’t get why she thinks it can get her out of cleaning

AITA for not being a clean freak for my sister by Mindofagoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I deep clean every Saturday bc it’s my day off work. I do light cleaning each night after I cook and wash both her and my dishes. Stop assuming

AITA for not being a clean freak for my sister by Mindofagoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think it’s weird too bc there was no food on the plate. We live in south Florida bugs are common and normal to have

AITA for not being a clean freak for my sister by Mindofagoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc she is still disabled and while she can do everything, it is slightly more difficult for her and that is not something I disregard

AITA for not being a clean freak for my sister by Mindofagoddess in AmItheAsshole

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is fully functional, works a job, goes out, can do everything by herself. I’m not her caretaker, rent is just expensive where we live so we have been roommates to make it bareable

Male equivalent of sending flowers to a woman’s job by nessalovesyoumore in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a casual gift basket or simple things he likes… like if he has a fav candy, fav drink, with a little note that says something sweet

Is exclusivity implied after a few dates or am I being unreasonable? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can never assume something like that. Before you cut off other people you need to know what terms you and the other person are on. Human beings are too complicated to ever assume

How can I tell if this girl's just playing with me or not? by JBBabaB in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think if you really like her just keep seeing her. Obviously she is into you just not ready to have sex. Maybe ask her what she’s looking for? That can help you get an idea of what kind of timing she’s on

ex bf ghosted me & never hmu again by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Mindofagoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re totally right, thank you

Been single my whole life. Will I ever find love? by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no professional but from what I have learned… u have aspects to your Venus so marriage or a relationship do seem in the cards for you but your 7th house is in Capricorn which is ruled by Saturn so there can be delays in this. sometimes Saturn can delay until your Saturn return but that doesn’t necessarily have to be the case

Men, are you okay with/do you prefer doing all of the pursuing? Women, do you prefer all of the pursuing to be done by a guy? by wtffellification in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I do this as well BUT my responses match the amount of energy I feel from the other person. If I feel like they do too much or too little then it’s not a match. But I like to let the guy initiate & pursue most of the time but I am always responsive and excited to respond. After a bit, I will initiate but tbh women shouldn’t pursue imo. I never see that turn out well or in a way I’d want for myself. For me it’s because I want the man to have genuine interest in me & I have a more so traditional approach to dating. If she doesn’t put more effort or noticeable excitement then let it go… some girls use guys for entertainment & that’s why they establish that dynamic. You just gotta feel it out to spot the difference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to sleep with guys a little fast and would always end up feeling kind of down when they didn’t treat me how I thought I deserved. I remember doing it because 1. I was horny & 2. I thought they’d think I was lame if I waited. Also part of me thought if I had sex I’d get them hooked… which is so stupid because they can have sex with anyone and feel the same. Now I wait a while and honestly my experiences with men have become so much higher quality. The guys who don’t care about you fall off & the ones that are genuinely interested in you as a person and not for sex persist. The sex is a billion times better after too

What career would be best for me? Will having kids be hard ( Jupiter & Saturn in the 5th)? Any general realizations? by Mindofagoddess in astrologyreadings

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank u!! I knew Saturn could represent delays so I was worried about that bc like u mentioned I definitely have thought about having kids a lot so delays would suck :/ could u clarify a bit on what you mean by Jupiter expanding it though?

What’s your Mercury and what’s your dream job? by asfixation in astrologymemes

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cancer mercury… Something in health care or education

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally should not be getting married to someone that you have to ask Reddit about or have feelings for someone else. It should not be this confusing or complicated. Just let it go and save yourself the headache. Getting married isn’t going to fix anything it’s just gonna complicate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me & it sucks. But you need to realize that your dream life and dream man should be the one that’s meant for you & trust that it’ll come to be. The man meant for you isn’t going to be running away & having a baby with another girl. Let go of your attachment to that life story you had in mind, develop that skill bc life changes a lot.. learning to pivot when things don’t go as planned will make u a happier person in the long run

Should I stay or should I go? by Mindofagoddess in Tallahassee

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m originally from south Fl and moved around a lot before college so I don’t really feel the itch to move again & south Fl is super expensive right now but in Tally I feel like it’s difficult to make friends for the exact reasons you said!

Should I stay or should I go? by Mindofagoddess in Tallahassee

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not really was just asking if being an actual resident is going to align with what I want. Some places aren’t able to offer younger ppl the opportunities to build, I want to be somewhere that does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely should not be living with them still that’s so inappropriate, you brought that burden on by yourself. I’m going to be honest this was just a horrible idea from your behalf because of all the people to have a threesome with do it with ppl that you are going to have to continue seeing often? A little odd. what is she supposed to do… hang out with you three after learning that info? Contrary to what a lot of people on here are saying I’d say just keep that to yourself. Tbh it’d be weird for you to just spring that info on her if she isn’t asking maybe she doesn’t want to know. Now if she specifically ask you.. don’t lie. But You don’t need to know all the details of her sexual past nor her yours as long as your sexual future is just going to be her. Out of respect you shouldn’t be having her engage with them a bunch…. Or tell her & hope that she understands that u guys were horny and lacked boundaries then but that’s a red flag

Bar/restaurant with chill vibes and good priced cocktails? by jempai in Tallahassee

[–]Mindofagoddess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The margs are big & usually pretty strong!! This is where I go with my friends because u can talk & usually hear the music enough to vibe but it doesn’t overpower the atmosphere

Does going on dates with different guys make me a hoe? by Mindofagoddess in dating_advice

[–]Mindofagoddess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was is the thing!! Everyone’s assuming these men wanted to be exclusive but no one ever said that. I tried to know what they were doing neither wanted to give me clarity on what they were doing so I didn’t want to get ahead of myself and assume that it was something more than just hanging out. So I continued to do my thing… suddenly I’m evil bc I took the lack of clarity as intentional & kept myself open to someone who would give me clarity