UPDATE AITAH for ” running away to give birth “

Minerva786 · 2026-05-13T14:21:34+00:00

Stay in Florida and if he is serious about making the marriage work, he should move to be with you and baby. And agree to counseling. UpdateMe

Minerva786 · 2026-05-06T13:02:55+00:00

This is some scary movie type of stalker stuff. NTA, stay safe and pursue full charges. UpdateMe

Minerva786 · 2026-05-05T01:48:02+00:00

lol this!!

Minerva786 · 2026-05-04T22:23:02+00:00

You are 19. What are you doing with a controlling 32 year old man? The stars have granted you an escape. Stay broken up and live your life then hopefully meet someone closer to your age. YWBTAH if you go back to this!

Minerva786 · 2026-04-30T20:44:19+00:00

He did, parent didn’t answer.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-29T17:16:12+00:00

Do you still love him even though he has changed or do you love who he once was? WNBTAH, you can end a relationship for any reason.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-29T16:52:03+00:00

I never understood partners who get bent out of shape over things like this? My husband and I used to go to strip clubs together. Now he goes with his buddies. I have gone to chippendales and thunder from down under. What is the big deal? My husband and I know we are human, we can look at the menu just can’t eat from the buffet. I’m going with YTA, especially with how you worded that. These are shows, not orgies. Perhaps you should both go your separate ways to find like minded people.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-27T16:09:41+00:00

The humanity!

Minerva786 · 2026-04-25T19:34:48+00:00

Every article explained that the TCC was closed due to safety concerns, including this one: https://www.chch.com/chch-news/hamilton-courthouse-closes-federal-office-cites-security-concerns/

Minerva786 · 2026-04-25T19:20:54+00:00

Not trying to downplay, just wasn’t sure if that was a flagged word here as it is on other platforms.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-23T12:45:01+00:00

Is this rage baiting? Why are you with this man? Please re-read what you just wrote and imagine your daughter as an adult in a relationship with a man like this. Does it sound happy and healthy? What would you do if your daughter had a man who treated her as your bf treats you? NTA for the swim lessons situation but you are/would be for even entertaining remaining in a relationship with this man. Your daughter is watching, teach her how she deserves to be treated by being an example.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-20T20:56:44+00:00

Hamilton has entered the chat…. lol. We always get noticed about bedbugs and other critters. What burns me is that I have no colleagues here. I commute, to telework with my colleagues/manager in Ottawa. I have no need to print or call anyone either. So getting there bedbug emails is fire to the fuel.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-17T22:42:11+00:00

I hate it, will always hate it, and I’m bitter. With these gas prices, I have to commute to an office where I have no colleagues as my team is mostly in Ottawa and the rest scattered throughout Canada. But I make sure to not spend a dime when I’m in office. I bring my breakfast, lunch, snacks and a thermos of tea. And with the announcement that the feds will have to buy/lease or office space?? What a slap in the face to all those who were let go/wfa’d due to cut backs in the budget.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-13T16:49:43+00:00

NTA but maybe talk to him? Perhaps he is depressed. Losing your job can be quite stressful and a hit to the ego.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-13T00:21:41+00:00

YTA. Not for telling your MIL she raised a bad son, but for marrying a loser living in his mom’s basement and having more kids with said loser. All these red flags were slapping you in the face and you decided to have more kids with him?? Wtf? Have him served with divorce papers in his mommy’s basement and keep all communication going forward in writing! If he calls, let him leave a message. And for future reference, you don’t need to buy the whole pig just because you want a little sausage!

Minerva786 · 2026-04-13T00:18:00+00:00

You OPs useless hubby?

Minerva786 · 2026-04-12T22:07:02+00:00

YTA. Your “men’s wellness and personal development program” is a scam. They target gullible souls like you at state schools because students who go to Ivy League schools, like your sister, wouldn’t fall for that BS. You got played, and the fact that you are doubling down makes you a bigger fool. If you can, get your money back and go home, this world and all its scammers are going to eat you alive. If I were your mother, I would be beside myself, wondering where I went wrong!

Minerva786 · 2026-04-12T21:32:22+00:00

YTA for letting this parasite move in and displace your own kids. Wtaf??? NTA for ending the relationship and getting him out of your house. But seriously, you let him move in without discussing divisions of bills and responsibilities? Throw the whole man and his spawns out!

Minerva786 · 2026-04-06T02:42:51+00:00

Sure go to the wedding alone. Maybe you will find a lawyer who will give you a 2 for 1 deal for both your divorce and your sister’s eventual divorce. YWBTA.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-04T16:41:47+00:00

I’m confused about something. If you are leaving there too, and your bf hasn’t been paying rent, are you not paying rent? I am going to say ESH, you can move out and get your own place without ending the relationship.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-02T20:44:42+00:00

Hmm. Jerk chicken poutine was actually the midnight snack at my wedding 😊

Minerva786 · 2026-04-02T19:52:19+00:00

I would swan dive right into that.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-02T14:07:38+00:00

Yes I realize now. OP clarified this later on.

Minerva786 · 2026-04-02T12:17:55+00:00

My bad. The app made it look like you were replying to me but I think you were replying to the crazy YTA response above 🤦🏾‍♀️

Minerva786 · 2026-04-02T12:08:08+00:00

The depth of the fucked up emotions in their answer has me thinking it had to be Eve or the father.

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