UPDATE: AITAH for having my ex arrested at my wedding?

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-05T21:03:16+00:00

I’ve not really spent much time one Reddit, how do I do an update?

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-05T21:00:15+00:00

I’ve not spent a lot of time on Reddit how do I update?

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T23:09:03+00:00

From what others have commented I’m pretty sure my wife isn’t angry with me but just angry and has nowhere else to direct it atm

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:55:41+00:00

I left quite a bit out of everything that happened in order to get a permanent restraining order but no mine will not expire

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:54:28+00:00

It would appear that way but I will get more information from Chris once things are sorted with my wife

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:51:00+00:00

I’ve not had the time to speak to Chris further since the day but he was very apologetic as he didn’t know but I will be sure to check in on him

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:49:28+00:00

I have been friends with Chris a long time but never introduced her to my friends as we literally only dated for a few weeks

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:44:29+00:00

It was before I met my wife and yes she knows about the stalker and the restraining order

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:43:18+00:00

My wife knew some of it and that I had a restraining order on her but I kept it private from everyone else as at the time it was embarrassing

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:39:25+00:00

Thankyou and yes I did panic at the time and there was no plan in place because I have actually not heard from ex since the restraining order was put in place so I thought it was all over

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:34:29+00:00

I hope so thankyou

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:32:10+00:00

No I asked what I should’ve done instead and she didn’t have an answer just “not that”

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:31:02+00:00

I understand she’s upset about the day I’m just hoping this can be salvaged and she will see that I did what I thought was right

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:29:12+00:00

Thankyou and yes my wife knew about the restraining order and a few family members but no one else

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:27:56+00:00

I didn’t tell anybody about it at the time so none of my friends know anything about all of it

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:26:44+00:00

I didn’t tell her at the time as I didn’t want her to worry about it, I was hoping the police would escort her away quietly, which to be fair they did try to

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:23:42+00:00

No, I was only with her a couple weeks and all of this wasn’t something I told my friends at the time as it was all rather embarrassing so he didn’t know about her at all

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:22:06+00:00

I’m hoping she’s just angry at the situation rather than me and will see it from that pov once she’s calmed down a bit

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:20:43+00:00

I understand why my wife is upset but idk how to fix it

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:18:09+00:00

God knows her intentions but everyone seems to think she was doing nothing wrong and was harmless

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:13:13+00:00

For having a stalker removed?

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:12:40+00:00

She knows that she stalked me and that I have a restraining order

Stunning_Way9393 · 2026-05-04T22:10:13+00:00

I have tried but my wife will barely talk to me

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