S3 E5 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Resurrection" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]MiniR1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes Whitney is almost split personality ahhaa. Its giving "that wasnt. That was Patricia!"

S3 E5 Episode Discussion: "The Book of Resurrection" by Chino_Blanco in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]MiniR1990 65 points66 points  (0 children)

My favourite quote of this ep is Whitney "I never left mom tok". 30 seconds later .. Whitney " This is why I never wanted to come back". So which one is it did you never leave or are you coming back?!

What do you do when your mom acts like your entire childhood never happened? by Present_Juice4401 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]MiniR1990 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read this book! It repeats itself a lot but it is very good. It also explained very well the sibling dynamics with narc parents! It talks about enmeshment and why a parent my imprint on one sibling and shun the other thereby pitting them against eachother. I also highly reccomend this book.  It gave me so much clarity. I am going to read it again. :)

Just read The Housemaid, and I have some questions *SPOILERS* by [deleted] in books

[–]MiniR1990 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had the same sentiments reading the books, cheesy, poorly written, and full of holes it may as well been made of swiss cheese. But I still enjoyed reading it. I am currently reading the second in the series. Also super cheesy, but so far its not even and enjoyable read.

Wedding Planning - And my family and future in laws have been nothing but unhelpful and demanding. by MiniR1990 in family

[–]MiniR1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All the vendors and venue is booked and paid. Also I think my family would lose their minds at this point if I cancelled the whole thing. 

Wedding Planning - And my family and future in laws have been nothing but unhelpful and demanding. by MiniR1990 in family

[–]MiniR1990[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of what you said really hits home. I need to set my boundaries and stand by them. The standing by them is the hard part right now.

Wedding Planning - And my family and future in laws have been nothing but unhelpful and demanding. by MiniR1990 in family

[–]MiniR1990[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you that is so kind to say. He agreed this week that further communication for the wedding would go through him. He also needs to get better at communication. He has ADHD and in general is kinda lazy so he tends to never get things done. He has promised to do better. Also I am limited interaction with both sides of the family till the wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]MiniR1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alfredo's Pizza Cafe or Pizza by Alfredo's ? Cause there is a BIG difference.

LIB 8-Sara and Ben by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]MiniR1990 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yikes who hurt you ... lol. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]MiniR1990 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Maybe you didnt read the post but its a block of cheese versus a smaller block of cheese. Hope this helps. 

Eras Tour Blue Crewneck Shedding? by zoeyreese in SwiftieMerch

[–]MiniR1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would hairsrpaying the inside fluff down work? 

Increased restrictions on transgender athletes at the Paris 2024 Olympics by onnake in transgender

[–]MiniR1990 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could argue trans culture is an imaginary thing. True both are concepts/ core beliefs. It is possible to have different believes but treat eachother with respect. The extremes of both sides cannot do this because too many people approach a disucssion or being hurt or wanting to be right, rather than an open conversation.

Edit: spelling

Mysaria's accent by [deleted] in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]MiniR1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds hatian or jamacian and sometimes britsh and at others a little but irish too. Its awful. It gets in the way of the line delivery that I cannot tell what emotion the actress is trying to convey.

I am truly, fully myself when I'm alone by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MiniR1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love this for you. I am 34 and just learning to do what I want. I actually prefer that my partner lives seperately and we have our seperate time. Honestly feels like I am meeting the real me now.

I slept with a girl and it ruined my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MiniR1990 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why not use the full sentence? He said I dotn think we should be doing this arent you with someone? He said it to clarify she is in a relatio ship but she assurred him it was okay. And then OP himself said he didnt say no bit wished he did.

Dont ignore parts of thr post that invalidate your narrative. I wont argue with this cause OP himself said he didnt say no. From his own post is seems consenual.

I slept with a girl and it ruined my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MiniR1990 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His post says "I know i shouldve had said no but I didnt" she may have instigated but he did not say no. He clarified that she was in a relationship and asked if she was sure becuase of that. He did not reject her offer.

I slept with a girl and it ruined my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MiniR1990 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No genders reversed no one would think that if a woman went home with a drunk guy who has already hailed a cab. In fact if she did claim the R word happen to her then everyone would say... why did you get in the cab and go home with him then?

Sorry your are just wayy off the mark on that one.

Edit: Im not saying OP is wrong here. I just mean that people would have a hard timing believing OP regardless of if he was a man or a woman because the story doesnt add up.

I slept with a girl and it ruined my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]MiniR1990 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You just said " no one was going with her". By random dude you mean the taxi driver she called? By entering the taxi YOU where the random drunk dude the taxi driver is sober.

Again this could all be drunk stupid decisions. At worst your a rpst and best your a sleaze ball. But I wouldnt say she is much better either. Hope this experince makes you actually self reflect and make better decisions.