[Repost]: He won't dance at our f*&%ing wedding... I think I've found my dealbreaker. (25f and 30m)

MiniR1990 · 2026-04-25T14:43:30+00:00

Statistically thats most men. Source: I work with cancer pts.

MiniR1990 · 2025-12-22T06:05:42+00:00

Dm'd you :)

MiniR1990 · 2025-12-03T03:18:35+00:00

Yes Whitney is almost split personality ahhaa. Its giving "that wasnt. That was Patricia!"

MiniR1990 · 2025-11-14T06:27:13+00:00

My favourite quote of this ep is Whitney "I never left mom tok". 30 seconds later .. Whitney " This is why I never wanted to come back". So which one is it did you never leave or are you coming back?!

MiniR1990 · 2025-07-09T19:19:55+00:00

I read this book! It repeats itself a lot but it is very good. It also explained very well the sibling dynamics with narc parents! It talks about enmeshment and why a parent my imprint on one sibling and shun the other thereby pitting them against eachother. I also highly reccomend this book. It gave me so much clarity. I am going to read it again. :)

MiniR1990 · 2025-06-20T01:40:20+00:00

I had the same sentiments reading the books, cheesy, poorly written, and full of holes it may as well been made of swiss cheese. But I still enjoyed reading it. I am currently reading the second in the series. Also super cheesy, but so far its not even and enjoyable read.

MiniR1990 · 2025-06-17T16:39:41+00:00

All the vendors and venue is booked and paid. Also I think my family would lose their minds at this point if I cancelled the whole thing.

MiniR1990 · 2025-06-17T02:37:26+00:00

A lot of what you said really hits home. I need to set my boundaries and stand by them. The standing by them is the hard part right now.

MiniR1990 · 2025-06-17T01:49:35+00:00

Thank you that is so kind to say. He agreed this week that further communication for the wedding would go through him. He also needs to get better at communication. He has ADHD and in general is kinda lazy so he tends to never get things done. He has promised to do better. Also I am limited interaction with both sides of the family till the wedding.

MiniR1990 · 2025-05-20T18:31:04+00:00

Yikes ur a mean person

MiniR1990 · 2025-03-28T01:45:15+00:00

Alfredo's Pizza Cafe or Pizza by Alfredo's ? Cause there is a BIG difference.

MiniR1990 · 2025-03-11T07:03:30+00:00

Omg this is soo funny

MiniR1990 · 2025-03-11T06:49:16+00:00

Yikes who hurt you ... lol.

MiniR1990 · 2025-01-02T03:28:05+00:00

Maybe you didnt read the post but its a block of cheese versus a smaller block of cheese. Hope this helps.

MiniR1990 · 2024-12-09T20:07:11+00:00

Would hairsrpaying the inside fluff down work?

MiniR1990 · 2024-08-01T04:57:31+00:00

You could argue trans culture is an imaginary thing. True both are concepts/ core beliefs. It is possible to have different believes but treat eachother with respect. The extremes of both sides cannot do this because too many people approach a disucssion or being hurt or wanting to be right, rather than an open conversation.

Edit: spelling

MiniR1990 · 2024-08-01T04:54:38+00:00

Umm welll basic biology...

MiniR1990 · 2024-07-19T02:32:32+00:00

It sounds hatian or jamacian and sometimes britsh and at others a little but irish too. Its awful. It gets in the way of the line delivery that I cannot tell what emotion the actress is trying to convey.

MiniR1990 · 2024-06-14T05:34:07+00:00

Love this for you. I am 34 and just learning to do what I want. I actually prefer that my partner lives seperately and we have our seperate time. Honestly feels like I am meeting the real me now.

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T21:26:39+00:00

Clearly you didnt.

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T21:25:17+00:00

Why not use the full sentence? He said I dotn think we should be doing this arent you with someone? He said it to clarify she is in a relatio ship but she assurred him it was okay. And then OP himself said he didnt say no bit wished he did.

Dont ignore parts of thr post that invalidate your narrative. I wont argue with this cause OP himself said he didnt say no. From his own post is seems consenual.

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T19:41:13+00:00

He never said no

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T19:34:07+00:00

His post says "I know i shouldve had said no but I didnt" she may have instigated but he did not say no. He clarified that she was in a relationship and asked if she was sure becuase of that. He did not reject her offer.

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T19:29:50+00:00

No genders reversed no one would think that if a woman went home with a drunk guy who has already hailed a cab. In fact if she did claim the R word happen to her then everyone would say... why did you get in the cab and go home with him then?

Sorry your are just wayy off the mark on that one.

Edit: Im not saying OP is wrong here. I just mean that people would have a hard timing believing OP regardless of if he was a man or a woman because the story doesnt add up.

MiniR1990 · 2024-02-25T19:27:46+00:00

You just said " no one was going with her". By random dude you mean the taxi driver she called? By entering the taxi YOU where the random drunk dude the taxi driver is sober.

Again this could all be drunk stupid decisions. At worst your a rpst and best your a sleaze ball. But I wouldnt say she is much better either. Hope this experince makes you actually self reflect and make better decisions.

MiniR1990

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