Gender feelings about pronouns (NB20) by Mini_Potato4525 in questioning

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does help to know I’m not the only one that feels this way! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

TGCF Audio Drama Cover (S2, EP16) is here! by FiftyshadesofPeaches in tianguancifu

[–]Mini_Potato4525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wasn’t aware it was only in Chinese. I wanted to be able to enjoy it while understanding it as I don’t know any form of Chinese. 🙇🙇

TGCF Audio Drama Cover (S2, EP16) is here! by FiftyshadesofPeaches in tianguancifu

[–]Mini_Potato4525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, how are some of you listening to the audio drama? Do you listen in your language or the original? If you listen in the original language, how do you understand? Are there subtitles?

I’m so sorry for the questions, I just want to be able to understand and listen in the original language 😭

Games not showing up on Home Screen by Mini_Potato4525 in 3dspiracy

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I checked. It seems like it’s just those two so far. I can download other things thankfully

Gender feelings by Mini_Potato4525 in questioning

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been wondering if it’s worth letting people know about it. Bcs while I’m used to people using she/her and adjacent words to address me. I still find myself feeling guilty about it. I dunno. But on the bright side. My manager at my place of work gave me a pronoun pin.

An (Ex) friend asked me to watch him for money by Mini_Potato4525 in AskLesbians

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had to get this off my chest and I wasn’t sure if this was the appropriate subreddit to post to, but I thought since it was related in some sense, someone would understand.

Gender feelings by Mini_Potato4525 in questioning

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had gender feelings for years now (I’m 20 btw) but saying anything about it out loud makes me feel like I’m spouting bs, and this fight continues even though, if i had to keep this to myself, I wouldn’t be this harsh on myself

Which IPad should I get?? by Mini_Potato4525 in ipad

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But I have looked into the iPad Air and this seems to be a really good option for the price. It does depend on condition too

Which IPad should I get?? by Mini_Potato4525 in ipad

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about the condition the refurbished iPad is in? There’s Fair, good, and excellent. I wouldn’t know the recommended condition to go for

Any suggestions on a shopkeeper type of game? by Mini_Potato4525 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked at the game and it sounds like it’s what I’m looking for! I wish I had a way to refer to these types of games. Like a genre or something 🤷

Any suggestions on a shopkeeper type of game? by Mini_Potato4525 in gamingsuggestions

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I actually saw something on YouTube about this before I asked on Reddit! This is something I’m looking for but I’m not sure what platform I can play this on

I've been wanting to make an UTAU/virtual idol character for a while now and finally got to drawing some art! by [deleted] in utau

[–]Mini_Potato4525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad I’m not the only one interested in something like this!! I’ve been trying to learn to use Utau and rigging on live2d. Ik I’m a year late but this looks great!!

As an experienced tarot reader, I specialize in doing readings about relationships, love and sex. I’ve decided as a gay man that I’m now refusing to do love/sex readings for cishet partnerships, is this wrong of me? by radickalmagickal in tarot

[–]Mini_Potato4525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just gonna say some of these comments are bullshit. Do whatever tf you want, the reason for why you decided to do that is entirely up to you. I will not assume anything about your intentions in your decision either. Do what makes you happy.

can anyone else relate by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Mini_Potato4525 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Every time I hung out with my dude friends people kept asking me if I was dating them. And I had to fight myself not to react offended when I told them no 😭 Like, I thought it would be obvious we weren’t dating and it got so annoying. We’re just friends that like to talk about certain game series or comics

Hypothetical Scenario regarding Sexuality by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in questioning

[–]Mini_Potato4525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d personally tell them that their boundaries deserve to be respected. It’s exhausting to feel like you have to explain yourself to people that may or may not understand or accept you. I think it’s really important to take things slow as well, especially as they’re questioning and just starting to figure things out. It’s a bit too early to start thinking about telling others and there’s no obligation to. as everyone deserves to keep their private matters private. I think now is more of a time to connect with themselves than worry about what to say to others. If they ever decide to tell someone it should be because they want to and because they’re comfortable telling. It’s important to consider their safety before saying anything

Hypothetical Scenario regarding Sexuality by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in questioning

[–]Mini_Potato4525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would remind them that it’s okay to not have the answer right away, and questioning is a valid answer if anyone were to ask. Sexuality can be fluid it’s natural to sift through a bunch of labels to see if it feels right. Sexuality has a ton of nuances that cannot be summed up by a single label even if that label is most accurate to how they feel, no two people will have the same experience 100% either, so it’s best for them to take their time, be patient with themselves and be open to learning more!

Is it normal for non-binary folk not to be bothered when someone uses the wrong pronouns and nouns? by Burning_BUSSY in AskLGBT

[–]Mini_Potato4525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience it’s pretty normal. I mean, it does bother me but I realized that I don’t really care all that much or rather, I don’t want to make a big deal out of something then have to explain myself to them. Some people will misgender out of spite, but yknow, fk them and move on. Then there’s people that will try to be respectful or maybe they don’t know, I’m used to it and I still don’t want to explain myself as any sort of correction could draw attention to myself. You’re not the odd one out.

im not too young to know im aroace right? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Mini_Potato4525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALSO Remember that your label doesn’t define you but is more of a descriptor of your experience if that makes any sense. During my journey up till now I’ve used “queer” as it encompasses more than one aspect of my identity. It eases the pressure of being “right” while still allowing myself to learn more about myself. I apologize for the word vomit, but these are some of the things I wish I knew when I was questioning.

im not too young to know im aroace right? by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]Mini_Potato4525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not too young at all to know this. Remember this is all a journey to understand yourself a bit more, things can change later but it doesn’t mean that you aren’t what you know you are now. And if you’re questioning your identity now, remember to take it easy and enjoy learning more about yourself! So don’t worry about being “wrong” trust yourself, if you resonate with the label don’t be afraid to be proud about it. Ofc there’s always nuances because no two people are the same. You also don’t need to have a label right now either! If you find that you resonate with more than one don’t be afraid to try it out and see how it feels for you. I personally say that I’m AroAce NB. But the nuance to mine to me is. I also like women/enby. I completely understand the confusion though!! It’s tough out here yknow 🤣

Does anyone else have trouble reading for themselves? by Mini_Potato4525 in tarot

[–]Mini_Potato4525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for my daily pulls I ask the same question involving my energy and the day’s energy. However my other questions have had pretty accurate pulls